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custom_margin=&#8221;||-56px|||&#8221;][et_pb_row use_custom_gutter=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.2&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221; max_width=&#8221;1000px&#8221; module_alignment=&#8221;center&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;4_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.2&#8243; _module_preset=&#8221;default&#8221;][et_pb_text admin_label=&#8221;Tefgdfghdgxt&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.9.2&#8243; background_size=&#8221;initial&#8221; background_position=&#8221;top_left&#8221; background_repeat=&#8221;repeat&#8221;]<\/p>\n<p>Mannf\u00f3lki\u00f0 er \u00ed grunninn sam\u00fa\u00f0arfullt og finnur fyrir hluttekningu, \u00fe.e. \u00fea\u00f0 skynjar hva\u00f0 a\u00f0rir ganga \u00ed gegnum. Samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur eru b\u00f6rn \u00fearna undantekning, enda ekkert skr\u00fdti\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0! \u00deau \u00feurfa a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0 hj\u00e1 foreldrunum.<\/p>\n<p>Ef barni\u00f0 \u00feitt lemur systur s\u00edna er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 segja: \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 mei\u00f0ir \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa sl\u00e6r\u00f0 fr\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r. Svona \u00e1 a\u00f0 snerta \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0an h\u00e1tt. Finnur\u00f0u hvernig \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0ur vel?\u201c \u00deetta tekur t\u00edma a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00ed gegn, en er \u00feess vir\u00f0i.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hva\u00f0 h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 kenna samkennd?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Nefndu tilfinninguna<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 nefna hlutina r\u00e9ttum n\u00f6fnum, s.s. heg\u00f0un barnsins ertu a\u00f0 kenna \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 bera kennsl \u00e1 tilfinningar s\u00ednar. Seg\u00f0u: \u201eAlex, \u00fe\u00fa ert svo g\u00f3\u00f0ur,\u201c ef hann kyssir \u00e1 \u201eb\u00e1gti\u00f0\u201c \u00feitt. Hann l\u00e6rir fr\u00e1 vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um \u00fe\u00ednum a\u00f0 g\u00e6ska hans er vel metin og eftir g\u00f3\u00f0ri heg\u00f0un er teki\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf einnig a\u00f0 kenna b\u00f6rnum neikv\u00e6\u00f0ar tilfinningar \u00feannig ekki hika vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 benda r\u00f3lega \u00e1 \u00feegar \u00feau s\u00fdna ekki g\u00f3\u00f0vild. Reyndu a\u00f0 segja eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0: \u201eBr\u00f3\u00f0ir \u00feinn var\u00f0 mj\u00f6g lei\u00f0ur \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa t\u00f3kst b\u00edlinn hans af honum. Hva\u00f0 g\u00e6tir \u00fe\u00fa gert til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta honum l\u00ed\u00f0a betur?\u201c<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fagna\u00f0u g\u00f3\u00f0ri heg\u00f0un<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00deegar barni\u00f0 \u00feitt heg\u00f0ar s\u00e9r vel og s\u00fdnir g\u00f3\u00f0vild, seg\u00f0u \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 ger\u00f0i r\u00e9tt. Reyndu a\u00f0 vera eins n\u00e1kv\u00e6m\/ur og h\u00e6gt er: \u201e\u00de\u00fa varst mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0\/ur a\u00f0 deila bangsanum \u00fe\u00ednum me\u00f0 litlu systur \u00feinni. \u00dea\u00f0 ger\u00f0i hana mj\u00f6g gla\u00f0a. S\u00e9r\u00f0u brosi\u00f0 hennar?\u201c<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hvettu barni\u00f0 til a\u00f0 tala um tilfinningar s\u00ednar \u2013 og \u00fe\u00ednar<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>L\u00e1ttu barni\u00f0 vita a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hlustir \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 talar um tilfinningar s\u00ednar. Horf\u00f0u \u00ed augu \u00feess \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 talar og umor\u00f0a\u00f0u \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 segir. Ef barni\u00f0 hr\u00f3par: \u201eH\u00farra!\u201c til d\u00e6mis, skaltu segja: \u201e\u00d3, \u00fe\u00fa ert gl\u00f6\u00f0 \u00ed dag!\u201c \u00de\u00f3 \u00fea\u00f0 svari ekki e\u00f0a viti ekki hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 mun \u00fea\u00f0 ekki eiga \u00ed erfi\u00f0leikum me\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a um a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed l\u00ed\u00f0ur vel.<\/p>\n<p>\u00de\u00fa skalt l\u00edka deila \u00fe\u00ednum tilfinningum me\u00f0 barninu: \u201e\u00c9g er lei\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00fa sl\u00f3st mig. Vi\u00f0 skulum finna a\u00f0ra lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa getir sagt m\u00e9r fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa viljir ekki vera \u00ed \u00feessum sk\u00f3m.\u201c Barni\u00f0 l\u00e6rir \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 athafnir \u00feess hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 a\u00f0ra, sem er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 st\u00f3r hlutur fyrir barn a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bentu \u00e1 heg\u00f0un annarra<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kenndu barninu \u00fe\u00ednu a\u00f0 taka eftir \u00feegar a\u00f0rir s\u00fdna g\u00f3\u00f0mennsku. Seg\u00f0u t.a.m. \u201eManstu eftir konunni \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0inni sem hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0i okkur a\u00f0 taka upp matinn \u00feegar \u00e9g missti pokann minn? H\u00fan var mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0 vi\u00f0 okkur og h\u00fan l\u00e9t m\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0a betur \u00feegar m\u00e9r lei\u00f0 illa.\u201c<\/p>\n<p>Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 benda barninu \u00e1 sl\u00edkt, \u00fdtir \u00fe\u00fa undir skilning barnsins \u00e1 hvernig gj\u00f6r\u00f0ir annarra hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 okkur tilfinningalega. B\u00e6kur eru l\u00edka g\u00f3\u00f0ir kennarar, ef einhver t\u00fdnir hundinum s\u00ednum \u00ed s\u00f6gunni geti\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 r\u00e6tt hvernig honum e\u00f0a henni kunni a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a, og \u00fe\u00fa getur spurt barni\u00f0 hvernig \u00fev\u00ed myndi l\u00ed\u00f0a lenti \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed svipu\u00f0um a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/p>\n<p>Svona samt\u00f6l munu hj\u00e1lpa barninu a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra um annara manna tilfinningar og samsama sig me\u00f0 \u00feeim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kenndu barninu kurteisi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>G\u00f3\u00f0ir si\u00f0ir eru s\u00edgild lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 s\u00fdna umhyggju gagnvart \u00f6\u00f0rum. Um lei\u00f0 og barni\u00f0 getur tj\u00e1\u00f0 sig \u00e1 m\u00e6ltu m\u00e1li er sj\u00e1lfsagt a\u00f0 kenna \u00fev\u00ed \u201em\u00e1 \u00e9g\u201c og \u201etakk fyrir\u201c. \u00datsk\u00fdr\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa viljir frekar hj\u00e1lpa \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er kurteist og \u00fe\u00e9r finnist vont \u00feegar barni\u00f0 skipar \u00fe\u00e9r fyrir. Og a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u setur \u00fe\u00fa ford\u00e6mi\u00f0 sem foreldri me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feakka fyrir \u00feig og s\u00fdna almenna kurteisi!<\/p>\n<p>\u00deannig l\u00e6rir barni\u00f0 a\u00f0 sl\u00edk heg\u00f0un er hluti mannlegra samskipta, b\u00e6\u00f0i heima sem og annars sta\u00f0ar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ekki nota rei\u00f0i sem stj\u00f3rnunart\u00e6ki<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 erfitt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hemja rei\u00f0ina \u00feegar barni\u00f0 \u00feitt gerir eitthva\u00f0 miki\u00f0 af s\u00e9r er \u00fea\u00f0 mj\u00f6g nau\u00f0synlegt. \u00de\u00fa ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 kenna me\u00f0 ford\u00e6mi og lei\u00f0beiningum, \u00fea\u00f0 er mun \u00f6flugra t\u00e6ki. Ef \u00fe\u00fa segir vi\u00f0 barni\u00f0: \u201e\u00c9g er mj\u00f6g rei\u00f0\/ur \u00fat \u00ed \u00feig\u201c getur barni\u00f0 bakka\u00f0 og loka\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feig. \u00deess \u00ed sta\u00f0 skaltu s\u00fdna barninu samkennd. R\u00f3a\u00f0u \u00feig ni\u00f0ur og seg\u00f0u \u00e1kv\u00f0i\u00f0: \u201e\u00c9g veit \u00fe\u00fa varst rei\u00f0, en \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6ttir ekki a\u00f0 sl\u00e1 br\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00feinn. \u00dea\u00f0 meiddi hann og \u00e9g er lei\u00f0. Vinsamlega biddu hann afs\u00f6kunar.\u201c<\/p>\n<p><strong>Gef\u00f0u barninu l\u00edtil verkefni<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdna a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn sem l\u00e6ra a\u00f0 taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 l\u00e6ra einnig a\u00f0 bera umhyggju fyrir \u00f6\u00f0rum og \u00f3s\u00e9rpl\u00e6gni. Litlar manneskjur elska a\u00f0 leysa af hendi l\u00edtil verkefni, s.s. a\u00f0 gefa g\u00e6lud\u00fdrinu a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a. Svo elska \u00feau l\u00edka a\u00f0 f\u00e1 hr\u00f3si\u00f0! \u201eSj\u00e1\u00f0u hva\u00f0 Krummi er gla\u00f0ur a\u00f0 f\u00e1 a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a! Hann dillar skottinu! \u00de\u00fa ert svo g\u00f3\u00f0\/ur vi\u00f0 hann. Hann er mj\u00f6g gla\u00f0ur a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt a\u00f0 gefa honum a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a.\u201c<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vertu g\u00f3\u00f0 fyrirmynd<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A\u00f0 s\u00fdna g\u00f3\u00f0vild, k\u00e6rleika og umbur\u00f0arlyndi er besta lei\u00f0in til a\u00f0 kenna barni samkennd. Taktu barni\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra veikum vini e\u00f0a \u00e6ttingja mat e\u00f0a einhver \u00ed kringum \u00feig eignast barn. 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Samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur eru b\u00f6rn \u00fearna undantekning, enda ekkert skr\u00fdti\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0! \u00deau \u00feurfa a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0 hj\u00e1 foreldrunum. Ef barni\u00f0 \u00feitt lemur systur s\u00edna er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 segja: \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 mei\u00f0ir \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa sl\u00e6r\u00f0 fr\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r. Svona \u00e1 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4186,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"<p>Mannf\u00f3lki\u00f0 er \u00ed grunninn sam\u00fa\u00f0arfullt og finnur fyrir hluttekningu, \u00fe.e. \u00fea\u00f0 skynjar hva\u00f0 a\u00f0rir ganga \u00ed gegnum. Samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur eru b\u00f6rn \u00fearna undantekning, enda ekkert skr\u00fdti\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0! \u00deau \u00feurfa a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0 hj\u00e1 foreldrunum.<\/p><p>Ef barni\u00f0 \u00feitt lemur systur s\u00edna er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 segja: \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 mei\u00f0ir \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa sl\u00e6r\u00f0 fr\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r. Svona \u00e1 a\u00f0 snerta \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0an h\u00e1tt. Finnur\u00f0u hvernig \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0ur vel?\u201c \u00deetta tekur t\u00edma a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00ed gegn, en er \u00feess vir\u00f0i.<\/p><p><strong>Hva\u00f0 h\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 kenna samkennd?<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Nefndu tilfinninguna<\/strong><\/p><p>Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 nefna hlutina r\u00e9ttum n\u00f6fnum, s.s. heg\u00f0un barnsins ertu a\u00f0 kenna \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 bera kennsl \u00e1 tilfinningar s\u00ednar. Seg\u00f0u: \u201eAlex, \u00fe\u00fa ert svo g\u00f3\u00f0ur,\u201c ef hann kyssir \u00e1 \u201eb\u00e1gti\u00f0\u201c \u00feitt. Hann l\u00e6rir fr\u00e1 vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um \u00fe\u00ednum a\u00f0 g\u00e6ska hans er vel metin og eftir g\u00f3\u00f0ri heg\u00f0un er teki\u00f0.<\/p><p>\u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf einnig a\u00f0 kenna b\u00f6rnum neikv\u00e6\u00f0ar tilfinningar \u00feannig ekki hika vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 benda r\u00f3lega \u00e1 \u00feegar \u00feau s\u00fdna ekki g\u00f3\u00f0vild. Reyndu a\u00f0 segja eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0: \u201eBr\u00f3\u00f0ir \u00feinn var\u00f0 mj\u00f6g lei\u00f0ur \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa t\u00f3kst b\u00edlinn hans af honum. Hva\u00f0 g\u00e6tir \u00fe\u00fa gert til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta honum l\u00ed\u00f0a betur?\u201c<\/p><p><strong>Fagna\u00f0u g\u00f3\u00f0ri heg\u00f0un<\/strong><\/p><p>\u00deegar barni\u00f0 \u00feitt heg\u00f0ar s\u00e9r vel og s\u00fdnir g\u00f3\u00f0vild, seg\u00f0u \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 ger\u00f0i r\u00e9tt. Reyndu a\u00f0 vera eins n\u00e1kv\u00e6m\/ur og h\u00e6gt er: \u201e\u00de\u00fa varst mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0\/ur a\u00f0 deila bangsanum \u00fe\u00ednum me\u00f0 litlu systur \u00feinni. \u00dea\u00f0 ger\u00f0i hana mj\u00f6g gla\u00f0a. S\u00e9r\u00f0u brosi\u00f0 hennar?\u201c<\/p><p><strong>Hvettu barni\u00f0 til a\u00f0 tala um tilfinningar s\u00ednar \u2013 og \u00fe\u00ednar<\/strong><\/p><p>L\u00e1ttu barni\u00f0 vita a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hlustir \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 talar um tilfinningar s\u00ednar. Horf\u00f0u \u00ed augu \u00feess \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 talar og umor\u00f0a\u00f0u \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 segir. Ef barni\u00f0 hr\u00f3par: \u201eH\u00farra!\u201c til d\u00e6mis, skaltu segja: \u201e\u00d3, \u00fe\u00fa ert gl\u00f6\u00f0 \u00ed dag!\u201c \u00de\u00f3 \u00fea\u00f0 svari ekki e\u00f0a viti ekki hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 mun \u00fea\u00f0 ekki eiga \u00ed erfi\u00f0leikum me\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a um a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed l\u00ed\u00f0ur vel.<\/p><p>\u00de\u00fa skalt l\u00edka deila \u00fe\u00ednum tilfinningum me\u00f0 barninu: \u201e\u00c9g er lei\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00fa sl\u00f3st mig. Vi\u00f0 skulum finna a\u00f0ra lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa getir sagt m\u00e9r fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa viljir ekki vera \u00ed \u00feessum sk\u00f3m.\u201c Barni\u00f0 l\u00e6rir \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 athafnir \u00feess hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 a\u00f0ra, sem er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 st\u00f3r hlutur fyrir barn a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1.<\/p><p><strong>Bentu \u00e1 heg\u00f0un annarra<\/strong><\/p><p>Kenndu barninu \u00fe\u00ednu a\u00f0 taka eftir \u00feegar a\u00f0rir s\u00fdna g\u00f3\u00f0mennsku. Seg\u00f0u t.a.m. \u201eManstu eftir konunni \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0inni sem hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0i okkur a\u00f0 taka upp matinn \u00feegar \u00e9g missti pokann minn? H\u00fan var mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0 vi\u00f0 okkur og h\u00fan l\u00e9t m\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0a betur \u00feegar m\u00e9r lei\u00f0 illa.\u201c<\/p><p>Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 benda barninu \u00e1 sl\u00edkt, \u00fdtir \u00fe\u00fa undir skilning barnsins \u00e1 hvernig gj\u00f6r\u00f0ir annarra hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 okkur tilfinningalega. B\u00e6kur eru l\u00edka g\u00f3\u00f0ir kennarar, ef einhver t\u00fdnir hundinum s\u00ednum \u00ed s\u00f6gunni geti\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 r\u00e6tt hvernig honum e\u00f0a henni kunni a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a, og \u00fe\u00fa getur spurt barni\u00f0 hvernig \u00fev\u00ed myndi l\u00ed\u00f0a lenti \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed svipu\u00f0um a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/p><p>Svona samt\u00f6l munu hj\u00e1lpa barninu a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra um annara manna tilfinningar og samsama sig me\u00f0 \u00feeim.<\/p><p><strong>Kenndu barninu kurteisi<\/strong><\/p><p>G\u00f3\u00f0ir si\u00f0ir eru s\u00edgild lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 s\u00fdna umhyggju gagnvart \u00f6\u00f0rum. Um lei\u00f0 og barni\u00f0 getur tj\u00e1\u00f0 sig \u00e1 m\u00e6ltu m\u00e1li er sj\u00e1lfsagt a\u00f0 kenna \u00fev\u00ed \u201em\u00e1 \u00e9g\u201c og \u201etakk fyrir\u201c. \u00datsk\u00fdr\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa viljir frekar hj\u00e1lpa \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er kurteist og \u00fe\u00e9r finnist vont \u00feegar barni\u00f0 skipar \u00fe\u00e9r fyrir. Og a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u setur \u00fe\u00fa ford\u00e6mi\u00f0 sem foreldri me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feakka fyrir \u00feig og s\u00fdna almenna kurteisi!<\/p><p>\u00deannig l\u00e6rir barni\u00f0 a\u00f0 sl\u00edk heg\u00f0un er hluti mannlegra samskipta, b\u00e6\u00f0i heima sem og annars sta\u00f0ar.<\/p><p><strong>Ekki nota rei\u00f0i sem stj\u00f3rnunart\u00e6ki<\/strong><\/p><p>\u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 erfitt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hemja rei\u00f0ina \u00feegar barni\u00f0 \u00feitt gerir eitthva\u00f0 miki\u00f0 af s\u00e9r er \u00fea\u00f0 mj\u00f6g nau\u00f0synlegt. \u00de\u00fa ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 kenna me\u00f0 ford\u00e6mi og lei\u00f0beiningum, \u00fea\u00f0 er mun \u00f6flugra t\u00e6ki. Ef \u00fe\u00fa segir vi\u00f0 barni\u00f0: \u201e\u00c9g er mj\u00f6g rei\u00f0\/ur \u00fat \u00ed \u00feig\u201c getur barni\u00f0 bakka\u00f0 og loka\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feig. \u00deess \u00ed sta\u00f0 skaltu s\u00fdna barninu samkennd. R\u00f3a\u00f0u \u00feig ni\u00f0ur og seg\u00f0u \u00e1kv\u00f0i\u00f0: \u201e\u00c9g veit \u00fe\u00fa varst rei\u00f0, en \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6ttir ekki a\u00f0 sl\u00e1 br\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00feinn. \u00dea\u00f0 meiddi hann og \u00e9g er lei\u00f0. Vinsamlega biddu hann afs\u00f6kunar.\u201c<\/p><p><strong>Gef\u00f0u barninu l\u00edtil verkefni<\/strong><\/p><p>Ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdna a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn sem l\u00e6ra a\u00f0 taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 l\u00e6ra einnig a\u00f0 bera umhyggju fyrir \u00f6\u00f0rum og \u00f3s\u00e9rpl\u00e6gni. Litlar manneskjur elska a\u00f0 leysa af hendi l\u00edtil verkefni, s.s. a\u00f0 gefa g\u00e6lud\u00fdrinu a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a. Svo elska \u00feau l\u00edka a\u00f0 f\u00e1 hr\u00f3si\u00f0! \u201eSj\u00e1\u00f0u hva\u00f0 Krummi er gla\u00f0ur a\u00f0 f\u00e1 a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a! Hann dillar skottinu! \u00de\u00fa ert svo g\u00f3\u00f0\/ur vi\u00f0 hann. Hann er mj\u00f6g gla\u00f0ur a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt a\u00f0 gefa honum a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a.\u201c<\/p><p><strong>Vertu g\u00f3\u00f0 fyrirmynd<\/strong><\/p><p>A\u00f0 s\u00fdna g\u00f3\u00f0vild, k\u00e6rleika og umbur\u00f0arlyndi er besta lei\u00f0in til a\u00f0 kenna barni samkennd. Taktu barni\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra veikum vini e\u00f0a \u00e6ttingja mat e\u00f0a einhver \u00ed kringum \u00feig eignast barn. Leyf\u00f0u barninu a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa \u00fe\u00e9r a\u00f0 pakka ni\u00f0ur d\u00f3ti sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6tlar a\u00f0 gefa \u00ed nytjamarka\u00f0. \u00de\u00fa getur \u00fatsk\u00fdrt \u00ed lei\u00f0inni a\u00f0 stundum s\u00e9 f\u00f3lk veikt e\u00f0a hafi ekki n\u00f3g af mat e\u00f0a f\u00f6tum \u00feannig \u00fe\u00fa leggir \u00feitt af m\u00f6rkum til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa n\u00e1unganum.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[55],"tags":[147,146,31,127],"class_list":["post-3785","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-foreldrar-born","tag-foreldri","tag-samkennd","tag-tilfinningar","tag-uppeldi"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Hvernig kenna skal b\u00f6rnum samkennd - mamman.is<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/mamman.is\/?p=3785\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Hvernig kenna skal b\u00f6rnum samkennd - mamman.is\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Mannf\u00f3lki\u00f0 er \u00ed grunninn sam\u00fa\u00f0arfullt og finnur fyrir hluttekningu, \u00fe.e. \u00fea\u00f0 skynjar hva\u00f0 a\u00f0rir ganga \u00ed gegnum. 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