Yngsta d\u00f3ttir \u00fe\u00edn, h\u00fan Freyd\u00eds er greind me\u00f0 Willams heilkenni. Viltu segja okkur fr\u00e1 Williams heilkenninu, hvernig \u00feau einkenni l\u00fdsa s\u00e9r og hven\u00e6r h\u00fan greinist?<\/strong><\/p>\n Williams-heilkenni er vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 hluta litnings n\u00famer sj\u00f6 vantar. Heilkenni\u00f0 er ekki tengt erf\u00f0um og einkennin eru b\u00e6\u00f0i andleg og l\u00edkamleg. Me\u00f0al helstu einkenna eru \u00f3v\u00e6r\u00f0 ungbarna og erfi\u00f0leikar vi\u00f0 n\u00e6ringu en \u00fev\u00ed \u00fer\u00edfast b\u00f6rn me\u00f0 Williams-heilkenni\u00f0 illa. V\u00f6\u00f0vaspenna er l\u00e1g, li\u00f0ir lausir og b\u00f6rn byrja oft ekki a\u00f0 ganga fyrr en r\u00famlega tveggja \u00e1ra. \u00deau eiga erftitt me\u00f0 f\u00ednhreyfingar, sj\u00f3nin er oft l\u00e9leg og m\u00f6rg eiga \u00ed hjarta- og \u00e6\u00f0avandam\u00e1lum. \u00deroskasker\u00f0ing er talsver\u00f0 en mismikil milli einstaklinga. Williams-krakkar eru f\u00e9lagslyndir og j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0ir \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir vandam\u00e1lin sem \u00feeir \u00feurfa a\u00f0 leysa.<\/p>\n Freyd\u00eds f\u00e9kk greiningu \u00ed jan\u00faar 2015 \u00fe\u00e1 r\u00famlega \u00e1rs g\u00f6mul.<\/p>\n Viltu segja okkur fr\u00e1 Freyd\u00edsi, hvernig karakter er h\u00fan og hverjir eru hennar helstu styrkleikar?<\/strong><\/p>\n Freyd\u00eds Borg er l\u00edklega ein s\u00fa fyndnasta manneskja sem \u00e9g \u00feekki. Hvar sem h\u00fan er og \u00ed hva\u00f0 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um sem er \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e6r h\u00fan f\u00f3lk til a\u00f0 hl\u00e6ja. Freyd\u00eds er afskaplega upp\u00e1t\u00e6kjas\u00f6m og er ekki tilb\u00fain a\u00f0 skilgreina hva\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 nei \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir. H\u00fan er \u00e1kve\u00f0in og \u00e6tlar s\u00e9r algj\u00f6rlega langt \u00ed l\u00edfinu. H\u00fan er a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra en hefur \u00ed raun \u00feroska \u00e1 vi\u00f0 tveggja \u00e1ra barn a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu leiti. Nema \u00ed talm\u00e1li. \u00dear er h\u00fan alveg s\u00fa allra fr\u00e1b\u00e6rasta og f\u00e1tt skemmtilegra en a\u00f0 eiga vi\u00f0 hana samt\u00f6l um daginn og veginn.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 eru til afskaplega margar g\u00f3\u00f0ar s\u00f6gur af Freyd\u00edsi Borg. Um daginn var \u00e9g me\u00f0 hana \u00ed matarb\u00fa\u00f0. \u00de\u00e1 stoppar kona og segir \u201eH\u00e6 Freyd\u00eds! Hva\u00f0 segir \u00fe\u00fa gott?\u201c Freyd\u00eds svarar og segir \u201e\u00c9g! \u00c9g segi bara allt gott\u201c og spyr konuna svo \u00e1 m\u00f3ti hvernig h\u00fan hefur \u00fea\u00f0 og \u00far ver\u00f0ur samtal \u00feeirra \u00e1 milli. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i enga hugmynd um hva\u00f0a kona \u00feetta var og blanda\u00f0i m\u00e9r samt ekki inn \u00ed samtali\u00f0. Konan f\u00f3r svo og \u00e9g spyr Freyd\u00edsi hver \u00feetta hafi veri\u00f0 og h\u00fan svarar:<\/p>\n \u201e\u00c6 mamma vinkonu minnar \u00far leiksk\u00f3lanum\u201c. Eins og \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekkert e\u00f0lilegra a\u00f0 t\u00e6plega fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra barn s\u00e9 bara \u00e1 spjallinu vi\u00f0 m\u00e6\u00f0ur annarra barna \u00far leiksk\u00f3lanum.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n En \u00feetta er ekta Freyd\u00eds Borg, \u00feeir sem hitta hana muna eftir henni og h\u00fan man eftir \u00feeim. H\u00fan er mikil f\u00e9lagsvera og s\u00e6kir mun meira \u00ed samt\u00f6l vi\u00f0 fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk en \u00ed leik vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00e1 s\u00ednum aldri.<\/p>\n N\u00fa upplif\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00fa mj\u00f6g erfi\u00f0an t\u00edma \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0 a\u00f0 greiningu Freyd\u00edsar og n\u00fdveri\u00f0 gekkstu \u00ed gegnum skilna\u00f0, viltu deila me\u00f0 okkur hvernig \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1kva\u00f0st a\u00f0 breyta l\u00edfi \u00fe\u00ednu og takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r breytingar sem \u00e1ttu s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 \u00ed l\u00edfi \u00fe\u00ednu?<\/strong><\/p>\n Eftir f\u00e6\u00f0ingu Freyd\u00edsar breyttist allt l\u00edfi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 me\u00f0 sanni segja \u00fea\u00f0. Fyrstu tv\u00f6 og h\u00e1lfa \u00e1ri\u00f0 hennar er t\u00edmi sem reyndist m\u00e9r og \u00f6llum mj\u00f6g erfi\u00f0ur.\u00a0 T\u00edmi sem \u00e9g myndi ekki vilja st\u00edga inn \u00ed aftur. \u00dea\u00f0 var mikil \u00f3vissa me\u00f0 allt, Freyd\u00eds var langt \u00e1 eftir \u00ed l\u00edkamlegum \u00feroska, svaf n\u00e1nast aldrei, var \u00f3v\u00e6r, gr\u00e9t miki\u00f0 og vi\u00f0 foreldarnir \u00fereytt og labbandi \u00e1 milli l\u00e6kna \u00ed leit a\u00f0 sv\u00f6rum og a\u00f0sto\u00f0. \u00c1 \u00feessum t\u00edma f\u00e9kk \u00e9g tauga\u00e1fall og \u00fea\u00f0 hefur veri\u00f0 langt ferli a\u00f0 vinna sig alveg upp \u00far \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 er afskaplega erfitt a\u00f0 upplifa vanm\u00e1ttinn sem fylgir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera hent inn \u00ed heim sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00feekkir ekki. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt er fatla\u00f0 og a\u00f0 lesa um f\u00f6tlunina ger\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 mikil hr\u00e6\u00f0sla greip um sig hj\u00e1 okkur. Eftir \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00e1ttar ma\u00f0ur sig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feetta er ekki svona skelfilegt. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert skelfilegt a\u00f0 eiga Freyd\u00edsi, h\u00fan er j\u00fa me\u00f0 litningagalla og henni fylgja krefjandi verkefni. En h\u00fan er fr\u00e1b\u00e6r og l\u00edfi\u00f0 me\u00f0 henni er fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt og bara langt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera skelfilegt. Enda er h\u00fan a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu leiti bara eins og jafnaldrar s\u00ednir, h\u00fan \u00fearf bara a\u00f0eins meiri um\u00f6nnun og einfaldanir \u00e1 sumt en tilvera hennar, v\u00e6ntingar og \u00fearfir eru n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og annarra.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega svo a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 hr\u00e6\u00f0umst oft \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 \u00feekkjum ekki. \u00deeir sem \u00feekkja heim fatla\u00f0ra ekki hr\u00e6\u00f0ast hann, og jafnvel vorkenna \u00f6\u00f0rum sem eru \u00ed honum.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Vi\u00f0 \u00f6lum stundum b\u00f6rnin okkar upp vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 megi ekki horfa n\u00e9 benda \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem er \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi. Kennum \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00ed raun fr\u00e1 bernsku a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sk\u00f6mmumst okkar fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 sem er \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi. \u00cd sta\u00f0in fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra og r\u00e6\u00f0a hlutina.<\/p>\n Ef barn spyr og bendir \u00e1 fatla\u00f0an einstakling og segir\u00a0 \u201ehva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 honum?\u201c \u00fe\u00e1 er okkur e\u00f0lisl\u00e6gt a\u00f0 sl\u00e1 \u00e1 puttana \u00e1 barninu og banna \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 horfa og svara \u00e9g veit \u00fea\u00f0 ekki. \u00cd sta\u00f0in fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra, e\u00f0a jafnvel bara opna umr\u00e6\u00f0u vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0komandi og r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin \u00ed framhaldi.<\/p>\n V\u00ed\u00f0s\u00fdni er nefnilega sterkasta vopni\u00f0 gegn ford\u00f3mum og til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0last v\u00ed\u00f0s\u00fdni \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sv\u00f6r vi\u00f0 spurningum okkar og f\u00e1 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hugsanir okkar \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 skammast okkar fyrir \u00fe\u00e6r.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n \u00c9g var \u00e1 \u00feessum sta\u00f0, \u00e9g vorkenndi m\u00f6mmum sem \u00e1ttu f\u00f6tlu\u00f0 b\u00f6rn. Skildi ekki hvernig \u00fe\u00e6r f\u00f3ru a\u00f0 og fannst \u00fe\u00e6r hetjur a\u00f0 fara \u00ed gegnum daginn og vera ekki bara heima hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r gr\u00e1tandi yfir eigin \u00f6rl\u00f6gum. \u00dea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf mitt hefur svo sannarlega breyst, foreldrar fatla\u00f0ra barna eru hetjur. \u00dea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur ekki teki\u00f0 af neinu \u00feeirra, \u00fev\u00ed \u00feessi bar\u00e1tta er mikil. Hinsvegar erum vi\u00f0 flest bara venjulegt f\u00f3lk sem fengum \u00feetta hlutskipti \u00ed l\u00edfi\u00f0 og vi\u00f0 vinnum me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 dag fr\u00e1 degi, \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum ekki anna\u00f0 val. Kannski hetjur hversdagsins, en \u00fea\u00f0 er engin \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 loka sig af og rei\u00f0ast heiminum e\u00f0a horfa \u00e1 okkur \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi.<\/p>\n E\u00f0a \u00e9g t\u00f3k allavega \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un, a\u00f0 ef a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 koma Freyd\u00edsi \u00ed gegnum \u00feann frumsk\u00f3g sem l\u00edfi\u00f0 mun bj\u00f3\u00f0a henni upp \u00e1, heilbrig\u00f0iskerfi\u00f0, sk\u00f3lakerfi\u00f0, ford\u00f3ma og alla \u00fe\u00e1 veggi sem vi\u00f0 erum \u00feegar byrja\u00f0ar a\u00f0 feta saman, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00fearf \u00e9g a\u00f0 vera sterk, \u00e9g \u00feurfti \u00e1 n\u00fdju vi\u00f0horfi a\u00f0 halda og krafta til a\u00f0 geta sta\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00ed b\u00e1\u00f0ar lappir.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n \u00cd jan\u00faar 2016 var \u00e9g alveg komin \u00ed \u00ferot. \u00c9g \u00e1tti ekkert inni og fannst \u00e9g b\u00fain a\u00f0 missa t\u00f6kin \u00e1 \u00f6llu. \u00c9g f\u00e9kk ofsakv\u00ed\u00f0ak\u00f6st trekk \u00ed trekk og r\u00e9tt n\u00e1\u00f0i a\u00f0 halda andliti til a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta til vinnu. \u00deess \u00e1 milli gr\u00e9t \u00e9g \u00fat \u00ed eitt. \u00c9g held reyndar a\u00f0 \u00fat \u00e1 vi\u00f0 hafi \u00e9g haldi\u00f0 ansi sterku andliti.<\/p>\n \u00c9g skr\u00e1\u00f0i mig inn \u00e1 Heilsustofnunina \u00ed Hverager\u00f0i. \u00cd raun bara til a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sm\u00e1 hv\u00edld. \u00dear hitti \u00e9g l\u00e6kni og sag\u00f0i honum a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00feyrfti bara a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00e1f\u00f6llin sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i upplifa\u00f0 \u00ed eitt skipti fyrir \u00f6ll, \u00e9g v\u00e6ri komin til \u00feess. Hann svara\u00f0i m\u00e9r um h\u00e6l og benti m\u00e9r \u00e1 a\u00f0 m\u00e9r myndi aldrei takast \u00fea\u00f0. Sem var ekki beint svari\u00f0 sem mig langa\u00f0i a\u00f0 heyra! En svo kom hann me\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0 sem breytti l\u00edfi m\u00ednu. Hann sag\u00f0i m\u00e9r a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 hugsa um andlegu heilsuna, \u00e9g \u00e6tti ekki ro\u00f0 \u00ed hana \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00e9g v\u00e6ri enn \u00ed \u00e1falli. Hann sag\u00f0i m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tti a\u00f0 huga a\u00f0 l\u00edkamanum m\u00ednum, hann \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 vera sterkur til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti lifa\u00f0 af. Af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 stundum erum vi\u00f0 mannf\u00f3lki\u00f0 bara eins og d\u00fdrin \u00ed sk\u00f3ginum, vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum bara a\u00f0 finna \u00fat hvernig vi\u00f0 lifum af og ekki fl\u00e6kja \u00feetta um og of me\u00f0 hugsunum. \u00deannig lei\u00f0 m\u00e9r n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega \u00e1 \u00feessum t\u00edma. M\u00e9r fannst \u00e9g eiga erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 lifa af og erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3ta mig \u00ed eigin l\u00edfi.<\/p>\n \u00c9g t\u00f3k hann \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1 or\u00f0inu og lag\u00f0i allt \u00ed a\u00f0 hreyfa mig og sm\u00e1m saman breyttist \u00e9g \u00ed gegnum hreyfinguna, hugarfari\u00f0 mitt, lundin m\u00edn og allt saman. \u00c9g breytti engu \u00f6\u00f0ru en me\u00f0 betri l\u00ed\u00f0an breyttist \u00e9g. \u00a0\u00c9g byrja\u00f0i \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fara \u00fat a\u00f0 hlaupa me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ri vinkonu og setti m\u00e9r markmi\u00f0 a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed hlaupakeppni \u00feremur m\u00e1nu\u00f0um seinna. Keppnirnar ur\u00f0u svo \u00fe\u00f3 nokkrar \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0asta \u00e1ri. \u00c9g t\u00f3k svo sumari\u00f0 \u00ed a\u00f0 hj\u00f3la og fann hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er gaman a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3ta og nj\u00f3ta \u00e1 hj\u00f3linu um alla borg. Sm\u00e1m saman styrktist l\u00edkaminn minn og \u00e9g styrktist \u00f6ll \u00ed lei\u00f0inni.\u00a0 \u00c1 \u00f6llum \u00feessum hlaupum t\u00f3kst m\u00e9r \u00fev\u00ed einhvern veginn a\u00f0 gera hreyfingu a\u00f0 mi\u00f0punktinum. \u00cd dag hleyp \u00e9g og hj\u00f3la miki\u00f0, \u00e1 racer og er n\u00fd b\u00fain a\u00f0 kaupa m\u00e9r fjallahj\u00f3l. \u00deetta er \u00fev\u00ed or\u00f0i\u00f0 nokkurskonar della. \u00c9g tek \u00fea\u00f0 fram yfir flest a\u00f0 hreyfa mig og l\u00edkaminn minn kallar \u00e1 hreyfingu ef kyrrsetan er of miki\u00f0.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 sem hefur l\u00edka veri\u00f0 fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt vi\u00f0 \u00feetta er a\u00f0 \u00e9g r\u00e6\u00f0 miklu meira vi\u00f0 tilfinningarnar m\u00ednar. \u00c9g r\u00e6\u00f0 betur vi\u00f0 rei\u00f0ina og fl\u00f3knu tilfinningarnar sem koma stundum upp. \u00c9g \u00e1 au\u00f0veldara me\u00f0 allt daglegt l\u00edf og \u00ed dag l\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00e9r mj\u00f6g vel. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fev\u00ed svol\u00edti\u00f0 skondi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hugsa tv\u00f6 \u00e1r til baka \u00feegar \u00e9g var algj\u00f6r kv\u00ed\u00f0asj\u00faklingur og gr\u00e9t \u00e1 hverjum einasta degi. \u00c6tli \u00fea\u00f0 hafi ekki veri\u00f0 miki\u00f0 vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i svo mikla orku innra me\u00f0 m\u00e9r sem \u00e9g losa\u00f0i aldrei um. \u00dea\u00f0 var bara algj\u00f6r tilfinningaleg st\u00edfla \u00fearna sem kom \u00fat \u00ed kv\u00ed\u00f0a og gr\u00e1ti.<\/p>\n N\u00fa er or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 langt s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0 kv\u00ed\u00f0akast. \u00deegar \u00e9g var sem verst f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00e1 lyf til \u00feess a\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0a mig yfir mestu \u00fer\u00f6skuldana en \u00ed dag er \u00e9g alveg lyfjalaus og bara \u00ed nokku\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0u formi l\u00edkamlega og andlega.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n \u00c9g hef \u00fev\u00ed hj\u00f3la\u00f0 og hlaupi\u00f0 mig \u00ed gegnum allar \u00fe\u00e6r tilfinningar sem hafa veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 brj\u00f3tast um \u00ed m\u00e9r s\u00ed\u00f0asta \u00e1ri\u00f0.<\/p>\n Fyrir \u00e1ri s\u00ed\u00f0an skildum vi\u00f0 pabbi hennar Freyd\u00edsar. Eins og \u00ed \u00f6llum sambandsslitum \u00fe\u00e1 t\u00f3k \u00fea\u00f0 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00e1 og allir hafa \u00feurft a\u00f0 feta n\u00fdjan veg me\u00f0 s\u00ednar tilfinningar \u00ed t\u00f6skunni. \u00dea\u00f0 t\u00f3k d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00e1 andlega a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta sig vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera ein me\u00f0 \u00ferj\u00fa b\u00f6rn og viss hr\u00e6\u00f0sla sem fylgdi \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera ein me\u00f0 Freyd\u00edsi. En \u00e9g held a\u00f0 \u00feetta hafi veri\u00f0 r\u00e9tt skref fyrir alla a\u00f0ila. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki bara \u00e9g sem var komin \u00ed \u00ferot heldur allir a\u00f0rir l\u00edka. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00feurfti bara st\u00f3rar og miklar breytingar og ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an\u00a0 var s\u00fa a\u00f0 fara \u00ed sitthvora \u00e1ttina.<\/p>\n Okkur stelpunum l\u00ed\u00f0ur afskaplega vel \u00ed dag, vi\u00f0 erum b\u00fanar a\u00f0 koma okkur fyrir \u00ed fr\u00e1b\u00e6rri \u00edb\u00fa\u00f0, farnar a\u00f0 lifa nokku\u00f0 e\u00f0lilegu fj\u00f6lskyldul\u00edfi og \u00feetta gengur allt sinn vanagang me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ri samvinnu.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Vi\u00f0 deilum forr\u00e6\u00f0i yfir Freyd\u00edsi og h\u00fan er viku og viku hj\u00e1 okkur. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 krefst \u00feetta mikillar samvinnu og a\u00f0 m\u00ednu mati leggjum vi\u00f0 okkur b\u00e6\u00f0i vel fram vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0. Me\u00f0 t\u00edmanum l\u00e6ra svo allir betur inn \u00e1 \u00feetta og jafnv\u00e6gi\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur meira. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 Freyd\u00eds Borg s\u00e9 bara ansi heppin me\u00f0 foreldra og \u00e9g henni endalaust \u00feakkl\u00e1t fyrir a\u00f0 hafa vali\u00f0 mig sem m\u00f6mmu s\u00edna og treyst m\u00e9r fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hlutverki.<\/p>\n Hvernig gekk systrum Freyd\u00edsar a\u00f0 a\u00f0lagast breyttum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00ed ykkar l\u00edfi?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00de\u00e6r hafa tekist \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00feetta \u00e1 misjafnan h\u00e1tt. \u00c1g\u00fasta er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 eldri og gat frekar skili\u00f0 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0urnar \u00e1 me\u00f0an Una var yngri og t\u00f3k hana a\u00f0eins lengri t\u00edma. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 Freyd\u00eds Borg geti ekki veri\u00f0 heppnari me\u00f0 systur, b\u00e1\u00f0ar hafa \u00fe\u00e6r einstaka \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i og eru duglegar a\u00f0 veita henni athygli.<\/p>\n Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er \u00feetta l\u00edka allt bara eins og \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00feriggja systra h\u00f3pum, \u00fea\u00f0 er keppni um athyglina og stundum \u00e1 mamman bara tv\u00e6r hendur og \u00fe\u00e1 getur samkeppnin or\u00f0in h\u00f6r\u00f0.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 reyndist \u00feessi t\u00edmi \u00ed kringum greiningarferli\u00f0 og erfi\u00f0u \u00e1rin hennar Freyd\u00edsar mj\u00f6g strembinn. Vi\u00f0 g\u00e1tum ekki lifa\u00f0 e\u00f0lilegu fj\u00f6lskyldul\u00edfi og \u00e9g allt snerist um a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 Freyd\u00edsi og halda haus til a\u00f0 geta sinnt henni. D\u00e6tur m\u00ednar eru \u00fev\u00ed d\u00e1samlega heppnar a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0a foreldra sem t\u00f3k \u00fe\u00e6r undir sinn verndarv\u00e6ng. Hj\u00e1lp \u00feeirra er \u00f3metanleg og \u00f6ryggi stelpnanna miki\u00f0 \u00fear. \u00c9g geri oft gr\u00edn a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 b\u00faum \u00ed svona komm\u00fanufj\u00f6lskyldu. \u00dev\u00ed st\u00f3rfj\u00f6lskyldan m\u00edn ver \u00fea\u00f0 miklum t\u00edma saman. Ef vi\u00f0 stelpurnar erum ekki \u00ed mat hj\u00e1 \u00feeim \u00fe\u00e1 eru \u00feau \u00ed mat hj\u00e1 okkur.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka \u00fea\u00f0 sem skiptir svo miklu m\u00e1li, \u00fea\u00f0 er utan a\u00f0 komandi a\u00f0sto\u00f0in. L\u00edf d\u00e6tra minna breytist og allt \u00ed einu var mamma ekki lengur til sta\u00f0ar.<\/p>\n \u00cd tv\u00f6 \u00e1r var \u00e9g ekki til sta\u00f0ar fyrir \u00fe\u00e6r, ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi \u00fea\u00f0 ekki, heldur af \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g hreinlega gat \u00fea\u00f0 ekki. \u00cd tv\u00f6 \u00e1r svaf \u00e9g ekki heila n\u00f3tt og \u00ed tv\u00f6 \u00e1r labba\u00f0i \u00e9g me\u00f0 gr\u00e1tandi barn um g\u00f3lf n\u00e6stum allan s\u00f3lahringinn og var\u00f0i miklum t\u00edma \u00e1 barnasp\u00edtalanum.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n \u00dea\u00f0 fer \u00f6ll r\u00f6khugsun \u00ed \u00feeim a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00dea\u00f0 f\u00f3r l\u00edka me\u00f0 l\u00edkamann og minni\u00f0 mitt, \u00fea\u00f0 var engin einbeiting. \u00cd rauninni man \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf l\u00edti\u00f0 eftir \u00feessum \u00e1rum. Minni\u00f0 mitt f\u00f3r alveg og \u00e9g er enn a\u00f0 vinna \u00fea\u00f0 til baka. En \u00e9g veit a\u00f0 \u00feetta reyndi miki\u00f0 \u00e1 eldri d\u00e6tur m\u00ednar. En \u00feegar \u00e9g hugsa til baka \u00fe\u00e1 styrkti \u00feetta okkur l\u00edka. \u00cd ofan \u00e1lag skildum \u00e9g og pabbi hennar Freyd\u00edsar og \u00fe\u00e1 breyttist allt aftur. En \u00ed dag \u00fe\u00e1 l\u00ed\u00f0ur okkur afskaplega vel, vi\u00f0 erum sterkar sem heild og vi\u00f0 erum gott li\u00f0. R\u00e6\u00f0um \u00fea\u00f0 oft a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum saman \u00ed li\u00f0i og a\u00f0sto\u00f0um hver a\u00f0ra vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a vel og takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00feau verkefni sem l\u00edfi\u00f0 hefur upp \u00e1 a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed segja a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 lentum \u00e1\u00a0 b\u00e1\u00f0um f\u00f3tum og saman h\u00f6ldum vi\u00f0 \u00e1fram h\u00f6nd \u00ed h\u00f6nd.<\/p>\n \u00c9g ver\u00f0 l\u00edka a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 \u00e9g er einstaklega heppin hva\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 vel ger\u00f0 b\u00f6rn. \u00de\u00e6r eru duglegar, flottar og skynsamar stelpurnar m\u00ednar og \u00e9g g\u00e6ti ekki veri\u00f0 stoltari af \u00feeim.<\/p>\n N\u00fana ert \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0\u00a0 sinna b\u00f6rnum, heimili og fullu starfi. Hvernig gengur a\u00f0 finna jafnv\u00e6gi milli einkal\u00edfs og vinnu?<\/strong>\u00a0(Haha, \u00feetta er mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0 spurning og \u00e9g kannski ekki h\u00e6f til a\u00f0 svara henni. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 spyrja vinkonur m\u00ednar! \u00de\u00e6r sj\u00e1 mig \u00ed mun sk\u00fdrara lj\u00f3si en \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf.)<\/em><\/p>\n \u00deetta gengur er l\u00edklega besta svari\u00f0 sem \u00e9g get gefi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r. \u00deetta er strembi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00ed haust a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta l\u00edka vi\u00f0 mig h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1mi. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi n\u00fa veri\u00f0 \u00e1 einhverju algj\u00f6rum Poll\u00fd\u00f6nnu degi \u00feegar \u00e9g t\u00f3k \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un.<\/p>\n \u00c9g vinn krefjandi starf og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 stundum hug minn allan en \u00e9g er l\u00edka \u00ed h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1mi, syng \u00ed k\u00f3r og stunda hj\u00f3lrei\u00f0ar og hlaup \u00e1samt \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ala upp \u00ferj\u00e1r d\u00e6tur. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed halda a\u00f0 dagskr\u00e1in s\u00e9 \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 p\u00f6kku\u00f0.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Ein vinkona m\u00edn haf\u00f0i or\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 mig um daginn a\u00f0 \u00e9g yr\u00f0i bara a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta mig vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g geti ekki haft svona m\u00f6rg j\u00e1rn \u00ed eldinum og veri\u00f0 best \u00ed \u00f6llu. M\u00e9r \u00fe\u00f3tti \u00feessi setning \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 \u00f3skiljanleg hj\u00e1 henni. \u00dev\u00ed \u00feegar \u00e9g tek m\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 fyrir hendur \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9 \u00e9g oft ekki a\u00f0ra \u00fatkomu en a\u00f0 \u00e6tla m\u00e9r a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a best \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed. \u00deetta var hinsvegar rosalega g\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1minning hj\u00e1 henni og \u00e9g reynt a\u00f0 temja m\u00e9r a\u00f0 minnka \u00feann eldm\u00f3\u00f0 a\u00f0eins. \u00dev\u00ed au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki m\u00e1li\u00f0 a\u00f0 keyra sig allsta\u00f0ar \u00fat og finnast ma\u00f0ur algj\u00f6rlega me\u00f0 \u00feetta og st\u00e6rra sig af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa n\u00f3g a\u00f0 gera. Kyrr\u00f0 og r\u00f3 er l\u00edka partur af \u00fev\u00ed sem allir \u00fearfnast \u00ed l\u00edfi\u00f0 og \u00e1g\u00e6tis jafnv\u00e6gi \u00fearna \u00e1 milli.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u00c9g er hinsvegar \u00feannig karakter a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00fer\u00edfst best ef \u00fea\u00f0 er n\u00f3g a\u00f0 gera og n\u00f3gu miki\u00f0 fj\u00f6r. \u00de\u00e1 l\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00e9r best.\u00a0 Elsta d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn er algj\u00f6rlega andst\u00e6\u00f0an vi\u00f0 mig og h\u00fan s\u00e9r um a\u00f0 halda r\u00f3 \u00e1 heimilinu. Stundum veit \u00e9g ekki alveg hver er a\u00f0 ala hvern upp \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan tosar mig reglulega ni\u00f0ur \u00e1 j\u00f6r\u00f0ina og segir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 slaka \u00e1. Minnir mig \u00e1 \u00ed kaldh\u00e6\u00f0ni a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 n\u00fa komin d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 fram \u00far sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er \u00feetta oft strembi\u00f0 og stundum koma dagar \u00fear sem mig langar bara a\u00f0 opna \u00edssk\u00e1pinn, taka hv\u00edtv\u00ednsfl\u00f6sku \u00fear \u00fat og drekka hana \u00e1 st\u00fat \u00e1 sama t\u00edma og \u00e9g s\u00edg ni\u00f0ur \u00e1 g\u00f3lf eing\u00f6ngu til a\u00f0 setjast \u00e1 g\u00f3lfi\u00f0 og n\u00e1 sm\u00e1 r\u00f3 \u00ed taugakerfi\u00f0!<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n En \u00feetta tekst allt me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ri hj\u00e1lp b\u00e6\u00f0i vina og fj\u00f6lskylda. \u00c9g \u00e1 vinkonu sem a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar mig oft me\u00f0 heimilishaldi\u00f0 og eldri d\u00e6tur m\u00ednar eru virkar \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed l\u00edka. Foreldrar m\u00ednir eru algj\u00f6rlega \u00f3missandi hluti \u00fear af og \u00e9g g\u00e6ti \u00feetta ekki \u00e1n \u00feeirra.<\/p>\n \u00c6tli helsta\u00a0 vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki a\u00f0 \u00e9g finn aldrei t\u00edma til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0, \u00fea\u00f0 koma \u00fev\u00ed reglulega kvartanir um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 aldrei neitt til og helsti hausverkurinn er \u201ehva\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed matinn \u00ed kv\u00f6ld\u201c. \u00c9g \u00feyrfti \u00fev\u00ed m\u00f6gulega a\u00f0 gera samning vi\u00f0 einhvern um a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 um eldamennskuna \u00e1 heimilinu!<\/p>\n En \u00feetta gengur allt me\u00f0 skipul\u00f6g\u00f0u kaosi. \u00c9g er nefnilega a\u00f0 e\u00f0lisfari mikill sveimhugi og \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 utan vi\u00f0 mig en mitt helsta vopn gegn \u00feessu \u00f6llu er a\u00f0 hl\u00e6gja bara n\u00f3gu miki\u00f0.<\/p>\n \u00c9g \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 nefnilega til a\u00f0 l\u00e9tta tilveruna me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gleyma h\u00faslyklunum m\u00ednum \u00ed skr\u00e1nni heila helgi \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00e9g skrepp \u00ed fer\u00f0alag. (sem betur fer b\u00fd \u00e9g \u00e1 \u00feri\u00f0ju h\u00e6\u00f0 \u00ed blokk) \u2026 j\u00e1 e\u00f0a l\u00e6sa barni\u00f0 \u00f3vart inn \u00ed b\u00edl, me\u00f0 lyklana inn \u00ed b\u00edlnum (\u00fea\u00f0 t\u00f3k samt bara korter a\u00f0 n\u00e1 henni \u00fat aftur).<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n Svo held \u00e9g a\u00f0 hugarfari\u00f0 skipti svol\u00edti\u00f0 m\u00e1li. Ef \u00e9g \u00e1kve\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00f6f\u00f0inu a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 erfitt \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur \u00feetta erfitt. Ef \u00e9g \u00e1kve\u00f0a a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 \u00feetta sem g\u00f3\u00f0a skemmtun me\u00f0 dassi af erfi\u00f0um d\u00fdfum, \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur \u00feetta \u00feannig\u2026 \u00e9g held \u00fev\u00ed sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 m\u00e9r takist \u00e1g\u00e6tlega til.<\/p>\n Er eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00e9r finnst a\u00f0 m\u00e6tti betur fara \u00ed fr\u00e6\u00f0slu til foreldra barna, svona almennt?<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3tal margt sem \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta fyrir foreldra fatla\u00f0ra barna. Kerfi\u00f0 er oft erfitt og \u00feessi fyrstu skref \u00feegar greiningarferlin eru fl\u00f3kin. \u00dea\u00f0 eru til m\u00f6rg samt\u00f6k sem a\u00f0sto\u00f0a og lei\u00f0 og greining er komin opnast hafsj\u00f3r af a\u00f0sto\u00f0 en \u00ed ferlinu sj\u00e1lf upplif\u00f0um vi\u00f0 okkur alveg ein \u00e1 b\u00e1ti. Eins og \u00e9g hef oft sagt fr\u00e1 var okkur sagt a\u00f0 fara heim og googla \u00feegar vi\u00f0 fengum greiningu \u00e1 Freyd\u00edsi. Sem eru l\u00edklega \u00feau fur\u00f0ulegustu fyrirm\u00e6li sem \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0. Af hverju er enginn sem a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar \u00feig og segir \u00fe\u00e9r hvert \u00e1 a\u00f0 leita og vi\u00f0 hvern \u00e1 a\u00f0 tala? Af hverju tekur enginn \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00fe\u00e9r \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0 greiningu \u00e1 barni\u00f0 \u00feitt og fer yfir m\u00e1lin og fr\u00e6\u00f0ir \u00feig e\u00f0a kemur \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 a\u00f0ra foreldra til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin vi\u00f0? A\u00f0 fara heim og googla og vera ein me\u00f0 spurningar og \u00f3vissu er afleitt.<\/p>\n Eru \u201cm\u00f6mmufr\u00ed\u201d nau\u00f0synleg? \u00dei\u00f0 vinkonurnar skelltu\u00f0 ykkur til Mar\u00f3kk\u00f3 \u00ed apr\u00edl brimbretta- og j\u00f3gafer\u00f0, er \u00fea\u00f0 e-\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa m\u00e6lir me\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>\n Foreldrafr\u00ed eru almennt nau\u00f0synleg. \u00dea\u00f0 er nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0eins \u00far umhverfi s\u00ednu \u00ed g\u00f3\u00f0ra vinah\u00f3pi og hl\u00e6gja og slaka \u00e1.<\/p>\n \u00c9g f\u00f3r me\u00f0 n\u00edu vinkonum \u00ed surf og j\u00f3gafer\u00f0 til Mar\u00f3kk\u00f3\u00a0 \u00ed apr\u00edl \u00e1 \u00feessu \u00e1ri. Fyrir fer\u00f0ina \u00feekktumst vi\u00f0 ekki allar en treystum b\u00f6ndin svo sannarlega \u00ed fer\u00f0inni. Fer\u00f0in var yndisleg \u00ed alla sta\u00f0i og minningar um hana eru g\u00f3\u00f0ar. \u00c9g n\u00e1\u00f0i \u00fear sl\u00f6kun og \u00fea\u00f0 var svo gott a\u00f0 vera bara \u00ed Afr\u00edku \u00fear sem var d\u00fdrt a\u00f0 hringja heim, stopult internet og stundum rafmagnslaust. \u00dea\u00f0 ger\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 n\u00fai\u00f0 var \u00fea\u00f0 eina sem var \u00ed bo\u00f0i og samveran \u00feess e\u00f0lis a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 vorum allar \u00e1 sta\u00f0num. Ekki a\u00f0 fjarst\u00fdra heimilum okkar \u00ed gegnum neti\u00f0 \u00e1 me\u00f0an vi\u00f0 reyndum a\u00f0 stunda j\u00f3ga.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega gryfja sem er svo au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 falla \u00ed. Fara a\u00f0 heiman en samt fjarst\u00fdra. \u00c9g geri \u00fea\u00f0 mj\u00f6g oft, l\u00edklega \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e9r finnst erfitt a\u00f0 sleppa t\u00f6kunum og treysta \u00e1 a\u00f0 allt gangi upp \u00e1n m\u00edn. \u00dearna \u00fati fatta\u00f0i \u00e9g a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 gekk bara allt vel upp, d\u00e6tur m\u00ednar voru gla\u00f0ar og skilu\u00f0u s\u00e9r \u00ed t\u00f3mstundir og anna\u00f0. \u00de\u00f3 a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri ekki a\u00f0 skipta m\u00e9r af, svei m\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1!<\/p>\n Alveg eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er okkur nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 fara \u00ed fr\u00ed fr\u00e1 vinnunni \u00fe\u00e1 er okkur l\u00edka nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 taka fr\u00ed fr\u00e1 heimilinu anna\u00f0 slagi\u00f0. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er f\u00f3lk \u00ed misjafnri a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u og hafa misj\u00f6fn t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri fyrir sl\u00edkt. 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H\u00fan er me\u00f0 diploma \u00ed leikstj\u00f3rn og handritager\u00f0 og stundar n\u00e1m vi\u00f0 H\u00e1sk\u00f3lann \u00e1 Bifr\u00f6st \u00ed almennatengslum og mi\u00f0lun. Krist\u00edn byrja\u00f0i ung a\u00f0 vinna sem bla\u00f0akona og \u00ed kvikmyndager\u00f0 en f\u00e6rni hennar og h\u00e6fni hefur \u00ed raun \u00fer\u00f3ast og l\u00e6rst me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2880,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"Krist\u00edn \u00ddr Gunnarsd\u00f3ttir er verkefnastj\u00f3ri uppl\u00fdsinga og kynningarm\u00e1la hj\u00e1 Al\u00fe\u00fd\u00f0usambandi \u00cdslands. H\u00fan er me\u00f0 diploma \u00ed leikstj\u00f3rn og handritager\u00f0 og stundar n\u00e1m vi\u00f0 H\u00e1sk\u00f3lann \u00e1 Bifr\u00f6st \u00ed almennatengslum og mi\u00f0lun. Krist\u00edn byrja\u00f0i ung a\u00f0 vinna sem bla\u00f0akona og \u00ed kvikmyndager\u00f0 en f\u00e6rni hennar og h\u00e6fni hefur \u00ed raun \u00fer\u00f3ast og l\u00e6rst me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e1 t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri \u00e1 vinnumarka\u00f0i auk \u00feess sem h\u00fan hefur s\u00f3tt fj\u00f6ldan allan af n\u00e1mskei\u00f0um \u00ed s\u00ednu fagi. Krist\u00edn \u00ddr \u00e1 \u00ferj\u00e1r stelpur \u00c1g\u00fastu Borg 16 \u00e1ra, Unu Borg 11 \u00e1ra og hana Freyd\u00edsi Borg 3ja \u00e1ra. Yngsta d\u00f3ttir hennar Freyd\u00eds greindist r\u00famlega eins \u00e1rs me\u00f0 Williams heilkenni sem var\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldul\u00edfi\u00f0, eins og \u00feau \u00feekktu \u00fea\u00f0, gj\u00f6r breyttist. Krist\u00edn t\u00f3k algj\u00f6ra u beygju \u00ed s\u00ednu l\u00edfi eftir tauga\u00e1fall og ofsakv\u00ed\u00f0ak\u00f6st. Auk \u00feess gekk h\u00fan \u00ed gengum skilna\u00f0 vi\u00f0 samb\u00fdlismann sinn og barnsf\u00f6\u00f0ur. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 me\u00f0 sanni segja a\u00f0 Krist\u00edn s\u00e9 dugna\u00f0arforkur sem \u00e6tlar s\u00e9r kannski stundum um of, en \u00e1vallt er stutt \u00ed hl\u00e1turinn og gr\u00edni\u00f0 hj\u00e1 henni. H\u00e9r deilir h\u00fan reynslu sinni og afrekum me\u00f0 okkur.<\/strong>\r\n\r\n Au\u00f0ur Eva \u00c1sberg<\/em><\/p>\r\n\u00a0","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2866","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foreldrar"],"yoast_head":"\n![\"\"](\"https:\/\/mamman.is\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/10\/freyma.jpg\")
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<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a><\/p>\n<\/a>\r\n\r\nYngsta d\u00f3ttir \u00fe\u00edn, h\u00fan Freyd\u00eds er greind me\u00f0 Willams heilkenni. Viltu segja okkur fr\u00e1 Williams heilkenninu, hvernig \u00feau einkenni l\u00fdsa s\u00e9r og hven\u00e6r h\u00fan greinist?<\/strong>\r\n\r\nWilliams-heilkenni er vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 hluta litnings n\u00famer sj\u00f6 vantar. Heilkenni\u00f0 er ekki tengt erf\u00f0um og einkennin eru b\u00e6\u00f0i andleg og l\u00edkamleg. Me\u00f0al helstu einkenna eru \u00f3v\u00e6r\u00f0 ungbarna og erfi\u00f0leikar vi\u00f0 n\u00e6ringu en \u00fev\u00ed \u00fer\u00edfast b\u00f6rn me\u00f0 Williams-heilkenni\u00f0 illa. V\u00f6\u00f0vaspenna er l\u00e1g, li\u00f0ir lausir og b\u00f6rn byrja oft ekki a\u00f0 ganga fyrr en r\u00famlega tveggja \u00e1ra. \u00deau eiga erftitt me\u00f0 f\u00ednhreyfingar, sj\u00f3nin er oft l\u00e9leg og m\u00f6rg eiga \u00ed hjarta- og \u00e6\u00f0avandam\u00e1lum. \u00deroskasker\u00f0ing er talsver\u00f0 en mismikil milli einstaklinga. Williams-krakkar eru f\u00e9lagslyndir og j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0ir \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir vandam\u00e1lin sem \u00feeir \u00feurfa a\u00f0 leysa.\r\n\r\nFreyd\u00eds f\u00e9kk greiningu \u00ed jan\u00faar 2015 \u00fe\u00e1 r\u00famlega \u00e1rs g\u00f6mul.\r\n\r\nViltu segja okkur fr\u00e1 Freyd\u00edsi, hvernig karakter er h\u00fan og hverjir eru hennar helstu styrkleikar?<\/strong>\r\n\r\nFreyd\u00eds Borg er l\u00edklega ein s\u00fa fyndnasta manneskja sem \u00e9g \u00feekki. Hvar sem h\u00fan er og \u00ed hva\u00f0 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um sem er \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e6r h\u00fan f\u00f3lk til a\u00f0 hl\u00e6ja. Freyd\u00eds er afskaplega upp\u00e1t\u00e6kjas\u00f6m og er ekki tilb\u00fain a\u00f0 skilgreina hva\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 nei \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir. H\u00fan er \u00e1kve\u00f0in og \u00e6tlar s\u00e9r algj\u00f6rlega langt \u00ed l\u00edfinu. H\u00fan er a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra en hefur \u00ed raun \u00feroska \u00e1 vi\u00f0 tveggja \u00e1ra barn a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu leiti. Nema \u00ed talm\u00e1li. \u00dear er h\u00fan alveg s\u00fa allra fr\u00e1b\u00e6rasta og f\u00e1tt skemmtilegra en a\u00f0 eiga vi\u00f0 hana samt\u00f6l um daginn og veginn.\r\n\r\n\u00dea\u00f0 eru til afskaplega margar g\u00f3\u00f0ar s\u00f6gur af Freyd\u00edsi Borg. Um daginn var \u00e9g me\u00f0 hana \u00ed matarb\u00fa\u00f0. \u00de\u00e1 stoppar kona og segir \u201eH\u00e6 Freyd\u00eds! Hva\u00f0 segir \u00fe\u00fa gott?\u201c Freyd\u00eds svarar og segir \u201e\u00c9g! \u00c9g segi bara allt gott\u201c og spyr konuna svo \u00e1 m\u00f3ti hvernig h\u00fan hefur \u00fea\u00f0 og \u00far ver\u00f0ur samtal \u00feeirra \u00e1 milli. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i enga hugmynd um hva\u00f0a kona \u00feetta var og blanda\u00f0i m\u00e9r samt ekki inn \u00ed samtali\u00f0. Konan f\u00f3r svo og \u00e9g spyr Freyd\u00edsi hver \u00feetta hafi veri\u00f0 og h\u00fan svarar:\r\n\u201e\u00c6 mamma vinkonu minnar \u00far leiksk\u00f3lanum\u201c. Eins og \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekkert e\u00f0lilegra a\u00f0 t\u00e6plega fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra barn s\u00e9 bara \u00e1 spjallinu vi\u00f0 m\u00e6\u00f0ur annarra barna \u00far leiksk\u00f3lanum.<\/blockquote>\r\nEn \u00feetta er ekta Freyd\u00eds Borg, \u00feeir sem hitta hana muna eftir henni og h\u00fan man eftir \u00feeim. H\u00fan er mikil f\u00e9lagsvera og s\u00e6kir mun meira \u00ed samt\u00f6l vi\u00f0 fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk en \u00ed leik vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00e1 s\u00ednum aldri.\r\n\r\n
<\/a>\r\n<\/strong>N\u00fa upplif\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00fa mj\u00f6g erfi\u00f0an t\u00edma \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0 a\u00f0 greiningu Freyd\u00edsar og n\u00fdveri\u00f0 gekkstu \u00ed gegnum skilna\u00f0, viltu deila me\u00f0 okkur hvernig \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1kva\u00f0st a\u00f0 breyta l\u00edfi \u00fe\u00ednu og takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r breytingar sem \u00e1ttu s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 \u00ed l\u00edfi \u00fe\u00ednu?<\/strong>\r\n\r\nEftir f\u00e6\u00f0ingu Freyd\u00edsar breyttist allt l\u00edfi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 me\u00f0 sanni segja \u00fea\u00f0. Fyrstu tv\u00f6 og h\u00e1lfa \u00e1ri\u00f0 hennar er t\u00edmi sem reyndist m\u00e9r og \u00f6llum mj\u00f6g erfi\u00f0ur.\u00a0 T\u00edmi sem \u00e9g myndi ekki vilja st\u00edga inn \u00ed aftur. \u00dea\u00f0 var mikil \u00f3vissa me\u00f0 allt, Freyd\u00eds var langt \u00e1 eftir \u00ed l\u00edkamlegum \u00feroska, svaf n\u00e1nast aldrei, var \u00f3v\u00e6r, gr\u00e9t miki\u00f0 og vi\u00f0 foreldarnir \u00fereytt og labbandi \u00e1 milli l\u00e6kna \u00ed leit a\u00f0 sv\u00f6rum og a\u00f0sto\u00f0. \u00c1 \u00feessum t\u00edma f\u00e9kk \u00e9g tauga\u00e1fall og \u00fea\u00f0 hefur veri\u00f0 langt ferli a\u00f0 vinna sig alveg upp \u00far \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 er afskaplega erfitt a\u00f0 upplifa vanm\u00e1ttinn sem fylgir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera hent inn \u00ed heim sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00feekkir ekki. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt er fatla\u00f0 og a\u00f0 lesa um f\u00f6tlunina ger\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 mikil hr\u00e6\u00f0sla greip um sig hj\u00e1 okkur. Eftir \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00e1ttar ma\u00f0ur sig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feetta er ekki svona skelfilegt. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert skelfilegt a\u00f0 eiga Freyd\u00edsi, h\u00fan er j\u00fa me\u00f0 litningagalla og henni fylgja krefjandi verkefni. En h\u00fan er fr\u00e1b\u00e6r og l\u00edfi\u00f0 me\u00f0 henni er fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt og bara langt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera skelfilegt. Enda er h\u00fan a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgu leiti bara eins og jafnaldrar s\u00ednir, h\u00fan \u00fearf bara a\u00f0eins meiri um\u00f6nnun og einfaldanir \u00e1 sumt en tilvera hennar, v\u00e6ntingar og \u00fearfir eru n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og annarra.\r\n\u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega svo a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 hr\u00e6\u00f0umst oft \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 \u00feekkjum ekki. \u00deeir sem \u00feekkja heim fatla\u00f0ra ekki hr\u00e6\u00f0ast hann, og jafnvel vorkenna \u00f6\u00f0rum sem eru \u00ed honum.<\/blockquote>\r\nVi\u00f0 \u00f6lum stundum b\u00f6rnin okkar upp vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 megi ekki horfa n\u00e9 benda \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem er \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi. Kennum \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00ed raun fr\u00e1 bernsku a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sk\u00f6mmumst okkar fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 sem er \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi. \u00cd sta\u00f0in fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra og r\u00e6\u00f0a hlutina.\r\n
Ef barn spyr og bendir \u00e1 fatla\u00f0an einstakling og segir\u00a0 \u201ehva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 honum?\u201c \u00fe\u00e1 er okkur e\u00f0lisl\u00e6gt a\u00f0 sl\u00e1 \u00e1 puttana \u00e1 barninu og banna \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 horfa og svara \u00e9g veit \u00fea\u00f0 ekki. \u00cd sta\u00f0in fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra, e\u00f0a jafnvel bara opna umr\u00e6\u00f0u vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0komandi og r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin \u00ed framhaldi.\r\n\r\nV\u00ed\u00f0s\u00fdni er nefnilega sterkasta vopni\u00f0 gegn ford\u00f3mum og til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0last v\u00ed\u00f0s\u00fdni \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sv\u00f6r vi\u00f0 spurningum okkar og f\u00e1 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hugsanir okkar \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 skammast okkar fyrir \u00fe\u00e6r.<\/blockquote>\r\n\u00c9g var \u00e1 \u00feessum sta\u00f0, \u00e9g vorkenndi m\u00f6mmum sem \u00e1ttu f\u00f6tlu\u00f0 b\u00f6rn. Skildi ekki hvernig \u00fe\u00e6r f\u00f3ru a\u00f0 og fannst \u00fe\u00e6r hetjur a\u00f0 fara \u00ed gegnum daginn og vera ekki bara heima hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r gr\u00e1tandi yfir eigin \u00f6rl\u00f6gum. \u00dea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf mitt hefur svo sannarlega breyst, foreldrar fatla\u00f0ra barna eru hetjur. \u00dea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur ekki teki\u00f0 af neinu \u00feeirra, \u00fev\u00ed \u00feessi bar\u00e1tta er mikil. Hinsvegar erum vi\u00f0 flest bara venjulegt f\u00f3lk sem fengum \u00feetta hlutskipti \u00ed l\u00edfi\u00f0 og vi\u00f0 vinnum me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 dag fr\u00e1 degi, \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum ekki anna\u00f0 val. Kannski hetjur hversdagsins, en \u00fea\u00f0 er engin \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 loka sig af og rei\u00f0ast heiminum e\u00f0a horfa \u00e1 okkur \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi.\r\n
E\u00f0a \u00e9g t\u00f3k allavega \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un, a\u00f0 ef a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 koma Freyd\u00edsi \u00ed gegnum \u00feann frumsk\u00f3g sem l\u00edfi\u00f0 mun bj\u00f3\u00f0a henni upp \u00e1, heilbrig\u00f0iskerfi\u00f0, sk\u00f3lakerfi\u00f0, ford\u00f3ma og alla \u00fe\u00e1 veggi sem vi\u00f0 erum \u00feegar byrja\u00f0ar a\u00f0 feta saman, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00fearf \u00e9g a\u00f0 vera sterk, \u00e9g \u00feurfti \u00e1 n\u00fdju vi\u00f0horfi a\u00f0 halda og krafta til a\u00f0 geta sta\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00ed b\u00e1\u00f0ar lappir.<\/blockquote>\r\n\u00cd jan\u00faar 2016 var \u00e9g alveg komin \u00ed \u00ferot. \u00c9g \u00e1tti ekkert inni og fannst \u00e9g b\u00fain a\u00f0 missa t\u00f6kin \u00e1 \u00f6llu. \u00c9g f\u00e9kk ofsakv\u00ed\u00f0ak\u00f6st trekk \u00ed trekk og r\u00e9tt n\u00e1\u00f0i a\u00f0 halda andliti til a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta til vinnu. \u00deess \u00e1 milli gr\u00e9t \u00e9g \u00fat \u00ed eitt. \u00c9g held reyndar a\u00f0 \u00fat \u00e1 vi\u00f0 hafi \u00e9g haldi\u00f0 ansi sterku andliti.\r\n\r\n
<\/a>\r\n\r\n\u00c9g skr\u00e1\u00f0i mig inn \u00e1 Heilsustofnunina \u00ed Hverager\u00f0i. \u00cd raun bara til a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sm\u00e1 hv\u00edld. \u00dear hitti \u00e9g l\u00e6kni og sag\u00f0i honum a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00feyrfti bara a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00e1f\u00f6llin sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i upplifa\u00f0 \u00ed eitt skipti fyrir \u00f6ll, \u00e9g v\u00e6ri komin til \u00feess. Hann svara\u00f0i m\u00e9r um h\u00e6l og benti m\u00e9r \u00e1 a\u00f0 m\u00e9r myndi aldrei takast \u00fea\u00f0. Sem var ekki beint svari\u00f0 sem mig langa\u00f0i a\u00f0 heyra! En svo kom hann me\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0 sem breytti l\u00edfi m\u00ednu. Hann sag\u00f0i m\u00e9r a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 hugsa um andlegu heilsuna, \u00e9g \u00e6tti ekki ro\u00f0 \u00ed hana \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00e9g v\u00e6ri enn \u00ed \u00e1falli. Hann sag\u00f0i m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tti a\u00f0 huga a\u00f0 l\u00edkamanum m\u00ednum, hann \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 vera sterkur til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti lifa\u00f0 af. Af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 stundum erum vi\u00f0 mannf\u00f3lki\u00f0 bara eins og d\u00fdrin \u00ed sk\u00f3ginum, vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum bara a\u00f0 finna \u00fat hvernig vi\u00f0 lifum af og ekki fl\u00e6kja \u00feetta um og of me\u00f0 hugsunum. \u00deannig lei\u00f0 m\u00e9r n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega \u00e1 \u00feessum t\u00edma. M\u00e9r fannst \u00e9g eiga erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 lifa af og erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3ta mig \u00ed eigin l\u00edfi.\r\n\u00c9g t\u00f3k hann \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1 or\u00f0inu og lag\u00f0i allt \u00ed a\u00f0 hreyfa mig og sm\u00e1m saman breyttist \u00e9g \u00ed gegnum hreyfinguna, hugarfari\u00f0 mitt, lundin m\u00edn og allt saman. \u00c9g breytti engu \u00f6\u00f0ru en me\u00f0 betri l\u00ed\u00f0an breyttist \u00e9g. \u00a0\u00c9g byrja\u00f0i \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fara \u00fat a\u00f0 hlaupa me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ri vinkonu og setti m\u00e9r markmi\u00f0 a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed hlaupakeppni \u00feremur m\u00e1nu\u00f0um seinna. Keppnirnar ur\u00f0u svo \u00fe\u00f3 nokkrar \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0asta \u00e1ri. \u00c9g t\u00f3k svo sumari\u00f0 \u00ed a\u00f0 hj\u00f3la og fann hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er gaman a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3ta og nj\u00f3ta \u00e1 hj\u00f3linu um alla borg. Sm\u00e1m saman styrktist l\u00edkaminn minn og \u00e9g styrktist \u00f6ll \u00ed lei\u00f0inni.\u00a0 \u00c1 \u00f6llum \u00feessum hlaupum t\u00f3kst m\u00e9r \u00fev\u00ed einhvern veginn a\u00f0 gera hreyfingu a\u00f0 mi\u00f0punktinum. \u00cd dag hleyp \u00e9g og hj\u00f3la miki\u00f0, \u00e1 racer og er n\u00fd b\u00fain a\u00f0 kaupa m\u00e9r fjallahj\u00f3l. \u00deetta er \u00fev\u00ed or\u00f0i\u00f0 nokkurskonar della. \u00c9g tek \u00fea\u00f0 fram yfir flest a\u00f0 hreyfa mig og l\u00edkaminn minn kallar \u00e1 hreyfingu ef kyrrsetan er of miki\u00f0.\r\n\r\n<\/a>\r\n\r\n\u00dea\u00f0 sem hefur l\u00edka veri\u00f0 fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt vi\u00f0 \u00feetta er a\u00f0 \u00e9g r\u00e6\u00f0 miklu meira vi\u00f0 tilfinningarnar m\u00ednar. \u00c9g r\u00e6\u00f0 betur vi\u00f0 rei\u00f0ina og fl\u00f3knu tilfinningarnar sem koma stundum upp. \u00c9g \u00e1 au\u00f0veldara me\u00f0 allt daglegt l\u00edf og \u00ed dag l\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00e9r mj\u00f6g vel. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fev\u00ed svol\u00edti\u00f0 skondi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hugsa tv\u00f6 \u00e1r til baka \u00feegar \u00e9g var algj\u00f6r kv\u00ed\u00f0asj\u00faklingur og gr\u00e9t \u00e1 hverjum einasta degi. \u00c6tli \u00fea\u00f0 hafi ekki veri\u00f0 miki\u00f0 vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i svo mikla orku innra me\u00f0 m\u00e9r sem \u00e9g losa\u00f0i aldrei um. \u00dea\u00f0 var bara algj\u00f6r tilfinningaleg st\u00edfla \u00fearna sem kom \u00fat \u00ed kv\u00ed\u00f0a og gr\u00e1ti.\r\nN\u00fa er or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 langt s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0 kv\u00ed\u00f0akast. \u00deegar \u00e9g var sem verst f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00e1 lyf til \u00feess a\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0a mig yfir mestu \u00fer\u00f6skuldana en \u00ed dag er \u00e9g alveg lyfjalaus og bara \u00ed nokku\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0u formi l\u00edkamlega og andlega.<\/blockquote>\r\n\u00c9g hef \u00fev\u00ed hj\u00f3la\u00f0 og hlaupi\u00f0 mig \u00ed gegnum allar \u00fe\u00e6r tilfinningar sem hafa veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 brj\u00f3tast um \u00ed m\u00e9r s\u00ed\u00f0asta \u00e1ri\u00f0.\r\n\r\nFyrir \u00e1ri s\u00ed\u00f0an skildum vi\u00f0 pabbi hennar Freyd\u00edsar. Eins og \u00ed \u00f6llum sambandsslitum \u00fe\u00e1 t\u00f3k \u00fea\u00f0 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00e1 og allir hafa \u00feurft a\u00f0 feta n\u00fdjan veg me\u00f0 s\u00ednar tilfinningar \u00ed t\u00f6skunni. \u00dea\u00f0 t\u00f3k d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00e1 andlega a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta sig vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera ein me\u00f0 \u00ferj\u00fa b\u00f6rn og viss hr\u00e6\u00f0sla sem fylgdi \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera ein me\u00f0 Freyd\u00edsi. En \u00e9g held a\u00f0 \u00feetta hafi veri\u00f0 r\u00e9tt skref fyrir alla a\u00f0ila. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki bara \u00e9g sem var komin \u00ed \u00ferot heldur allir a\u00f0rir l\u00edka. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00feurfti bara st\u00f3rar og miklar breytingar og ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0an\u00a0 var s\u00fa a\u00f0 fara \u00ed sitthvora \u00e1ttina.\r\n
Okkur stelpunum l\u00ed\u00f0ur afskaplega vel \u00ed dag, vi\u00f0 erum b\u00fanar a\u00f0 koma okkur fyrir \u00ed fr\u00e1b\u00e6rri \u00edb\u00fa\u00f0, farnar a\u00f0 lifa nokku\u00f0 e\u00f0lilegu fj\u00f6lskyldul\u00edfi og \u00feetta gengur allt sinn vanagang me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ri samvinnu.<\/blockquote>\r\nVi\u00f0 deilum forr\u00e6\u00f0i yfir Freyd\u00edsi og h\u00fan er viku og viku hj\u00e1 okkur. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 krefst \u00feetta mikillar samvinnu og a\u00f0 m\u00ednu mati leggjum vi\u00f0 okkur b\u00e6\u00f0i vel fram vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0. Me\u00f0 t\u00edmanum l\u00e6ra svo allir betur inn \u00e1 \u00feetta og jafnv\u00e6gi\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur meira. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 Freyd\u00eds Borg s\u00e9 bara ansi heppin me\u00f0 foreldra og \u00e9g henni endalaust \u00feakkl\u00e1t fyrir a\u00f0 hafa vali\u00f0 mig sem m\u00f6mmu s\u00edna og treyst m\u00e9r fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hlutverki.\r\n\r\n
<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>\r\n\r\nHvernig gekk systrum Freyd\u00edsar a\u00f0 a\u00f0lagast breyttum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00ed ykkar l\u00edfi?<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u00de\u00e6r hafa tekist \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00feetta \u00e1 misjafnan h\u00e1tt. \u00c1g\u00fasta er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 eldri og gat frekar skili\u00f0 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0urnar \u00e1 me\u00f0an Una var yngri og t\u00f3k hana a\u00f0eins lengri t\u00edma. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 Freyd\u00eds Borg geti ekki veri\u00f0 heppnari me\u00f0 systur, b\u00e1\u00f0ar hafa \u00fe\u00e6r einstaka \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i og eru duglegar a\u00f0 veita henni athygli.\r\nAu\u00f0vita\u00f0 er \u00feetta l\u00edka allt bara eins og \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00feriggja systra h\u00f3pum, \u00fea\u00f0 er keppni um athyglina og stundum \u00e1 mamman bara tv\u00e6r hendur og \u00fe\u00e1 getur samkeppnin or\u00f0in h\u00f6r\u00f0.<\/blockquote>\r\nAu\u00f0vita\u00f0 reyndist \u00feessi t\u00edmi \u00ed kringum greiningarferli\u00f0 og erfi\u00f0u \u00e1rin hennar Freyd\u00edsar mj\u00f6g strembinn. Vi\u00f0 g\u00e1tum ekki lifa\u00f0 e\u00f0lilegu fj\u00f6lskyldul\u00edfi og \u00e9g allt snerist um a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 Freyd\u00edsi og halda haus til a\u00f0 geta sinnt henni. D\u00e6tur m\u00ednar eru \u00fev\u00ed d\u00e1samlega heppnar a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0a foreldra sem t\u00f3k \u00fe\u00e6r undir sinn verndarv\u00e6ng. Hj\u00e1lp \u00feeirra er \u00f3metanleg og \u00f6ryggi stelpnanna miki\u00f0 \u00fear. \u00c9g geri oft gr\u00edn a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 b\u00faum \u00ed svona komm\u00fanufj\u00f6lskyldu. \u00dev\u00ed st\u00f3rfj\u00f6lskyldan m\u00edn ver \u00fea\u00f0 miklum t\u00edma saman. Ef vi\u00f0 stelpurnar erum ekki \u00ed mat hj\u00e1 \u00feeim \u00fe\u00e1 eru \u00feau \u00ed mat hj\u00e1 okkur.\r\n\r\n\u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka \u00fea\u00f0 sem skiptir svo miklu m\u00e1li, \u00fea\u00f0 er utan a\u00f0 komandi a\u00f0sto\u00f0in. L\u00edf d\u00e6tra minna breytist og allt \u00ed einu var mamma ekki lengur til sta\u00f0ar.\r\n
\u00cd tv\u00f6 \u00e1r var \u00e9g ekki til sta\u00f0ar fyrir \u00fe\u00e6r, ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi \u00fea\u00f0 ekki, heldur af \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g hreinlega gat \u00fea\u00f0 ekki. \u00cd tv\u00f6 \u00e1r svaf \u00e9g ekki heila n\u00f3tt og \u00ed tv\u00f6 \u00e1r labba\u00f0i \u00e9g me\u00f0 gr\u00e1tandi barn um g\u00f3lf n\u00e6stum allan s\u00f3lahringinn og var\u00f0i miklum t\u00edma \u00e1 barnasp\u00edtalanum.<\/blockquote>\r\n\u00dea\u00f0 fer \u00f6ll r\u00f6khugsun \u00ed \u00feeim a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00dea\u00f0 f\u00f3r l\u00edka me\u00f0 l\u00edkamann og minni\u00f0 mitt, \u00fea\u00f0 var engin einbeiting. \u00cd rauninni man \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf l\u00edti\u00f0 eftir \u00feessum \u00e1rum. Minni\u00f0 mitt f\u00f3r alveg og \u00e9g er enn a\u00f0 vinna \u00fea\u00f0 til baka. En \u00e9g veit a\u00f0 \u00feetta reyndi miki\u00f0 \u00e1 eldri d\u00e6tur m\u00ednar. En \u00feegar \u00e9g hugsa til baka \u00fe\u00e1 styrkti \u00feetta okkur l\u00edka. \u00cd ofan \u00e1lag skildum \u00e9g og pabbi hennar Freyd\u00edsar og \u00fe\u00e1 breyttist allt aftur. En \u00ed dag \u00fe\u00e1 l\u00ed\u00f0ur okkur afskaplega vel, vi\u00f0 erum sterkar sem heild og vi\u00f0 erum gott li\u00f0. R\u00e6\u00f0um \u00fea\u00f0 oft a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 erum saman \u00ed li\u00f0i og a\u00f0sto\u00f0um hver a\u00f0ra vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a vel og takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00feau verkefni sem l\u00edfi\u00f0 hefur upp \u00e1 a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed segja a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 lentum \u00e1\u00a0 b\u00e1\u00f0um f\u00f3tum og saman h\u00f6ldum vi\u00f0 \u00e1fram h\u00f6nd \u00ed h\u00f6nd.\r\n\r\n\u00c9g ver\u00f0 l\u00edka a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 \u00e9g er einstaklega heppin hva\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 vel ger\u00f0 b\u00f6rn. \u00de\u00e6r eru duglegar, flottar og skynsamar stelpurnar m\u00ednar og \u00e9g g\u00e6ti ekki veri\u00f0 stoltari af \u00feeim.\r\n\r\n
<\/a>\r\n\r\nN\u00fana ert \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0\u00a0 sinna b\u00f6rnum, heimili og fullu starfi. Hvernig gengur a\u00f0 finna jafnv\u00e6gi milli einkal\u00edfs og vinnu?<\/strong>\u00a0(Haha, \u00feetta er mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0 spurning og \u00e9g kannski ekki h\u00e6f til a\u00f0 svara henni. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 spyrja vinkonur m\u00ednar! \u00de\u00e6r sj\u00e1 mig \u00ed mun sk\u00fdrara lj\u00f3si en \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf.)<\/em>\r\n\r\n\u00deetta gengur er l\u00edklega besta svari\u00f0 sem \u00e9g get gefi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r. \u00deetta er strembi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00ed haust a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta l\u00edka vi\u00f0 mig h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1mi. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi n\u00fa veri\u00f0 \u00e1 einhverju algj\u00f6rum Poll\u00fd\u00f6nnu degi \u00feegar \u00e9g t\u00f3k \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un.\r\n\u00c9g vinn krefjandi starf og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 stundum hug minn allan en \u00e9g er l\u00edka \u00ed h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1mi, syng \u00ed k\u00f3r og stunda hj\u00f3lrei\u00f0ar og hlaup \u00e1samt \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ala upp \u00ferj\u00e1r d\u00e6tur. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed halda a\u00f0 dagskr\u00e1in s\u00e9 \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 p\u00f6kku\u00f0.<\/blockquote>\r\nEin vinkona m\u00edn haf\u00f0i or\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 mig um daginn a\u00f0 \u00e9g yr\u00f0i bara a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta mig vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g geti ekki haft svona m\u00f6rg j\u00e1rn \u00ed eldinum og veri\u00f0 best \u00ed \u00f6llu. M\u00e9r \u00fe\u00f3tti \u00feessi setning \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 \u00f3skiljanleg hj\u00e1 henni. \u00dev\u00ed \u00feegar \u00e9g tek m\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 fyrir hendur \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9 \u00e9g oft ekki a\u00f0ra \u00fatkomu en a\u00f0 \u00e6tla m\u00e9r a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a best \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed. \u00deetta var hinsvegar rosalega g\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1minning hj\u00e1 henni og \u00e9g reynt a\u00f0 temja m\u00e9r a\u00f0 minnka \u00feann eldm\u00f3\u00f0 a\u00f0eins. \u00dev\u00ed au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki m\u00e1li\u00f0 a\u00f0 keyra sig allsta\u00f0ar \u00fat og finnast ma\u00f0ur algj\u00f6rlega me\u00f0 \u00feetta og st\u00e6rra sig af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa n\u00f3g a\u00f0 gera. Kyrr\u00f0 og r\u00f3 er l\u00edka partur af \u00fev\u00ed sem allir \u00fearfnast \u00ed l\u00edfi\u00f0 og \u00e1g\u00e6tis jafnv\u00e6gi \u00fearna \u00e1 milli.\r\n\r\n
<\/a>\r\n\r\n\u00c9g er hinsvegar \u00feannig karakter a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00fer\u00edfst best ef \u00fea\u00f0 er n\u00f3g a\u00f0 gera og n\u00f3gu miki\u00f0 fj\u00f6r. \u00de\u00e1 l\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00e9r best.\u00a0 Elsta d\u00f3ttir m\u00edn er algj\u00f6rlega andst\u00e6\u00f0an vi\u00f0 mig og h\u00fan s\u00e9r um a\u00f0 halda r\u00f3 \u00e1 heimilinu. Stundum veit \u00e9g ekki alveg hver er a\u00f0 ala hvern upp \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan tosar mig reglulega ni\u00f0ur \u00e1 j\u00f6r\u00f0ina og segir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 slaka \u00e1. Minnir mig \u00e1 \u00ed kaldh\u00e6\u00f0ni a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 n\u00fa komin d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 fram \u00far sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r.\r\nAu\u00f0vita\u00f0 er \u00feetta oft strembi\u00f0 og stundum koma dagar \u00fear sem mig langar bara a\u00f0 opna \u00edssk\u00e1pinn, taka hv\u00edtv\u00ednsfl\u00f6sku \u00fear \u00fat og drekka hana \u00e1 st\u00fat \u00e1 sama t\u00edma og \u00e9g s\u00edg ni\u00f0ur \u00e1 g\u00f3lf eing\u00f6ngu til a\u00f0 setjast \u00e1 g\u00f3lfi\u00f0 og n\u00e1 sm\u00e1 r\u00f3 \u00ed taugakerfi\u00f0!<\/blockquote>\r\nEn \u00feetta tekst allt me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ri hj\u00e1lp b\u00e6\u00f0i vina og fj\u00f6lskylda. \u00c9g \u00e1 vinkonu sem a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar mig oft me\u00f0 heimilishaldi\u00f0 og eldri d\u00e6tur m\u00ednar eru virkar \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed l\u00edka. Foreldrar m\u00ednir eru algj\u00f6rlega \u00f3missandi hluti \u00fear af og \u00e9g g\u00e6ti \u00feetta ekki \u00e1n \u00feeirra.\r\n\r\n\u00c6tli helsta\u00a0 vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki a\u00f0 \u00e9g finn aldrei t\u00edma til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0, \u00fea\u00f0 koma \u00fev\u00ed reglulega kvartanir um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 aldrei neitt til og helsti hausverkurinn er \u201ehva\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed matinn \u00ed kv\u00f6ld\u201c. \u00c9g \u00feyrfti \u00fev\u00ed m\u00f6gulega a\u00f0 gera samning vi\u00f0 einhvern um a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 um eldamennskuna \u00e1 heimilinu!\r\n\r\nEn \u00feetta gengur allt me\u00f0 skipul\u00f6g\u00f0u kaosi. \u00c9g er nefnilega a\u00f0 e\u00f0lisfari mikill sveimhugi og \u00f6rl\u00edti\u00f0 utan vi\u00f0 mig en mitt helsta vopn gegn \u00feessu \u00f6llu er a\u00f0 hl\u00e6gja bara n\u00f3gu miki\u00f0.\r\n
\u00c9g \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 nefnilega til a\u00f0 l\u00e9tta tilveruna me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gleyma h\u00faslyklunum m\u00ednum \u00ed skr\u00e1nni heila helgi \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00e9g skrepp \u00ed fer\u00f0alag. (sem betur fer b\u00fd \u00e9g \u00e1 \u00feri\u00f0ju h\u00e6\u00f0 \u00ed blokk) \u2026 j\u00e1 e\u00f0a l\u00e6sa barni\u00f0 \u00f3vart inn \u00ed b\u00edl, me\u00f0 lyklana inn \u00ed b\u00edlnum (\u00fea\u00f0 t\u00f3k samt bara korter a\u00f0 n\u00e1 henni \u00fat aftur).<\/blockquote>\r\nSvo held \u00e9g a\u00f0 hugarfari\u00f0 skipti svol\u00edti\u00f0 m\u00e1li. Ef \u00e9g \u00e1kve\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00f6f\u00f0inu a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 erfitt \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur \u00feetta erfitt. Ef \u00e9g \u00e1kve\u00f0a a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 \u00feetta sem g\u00f3\u00f0a skemmtun me\u00f0 dassi af erfi\u00f0um d\u00fdfum, \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur \u00feetta \u00feannig\u2026 \u00e9g held \u00fev\u00ed sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 m\u00e9r takist \u00e1g\u00e6tlega til.\r\n\r\n
<\/a>\r\n\r\nEr eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00e9r finnst a\u00f0 m\u00e6tti betur fara \u00ed fr\u00e6\u00f0slu til foreldra barna, svona almennt?<\/strong>\r\n\r\n\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3tal margt sem \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta fyrir foreldra fatla\u00f0ra barna. Kerfi\u00f0 er oft erfitt og \u00feessi fyrstu skref \u00feegar greiningarferlin eru fl\u00f3kin. \u00dea\u00f0 eru til m\u00f6rg samt\u00f6k sem a\u00f0sto\u00f0a og lei\u00f0 og greining er komin opnast hafsj\u00f3r af a\u00f0sto\u00f0 en \u00ed ferlinu sj\u00e1lf upplif\u00f0um vi\u00f0 okkur alveg ein \u00e1 b\u00e1ti. Eins og \u00e9g hef oft sagt fr\u00e1 var okkur sagt a\u00f0 fara heim og googla \u00feegar vi\u00f0 fengum greiningu \u00e1 Freyd\u00edsi. Sem eru l\u00edklega \u00feau fur\u00f0ulegustu fyrirm\u00e6li sem \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0. Af hverju er enginn sem a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar \u00feig og segir \u00fe\u00e9r hvert \u00e1 a\u00f0 leita og vi\u00f0 hvern \u00e1 a\u00f0 tala? Af hverju tekur enginn \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00fe\u00e9r \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0 greiningu \u00e1 barni\u00f0 \u00feitt og fer yfir m\u00e1lin og fr\u00e6\u00f0ir \u00feig e\u00f0a kemur \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 a\u00f0ra foreldra til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin vi\u00f0? A\u00f0 fara heim og googla og vera ein me\u00f0 spurningar og \u00f3vissu er afleitt.\r\n\r\n<\/a>\r\n\r\nEru \u201cm\u00f6mmufr\u00ed\u201d nau\u00f0synleg? \u00dei\u00f0 vinkonurnar skelltu\u00f0 ykkur til Mar\u00f3kk\u00f3 \u00ed apr\u00edl surf- og j\u00f3gafer\u00f0, er \u00fea\u00f0 e-\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa m\u00e6lir me\u00f0?<\/strong>\r\n\r\nForeldrafr\u00ed eru almennt nau\u00f0synleg. \u00dea\u00f0 er nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0eins \u00far umhverfi s\u00ednu \u00ed g\u00f3\u00f0ra vinah\u00f3pi og hl\u00e6gja og slaka \u00e1.\r\n\r\n\u00c9g f\u00f3r me\u00f0 n\u00edu vinkonum \u00ed surf og j\u00f3gafer\u00f0 til Mar\u00f3kk\u00f3\u00a0 \u00ed apr\u00edl \u00e1 \u00feessu \u00e1ri. Fyrir fer\u00f0ina \u00feekktumst vi\u00f0 ekki allar en treystum b\u00f6ndin svo sannarlega \u00ed fer\u00f0inni. Fer\u00f0in var yndisleg \u00ed alla sta\u00f0i og minningar um hana eru g\u00f3\u00f0ar. \u00c9g n\u00e1\u00f0i \u00fear sl\u00f6kun og \u00fea\u00f0 var svo gott a\u00f0 vera bara \u00ed Afr\u00edku \u00fear sem var d\u00fdrt a\u00f0 hringja heim, stopult internet og stundum rafmagnslaust. \u00dea\u00f0 ger\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 n\u00fai\u00f0 var \u00fea\u00f0 eina sem var \u00ed bo\u00f0i og samveran \u00feess e\u00f0lis a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 vorum allar \u00e1 sta\u00f0num. Ekki a\u00f0 fjarst\u00fdra heimilum okkar \u00ed gegnum neti\u00f0 \u00e1 me\u00f0an vi\u00f0 reyndum a\u00f0 stunda j\u00f3ga.\r\n\r\n<\/a>\r\n\r\n\u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega gryfja sem er svo au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 falla \u00ed. Fara a\u00f0 heiman en samt fjarst\u00fdra. \u00c9g geri \u00fea\u00f0 mj\u00f6g oft, l\u00edklega \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e9r finnst erfitt a\u00f0 sleppa t\u00f6kunum og treysta \u00e1 a\u00f0 allt gangi upp \u00e1n m\u00edn. \u00dearna \u00fati fatta\u00f0i \u00e9g a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 gekk bara allt vel upp, d\u00e6tur m\u00ednar voru gla\u00f0ar og skilu\u00f0u s\u00e9r \u00ed t\u00f3mstundir og anna\u00f0. \u00de\u00f3 a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri ekki a\u00f0 skipta m\u00e9r af, svei m\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1!\r\n\r\nAlveg eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er okkur nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 fara \u00ed fr\u00ed fr\u00e1 vinnunni \u00fe\u00e1 er okkur l\u00edka nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 taka fr\u00ed fr\u00e1 heimilinu anna\u00f0 slagi\u00f0. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er f\u00f3lk \u00ed misjafnri a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u og hafa misj\u00f6fn t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri fyrir sl\u00edkt. En ef \u00fea\u00f0 er bara einn g\u00f6ngut\u00far \u00ed t\u00edu m\u00edn\u00fatur til a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sm\u00e1 r\u00f3, \u00fe\u00e1 gerir \u00fea\u00f0 oft helling.\r\n\r\n\u00c9g \u00feakka Krist\u00ednu \u00ddr k\u00e6rlega fyrir spjalli\u00f0 og \u00f3ska henni og stelpunum hennar velfarna\u00f0ar um \u00f3komna framt\u00ed\u00f0.<\/em>\r\n