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\u201eH\u00fan f\u00e6r alltaf a\u00f0 fara \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 me\u00f0 vinum s\u00ednum! Af hverju f\u00e6 \u00e9g a\u00f0 fara svona sjaldan?\u201c<\/p>\n
\u201e\u00de\u00fa elskar hann meira en mig!\u201c<\/p>\n
\u201e\u00c9g vildi a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tti engin systkini!\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n
Foreldrar sem eiga fleira en eitt barn hafa allir heyrt eitthva\u00f0 svipa\u00f0. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 systkini geti veri\u00f0 n\u00e1nir vinir er \u00f3l\u00edklegt a\u00f0 allt gangi fullkomlega fri\u00f0samlega fyrir sig \u00f6llum stundum.<\/p>\n
Br\u00e6\u00f0ur og systur r\u00edfast og sl\u00e1st, \u00fea\u00f0 er bara eins og fj\u00f6lskyldur eru. \u00d3l\u00edkir pers\u00f3nuleikar og aldursmunur spilar st\u00f3ran \u00fe\u00e1tt en systkini sj\u00e1 l\u00edka hvort anna\u00f0 sem keppinaut sem keppast um hluta af takm\u00f6rku\u00f0um au\u00f0lindum fj\u00f6lskyldunnar s.s. ba\u00f0herberginu, s\u00edmanum e\u00f0a s\u00ed\u00f0ustu k\u00f6kusnei\u00f0inni, sem og athygli foreldranna.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 systkini eigi \u00ed \u00e1greiningi en \u00fea\u00f0 getur gert foreldrana brj\u00e1la\u00f0a. Lykillinn a\u00f0 f\u00e6rri \u00e1rekstrum?<\/p>\n
A\u00f0 vita hven\u00e6r b\u00f6rnin geta leyst m\u00e1lin sj\u00e1lf og hven\u00e6r \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt a\u00f0 skipta \u00fe\u00e9r af.<\/p>\n
\u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00e1greinings<\/strong><\/p>\n
B\u00f6rn eru ekki alltaf rauns\u00e6, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00feau yngri. Stundum getur eitthvert sm\u00e1atri\u00f0i sn\u00faist upp \u00ed risast\u00f3rt m\u00e1l og \u00fea\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist sem \u00feaki\u00f0 \u00e6tli a\u00f0 fj\u00faka af h\u00fasinu \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Athugi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn eru afskaplega oft a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 n\u00e1 athygli \u00feinni. \u00dev\u00ed uppteknari sem foreldrarnir eru, \u00fev\u00ed meiri \u00e1hersla er hj\u00e1 b\u00f6rnunum a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00feessari athygli \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 foreldri\u00f0 hefur minni t\u00edma fyrir hvert barn fyrir sig.<\/p>\n
\u00deegar n\u00fdtt barn b\u00e6tist \u00ed fj\u00f6lskylduna ver\u00f0ur erfitt fyrir yngsta barni\u00f0 a\u00f0 missa s\u00e6ti sitt sem mi\u00f0punktur athyglinnar. Stundum eru foreldrarnir uppteknir af barninu sem hefur s\u00e9rstakar \u00fearfir e\u00f0a er veikt. B\u00f6rn munu alltaf vera me\u00f0 l\u00e6ti e\u00f0a vera \u00f3\u00feekk til a\u00f0 n\u00e1 athygli finnist \u00feeim \u00feau ekki f\u00e1 hana.<\/p>\n
Flest heimili hafa ekki \u00f3takmarka\u00f0ar au\u00f0lindir<\/strong><\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 systkini \u00feurfa a\u00f0 deila einhverjum hlutum. A\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 gefa eftir er stundum afskaplega erfitt, s\u00e9rstaklega yngri b\u00f6rnum.<\/p>\n
Einstakir pers\u00f3nuleikar<\/strong><\/p>\n
Elsta barni\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 vera \u00ferj\u00f3skt \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 yngsta er \u00fe\u00f6gult og innhverft. Mismunandi skaplyndi getur valdi\u00f0 \u00e1rekstrum. Aldur og kyn geta einnig leitt til rifrildis.<\/p>\n
R\u00e9ttl\u00e6tism\u00e1l<\/strong><\/p>\n
B\u00f6rn eru eins og litlir l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar, alltaf a\u00f0 krefjast r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tis og sanngirni og \u00feau berjast fyrir r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum. Yngra systkini kann a\u00f0 kvarta yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eldra systkini m\u00e1 fara \u00e1 t\u00f3nleika \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 vera heima, \u00e1 me\u00f0an eldra systkini kann a\u00f0 kvarta yfir a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 passa yngra systkini \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 fara \u00fat me\u00f0 vinunum. Tilfinningar vegna \u00f3r\u00e9ttl\u00e1trar me\u00f0fer\u00f0ar og afbr\u00fd\u00f0isemi me\u00f0al systkina getur leitt til \u00f3s\u00e6ttis.<\/p>\n
A\u00f0 finna fj\u00f6lskyldujafnv\u00e6gi<\/strong><\/p>\n
\u00d6skur og rifrildi geta gert foreldra brj\u00e1la\u00f0a, en for\u00f0ist a\u00f0 lenda \u00ed hringi\u00f0u rifrildanna nema a\u00f0 barn s\u00e9 \u00ed h\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a meitt. Reyndu a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta krakkana finna \u00fat \u00far hlutunum sj\u00e1lfir. A\u00f0 blanda \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed m\u00e1lin kennir ekki kr\u00f6kkunum a\u00f0 leysa m\u00e1lin og \u00fe\u00e1 er au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 \u00feig sem s\u00f6kud\u00f3lg, \u201e\u00fe\u00fa stendur alltaf me\u00f0 honum\/henni!\u201c<\/p>\n
Sum \u00e1greiningsm\u00e1l eru au\u00f0veldari en \u00f6nnur fyrir b\u00f6rnin sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 leysa. H\u00e9r eru nokkur r\u00e1\u00f0 til a\u00f0 enda rifrildi ef \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft a\u00f0 skipta \u00fe\u00e9r af:<\/p>\n
A\u00f0skildu \u00feau. Taktu b\u00f6rnin \u00far a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um og l\u00e1ttu \u00feau \u00ed sitthvort herbergi\u00f0. Stundum \u00feurfa \u00feau bara fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0 fr\u00e1 hvort \u00f6\u00f0ru.<\/p>\n
Kenndu samningavi\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0ur og hli\u00f0ranir<\/strong><\/p>\n
S\u00fdndu b\u00f6rnunum hvernig leysa \u00e1 \u00e1greiningsm\u00e1l til a\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0ir a\u00f0ilar s\u00e9u s\u00e1ttir. Biddu \u00feau um a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 \u00f6skra og fara a\u00f0 tala frekar. Gef\u00f0u hvoru barni fyrir sig t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri \u00e1 a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 s\u00edna hli\u00f0. Hlusta\u00f0u \u00e1 b\u00e1\u00f0ar og passa\u00f0u a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma ekki. Reyndu a\u00f0 or\u00f0a vandam\u00e1li\u00f0: \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 hlj\u00f3mar eins og \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt rei\u00f0 \u00fat \u00ed J\u00f3a fyrir a\u00f0 taka upp\u00e1halds t\u00f6lvuleikinn \u00feinn.\u201c<\/p>\n
Biddu \u00feau svo a\u00f0 koma upp me\u00f0 lausn sem g\u00e6ti henta\u00f0 \u00f6llum. Ef ekki, getur \u00fe\u00fa komi\u00f0 me\u00f0 upp\u00e1stungu. Til d\u00e6mis, ef b\u00f6rnin eru a\u00f0 sl\u00e1st um n\u00fdjan t\u00f6lvuleik, g\u00e6tir \u00fe\u00fa sett t\u00edmat\u00f6flu sem gefur hvoru barni fyrir sig t\u00edma til a\u00f0 spila leikinn.<\/p>\n
Settu reglur<\/strong><\/p>\n
Vertu viss um a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin s\u00e9u a\u00f0 fylgja s\u00f6mu reglum. \u00de\u00e6r \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 sn\u00faast um a\u00f0 enginn mei\u00f0i hvorn annan, ekki s\u00e9 uppnefnt e\u00f0a ey\u00f0ilagt eitthva\u00f0 fyrir hinum. L\u00e1ttu b\u00f6rnin b\u00faa til reglurnar me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r. Ef ekki er fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 reglum er refsa\u00f0, t.d. a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 f\u00e1i ekki a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 sj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0 \u00ed eitt kv\u00f6ld. Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin semji reglurnar saman gefur \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feeim tilfinningu a\u00f0 \u00feau hafi einhverja stj\u00f3rn. \u00deegar b\u00f6rnin fara eftir reglunum skaltu hr\u00f3sa \u00feeim. Reglurnar kunna a\u00f0 vera breytilegar eftir aldri barnanna, en einnig aflei\u00f0ingarnar.<\/p>\n
Ekki velja \u00fe\u00e9r hli\u00f0<\/strong><\/p>\n
Ef eitt af b\u00f6rnunum \u00fe\u00ednum er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 lenda \u00ed vandr\u00e6\u00f0um, en hin ekki, passa\u00f0u \u00feig a\u00f0 fara ekki \u00ed samanbur\u00f0. T.d. \u201eAf hverju getur \u00fe\u00fa ekki veri\u00f0 meira eins og systir \u00fe\u00edn?\u201c<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 elur enn meira \u00e1 \u00f3s\u00e6tti milli systkinanna. A\u00f0 gefa einu barni s\u00e9rme\u00f0fer\u00f0 getur ey\u00f0ilagt sambandi\u00f0 milli \u00fe\u00edn og barnanna.<\/p>\n
Ekki gera allt jafnt<\/strong><\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert sem heitir fullkomi\u00f0 jafnv\u00e6gi \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldu. Eldra barn mun \u00f3hj\u00e1kv\u00e6milega f\u00e1 eitthva\u00f0 umfram hi\u00f0 yngra \u00feannig \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3m\u00f6gulegt a\u00f0 gera \u00f6llum til h\u00e6fis. \u00deess \u00ed sta\u00f0 skaltu koma fram vi\u00f0 hvert barn \u00e1 sinn einstaka h\u00e1tt og l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 finna fyrir mikilv\u00e6gi s\u00ednu.<\/p>\n
Gef\u00f0u b\u00f6rnunum r\u00e9ttindi yfir s\u00ednum eigin eigum. A\u00f0 deila er mikilv\u00e6gt, en b\u00f6rn \u00e6tti ekki a\u00f0 \u00fevinga til a\u00f0 deila \u00f6llu. B\u00f6rnin \u00fe\u00edn \u00e6ttu \u00f6ll a\u00f0 eiga eitthva\u00f0 s\u00e9rstakt sem er a\u00f0eins \u00feeirra.<\/p>\n
Haldi\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldufundi<\/strong><\/p>\n
Einu sinni \u00ed viku er \u00e1g\u00e6tt a\u00f0 kalla til fj\u00f6lskyldufund til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin. Gef\u00f0u hverjum og einum t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri \u00e1 a\u00f0 koma sko\u00f0unum s\u00ednum \u00e1 framf\u00e6ri og allir \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 finna lausn \u00e1 m\u00e1lunum saman.<\/p>\n
Gef\u00f0u hverju barni fyrir sig s\u00e9rstaka athygli<\/strong><\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 getur veri\u00f0 erfitt a\u00f0 eiga g\u00e6\u00f0astund me\u00f0 hverju barni fyrir sig, s\u00e9rstaklega ef \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt st\u00f3ra fj\u00f6lskyldu. Ein af \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um systkina\u00e1greinings er m.a. athyglin sem \u00fe\u00fa s\u00fdnir hinum systkinunum. L\u00e1ttu b\u00f6rnin \u00fe\u00edn vita a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa elskir og vir\u00f0ir hvert og eitt og eig\u00f0u stund me\u00f0 hverju og einu.<\/p>\n
B\u00fa\u00f0u til s\u00e9rstaka daga \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa fer\u00f0 me\u00f0 syni \u00fe\u00ednum \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 e\u00f0a d\u00f3tturinni \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0ir, bara \u00fei\u00f0 tv\u00f6. 10-15 m\u00edn\u00fatur af g\u00e6\u00f0astund me\u00f0 hverju og einu \u00e1 hverjum degi leyfir barninu a\u00f0 finna til mikilv\u00e6gi s\u00edns.<\/p>\n
\u00deegar \u00e1greiningur fer \u00far b\u00f6ndunum<\/strong><\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u e\u00f0lilegt fyrir systkini a\u00f0 r\u00edfast \u00f6\u00f0ru hvoru. \u00deegar slagsm\u00e1l fara hinsvegar \u00far b\u00f6ndunum og \u00e1t\u00f6kin ver\u00f0a l\u00edkamleg e\u00f0a mei\u00f0a ver\u00f0a \u00feau a\u00f0 stoppa.<\/p>\n
Ef um endurtekin slagsm\u00e1l er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a, ef anna\u00f0hvort b\u00edtur e\u00f0a \u201ekvelur\u201c hitt (s.s. kitlar, str\u00ed\u00f0ir e\u00f0a gerir l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far hinu) er um ofbeldi a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a og \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft a\u00f0 skipta \u00fe\u00e9r af \u00fev\u00ed.<\/p>\n
Ef \u00fe\u00fa getur ekki st\u00f6\u00f0va\u00f0 heg\u00f0unina ver\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar, t.d. hj\u00e1 heilbrig\u00f0isstarfsmanni e\u00f0a s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingi.<\/p>\n
Heimild: Daily Mail\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n
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\u201eH\u00fan f\u00e6r alltaf a\u00f0 fara \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 me\u00f0 vinum s\u00ednum! Af hverju f\u00e6 \u00e9g a\u00f0 fara svona sjaldan?\u201c \u201e\u00de\u00fa elskar hann meira en mig!\u201c \u201e\u00c9g vildi a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tti engin systkini!\u201c Foreldrar sem eiga fleira en eitt barn hafa allir heyrt eitthva\u00f0 svipa\u00f0. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 systkini geti veri\u00f0 n\u00e1nir vinir er \u00f3l\u00edklegt a\u00f0 allt […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3818,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"
\u201eH\u00fan f\u00e6r alltaf a\u00f0 fara \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 me\u00f0 vinum s\u00ednum! Af hverju f\u00e6 \u00e9g a\u00f0 fara svona sjaldan?\u201c<\/p>
\u201e\u00de\u00fa elskar hann meira en mig!\u201c<\/p>
\u201e\u00c9g vildi a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tti engin systkini!\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>
Foreldrar sem eiga fleira en eitt barn hafa allir heyrt eitthva\u00f0 svipa\u00f0. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 systkini geti veri\u00f0 n\u00e1nir vinir er \u00f3l\u00edklegt a\u00f0 allt gangi fullkomlega fri\u00f0samlega fyrir sig \u00f6llum stundum.<\/p>
Br\u00e6\u00f0ur og systur r\u00edfast og sl\u00e1st, \u00fea\u00f0 er bara eins og fj\u00f6lskyldur eru. \u00d3l\u00edkir pers\u00f3nuleikar og aldursmunur spilar st\u00f3ran \u00fe\u00e1tt en systkini sj\u00e1 l\u00edka hvort anna\u00f0 sem keppinaut sem keppast um hluta af takm\u00f6rku\u00f0um au\u00f0lindum fj\u00f6lskyldunnar s.s. ba\u00f0herberginu, s\u00edmanum e\u00f0a s\u00ed\u00f0ustu k\u00f6kusnei\u00f0inni, sem og athygli foreldranna.<\/p>
\u00dea\u00f0 er e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 systkini eigi \u00ed \u00e1greiningi en \u00fea\u00f0 getur gert foreldrana brj\u00e1la\u00f0a. Lykillinn a\u00f0 f\u00e6rri \u00e1rekstrum?<\/p>
A\u00f0 vita hven\u00e6r b\u00f6rnin geta leyst m\u00e1lin sj\u00e1lf og hven\u00e6r \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt a\u00f0 skipta \u00fe\u00e9r af.<\/p>
\u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00e1greinings<\/strong><\/p>
B\u00f6rn eru ekki alltaf rauns\u00e6, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00feau yngri. Stundum getur eitthvert sm\u00e1atri\u00f0i sn\u00faist upp \u00ed risast\u00f3rt m\u00e1l og \u00fea\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist sem \u00feaki\u00f0 \u00e6tli a\u00f0 fj\u00faka af h\u00fasinu \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0.<\/p>
Athugi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn eru afskaplega oft a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 n\u00e1 athygli \u00feinni. \u00dev\u00ed uppteknari sem foreldrarnir eru, \u00fev\u00ed meiri \u00e1hersla er hj\u00e1 b\u00f6rnunum a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00feessari athygli \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 foreldri\u00f0 hefur minni t\u00edma fyrir hvert barn fyrir sig.<\/p>
\u00deegar n\u00fdtt barn b\u00e6tist \u00ed fj\u00f6lskylduna ver\u00f0ur erfitt fyrir yngsta barni\u00f0 a\u00f0 missa s\u00e6ti sitt sem mi\u00f0punktur athyglinnar. Stundum eru foreldrarnir uppteknir af barninu sem hefur s\u00e9rstakar \u00fearfir e\u00f0a er veikt. B\u00f6rn munu alltaf vera me\u00f0 l\u00e6ti e\u00f0a vera \u00f3\u00feekk til a\u00f0 n\u00e1 athygli finnist \u00feeim \u00feau ekki f\u00e1 hana.<\/p>
Flest heimili hafa ekki \u00f3takmarka\u00f0ar au\u00f0lindir<\/strong><\/p>
\u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 systkini \u00feurfa a\u00f0 deila einhverjum hlutum. A\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 gefa eftir er stundum afskaplega erfitt, s\u00e9rstaklega yngri b\u00f6rnum.<\/p>
Einstakir pers\u00f3nuleikar<\/strong><\/p>
Elsta barni\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 vera \u00ferj\u00f3skt \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 yngsta er \u00fe\u00f6gult og innhverft. Mismunandi skaplyndi getur valdi\u00f0 \u00e1rekstrum. Aldur og kyn geta einnig leitt til rifrildis.<\/p>
R\u00e9ttl\u00e6tism\u00e1l<\/strong><\/p>
B\u00f6rn eru eins og litlir l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar, alltaf a\u00f0 krefjast r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tis og sanngirni og \u00feau berjast fyrir r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum. Yngra systkini kann a\u00f0 kvarta yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eldra systkini m\u00e1 fara \u00e1 t\u00f3nleika \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 vera heima, \u00e1 me\u00f0an eldra systkini kann a\u00f0 kvarta yfir a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 passa yngra systkini \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 fara \u00fat me\u00f0 vinunum. Tilfinningar vegna \u00f3r\u00e9ttl\u00e1trar me\u00f0fer\u00f0ar og afbr\u00fd\u00f0isemi me\u00f0al systkina getur leitt til \u00f3s\u00e6ttis.<\/p>
A\u00f0 finna fj\u00f6lskyldujafnv\u00e6gi<\/strong><\/p>
\u00d6skur og rifrildi geta gert foreldra brj\u00e1la\u00f0a, en for\u00f0ist a\u00f0 lenda \u00ed hringi\u00f0u rifrildanna nema a\u00f0 barn s\u00e9 \u00ed h\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a meitt. Reyndu a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta krakkana finna \u00fat \u00far hlutunum sj\u00e1lfir. A\u00f0 blanda \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed m\u00e1lin kennir ekki kr\u00f6kkunum a\u00f0 leysa m\u00e1lin og \u00fe\u00e1 er au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 \u00feig sem s\u00f6kud\u00f3lg, \u201e\u00fe\u00fa stendur alltaf me\u00f0 honum\/henni!\u201c<\/p>
Sum \u00e1greiningsm\u00e1l eru au\u00f0veldari en \u00f6nnur fyrir b\u00f6rnin sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 leysa. H\u00e9r eru nokkur r\u00e1\u00f0 til a\u00f0 enda rifrildi ef \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft a\u00f0 skipta \u00fe\u00e9r af:<\/p>
A\u00f0skildu \u00feau. Taktu b\u00f6rnin \u00far a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um og l\u00e1ttu \u00feau \u00ed sitthvort herbergi\u00f0. Stundum \u00feurfa \u00feau bara fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0 fr\u00e1 hvort \u00f6\u00f0ru.<\/p>
Kenndu samningavi\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0ur og hli\u00f0ranir<\/strong><\/p>
S\u00fdndu b\u00f6rnunum hvernig leysa \u00e1 \u00e1greiningsm\u00e1l til a\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0ir a\u00f0ilar s\u00e9u s\u00e1ttir. Biddu \u00feau um a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 \u00f6skra og fara a\u00f0 tala frekar. Gef\u00f0u hvoru barni fyrir sig t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri \u00e1 a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 s\u00edna hli\u00f0. Hlusta\u00f0u \u00e1 b\u00e1\u00f0ar og passa\u00f0u a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma ekki. Reyndu a\u00f0 or\u00f0a vandam\u00e1li\u00f0: \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 hlj\u00f3mar eins og \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt rei\u00f0 \u00fat \u00ed J\u00f3a fyrir a\u00f0 taka upp\u00e1halds t\u00f6lvuleikinn \u00feinn.\u201c<\/p>
Biddu \u00feau svo a\u00f0 koma upp me\u00f0 lausn sem g\u00e6ti henta\u00f0 \u00f6llum. Ef ekki, getur \u00fe\u00fa komi\u00f0 me\u00f0 upp\u00e1stungu. Til d\u00e6mis, ef b\u00f6rnin eru a\u00f0 sl\u00e1st um n\u00fdjan t\u00f6lvuleik, g\u00e6tir \u00fe\u00fa sett t\u00edmat\u00f6flu sem gefur hvoru barni fyrir sig t\u00edma til a\u00f0 spila leikinn.<\/p>
Settu reglur<\/strong><\/p>
Vertu viss um a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin s\u00e9u a\u00f0 fylgja s\u00f6mu reglum. \u00de\u00e6r \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 sn\u00faast um a\u00f0 enginn mei\u00f0i hvorn annan, ekki s\u00e9 uppnefnt e\u00f0a ey\u00f0ilagt eitthva\u00f0 fyrir hinum. L\u00e1ttu b\u00f6rnin b\u00faa til reglurnar me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r. Ef ekki er fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 reglum er refsa\u00f0, t.d. a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 f\u00e1i ekki a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 sj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0 \u00ed eitt kv\u00f6ld. Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin semji reglurnar saman gefur \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feeim tilfinningu a\u00f0 \u00feau hafi einhverja stj\u00f3rn. \u00deegar b\u00f6rnin fara eftir reglunum skaltu hr\u00f3sa \u00feeim. Reglurnar kunna a\u00f0 vera breytilegar eftir aldri barnanna, en einnig aflei\u00f0ingarnar.<\/p>
Ekki velja \u00fe\u00e9r hli\u00f0<\/strong><\/p>
Ef eitt af b\u00f6rnunum \u00fe\u00ednum er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 lenda \u00ed vandr\u00e6\u00f0um, en hin ekki, passa\u00f0u \u00feig a\u00f0 fara ekki \u00ed samanbur\u00f0. T.d. \u201eAf hverju getur \u00fe\u00fa ekki veri\u00f0 meira eins og systir \u00fe\u00edn?\u201c<\/p>
\u00dea\u00f0 elur enn meira \u00e1 \u00f3s\u00e6tti milli systkinanna. A\u00f0 gefa einu barni s\u00e9rme\u00f0fer\u00f0 getur ey\u00f0ilagt sambandi\u00f0 milli \u00fe\u00edn og barnanna.<\/p>
Ekki gera allt jafnt<\/strong><\/p>
\u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert sem heitir fullkomi\u00f0 jafnv\u00e6gi \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldu. Eldra barn mun \u00f3hj\u00e1kv\u00e6milega f\u00e1 eitthva\u00f0 umfram hi\u00f0 yngra \u00feannig \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3m\u00f6gulegt a\u00f0 gera \u00f6llum til h\u00e6fis. \u00deess \u00ed sta\u00f0 skaltu koma fram vi\u00f0 hvert barn \u00e1 sinn einstaka h\u00e1tt og l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 finna fyrir mikilv\u00e6gi s\u00ednu.<\/p>
Gef\u00f0u b\u00f6rnunum r\u00e9ttindi yfir s\u00ednum eigin eigum. A\u00f0 deila er mikilv\u00e6gt, en b\u00f6rn \u00e6tti ekki a\u00f0 \u00fevinga til a\u00f0 deila \u00f6llu. B\u00f6rnin \u00fe\u00edn \u00e6ttu \u00f6ll a\u00f0 eiga eitthva\u00f0 s\u00e9rstakt sem er a\u00f0eins \u00feeirra.<\/p>
Haldi\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldufundi<\/strong><\/p>
Einu sinni \u00ed viku er \u00e1g\u00e6tt a\u00f0 kalla til fj\u00f6lskyldufund til a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin. Gef\u00f0u hverjum og einum t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri \u00e1 a\u00f0 koma sko\u00f0unum s\u00ednum \u00e1 framf\u00e6ri og allir \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 finna lausn \u00e1 m\u00e1lunum saman.<\/p>
Gef\u00f0u hverju barni fyrir sig s\u00e9rstaka athygli<\/strong><\/p>
\u00dea\u00f0 getur veri\u00f0 erfitt a\u00f0 eiga g\u00e6\u00f0astund me\u00f0 hverju barni fyrir sig, s\u00e9rstaklega ef \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt st\u00f3ra fj\u00f6lskyldu. Ein af \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um systkina\u00e1greinings er m.a. athyglin sem \u00fe\u00fa s\u00fdnir hinum systkinunum. L\u00e1ttu b\u00f6rnin \u00fe\u00edn vita a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa elskir og vir\u00f0ir hvert og eitt og eig\u00f0u stund me\u00f0 hverju og einu.<\/p>
B\u00fa\u00f0u til s\u00e9rstaka daga \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa fer\u00f0 me\u00f0 syni \u00fe\u00ednum \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 e\u00f0a d\u00f3tturinni \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0ir, bara \u00fei\u00f0 tv\u00f6. 10-15 m\u00edn\u00fatur af g\u00e6\u00f0astund me\u00f0 hverju og einu \u00e1 hverjum degi leyfir barninu a\u00f0 finna til mikilv\u00e6gi s\u00edns.<\/p>
\u00deegar \u00e1greiningur fer \u00far b\u00f6ndunum<\/strong><\/p>
\u00dea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u e\u00f0lilegt fyrir systkini a\u00f0 r\u00edfast \u00f6\u00f0ru hvoru. \u00deegar slagsm\u00e1l fara hinsvegar \u00far b\u00f6ndunum og \u00e1t\u00f6kin ver\u00f0a l\u00edkamleg e\u00f0a mei\u00f0a ver\u00f0a \u00feau a\u00f0 stoppa.<\/p>
Ef um endurtekin slagsm\u00e1l er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a, ef anna\u00f0hvort b\u00edtur e\u00f0a \u201ekvelur\u201c hitt (s.s. kitlar, str\u00ed\u00f0ir e\u00f0a gerir l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far hinu) er um ofbeldi a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a og \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft a\u00f0 skipta \u00fe\u00e9r af \u00fev\u00ed.<\/p>
Ef \u00fe\u00fa getur ekki st\u00f6\u00f0va\u00f0 heg\u00f0unina ver\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar, t.d. hj\u00e1 heilbrig\u00f0isstarfsmanni e\u00f0a s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingi.<\/p>
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