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\u00c1\u00f0ur en \u00e9g var\u00f0 mamma haf\u00f0i mig dreymt um a\u00f0 vera \u00e1kve\u00f0in tegund af m\u00f6mmu. \u00deetta var draumur sem snerist um fullkomin b\u00f6rn og var \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi ver\u00f0a mamma bara strax.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 styrkur minn feldist \u00ed a\u00f0 vera r\u00f3leg \u00ed \u00f6llum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki oft sem \u00e9g \u00feurfti a\u00f0 nota \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0ina en \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 ger\u00f0ist virtist h\u00fan vera \u00f3\u00ferj\u00f3tandi uppspretta.<\/p>\n

Og \u00feegar \u00e9g var\u00f0 mamma \u00ed fyrsta sinn reyndist m\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 au\u00f0velt og n\u00e1tt\u00farulegt. \u00c9g var a\u00f0 upplifa drauminn minn sem \u00e9g haf\u00f0i \u00e1tt. M\u00f3\u00f0urhlutverki\u00f0 var alger barnaleikur.<\/p>\n

\u00deannig \u00fe\u00fa getur \u00edmynda\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r hversu hissa \u00e9g var\u00f0 \u00feegar fyrstu fj\u00f6gur \u00e1rin li\u00f0u og sonur minn var bara jafn mennskur og a\u00f0rir.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 ger\u00f0ist einhvernt\u00edma milli \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g brotna\u00f0i ni\u00f0ur tvisvar sinnum \u00ed matarb\u00fa\u00f0inni.<\/p>\n

Einhvernt\u00edma milli fimmta og fimmt\u00e1ndasta skipti\u00f0 sem \u00e9g ba\u00f0 hann a\u00f0 fara \u00ed sk\u00f3na.<\/p>\n

\u00cd um sj\u00f6tta skipti\u00f0 sem \u00e9g ba\u00f0 hann um a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 \u00f6skra \u00e1 veitingasta\u00f0num og f\u00e9kk k\u00f6ldu augngoturnar fr\u00e1 \u00fej\u00f3nunum.<\/p>\n

\u00cd um ellefta skipti\u00f0 sem \u00e9g ba\u00f0 hann um a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 hlaupa um h\u00fasi\u00f0.<\/p>\n

E\u00f0a \u00ed \u00feessar fimm m\u00edn\u00fatur sem \u00e9g ba\u00f0 um fri\u00f0 til a\u00f0 kl\u00e1ra verkefni en enda\u00f0i \u00ed h\u00e1lft\u00edma af \u00f6skrum og l\u00e1tum.<\/p>\n

\u00dearna einhverssta\u00f0ar missti \u00e9g \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0ina.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g haf\u00f0i ekki plana\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, en \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00e9g vissi af var \u00e9g breytt. Rei\u00f0i og pirringur haf\u00f0i teki\u00f0 yfir mitt r\u00f3lega yfirbrag\u00f0.<\/p>\n

R\u00f6dd m\u00edn t\u00f3k breytingum og breyttist \u00ed r\u00f6dd sem \u00e9g hef\u00f0i ekki einu sinni vilja\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0.<\/p>\n

Svona var \u00e9g or\u00f0in, \u00ed hr\u00f3pandi m\u00f3ts\u00f6gn vi\u00f0 m\u00f6mmuna sem \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a. \u00c9g var \u00feessi kona \u2013 \u00feessi mamma sem \u00e9g sag\u00f0ist aldrei \u00e6tla a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a. \u00dea\u00f0 kraumu\u00f0u \u00ed m\u00e9r vonbrig\u00f0i og heift. Kv\u00ed\u00f0i og sektarkennd voru a\u00f0 drekkja m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n

En sannleikurinn, minn sannleikur, f\u00f3r a\u00f0 birtast m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g var \u00fearna, or\u00f0in a\u00f0 einhverju sem \u00e9g vildi ekki vera, og \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g var bara mennsk eftir allt. M\u00edn e\u00f0lishv\u00f6t a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a pirru\u00f0 t\u00f3k yfir n\u00e1tt\u00farulegt \u00e1stand a\u00f0 vera alltaf r\u00f3leg sama hva\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g sag\u00f0i sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri ofurkona, \u00feegar \u00e9g var \u00ed rauninni bara venjuleg kona a\u00f0 gera mitt besta \u00ed erfi\u00f0um a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g uppg\u00f6tva\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i er ofurkraftur sem aldrei er tala\u00f0 um, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er f\u00f3lki e\u00f0lisl\u00e6gt a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a pirra\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i er bara \u00e6fing og \u00e9g \u00fearf a\u00f0 \u00e6fa mig aftur og aftur og aftur, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00fear sem n\u00e1tt\u00faruleg vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 eru ekki r\u00f3lyndi.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0in v\u00e6ri ekki h\u00e1\u00f0 neinu \u00f6\u00f0ru en m\u00e9r sj\u00e1lfri. Og, eins og dygg\u00f0irnar sem \u00e9g var a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 \u201emastera\u201c var \u00e9g s\u00fa sem \u00feurfti a\u00f0 velja, a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fe\u00e6r stj\u00f3rna m\u00e9r e\u00f0a \u00e9g \u00feeim.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 ger\u00f0ist \u00feegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0 setja p\u00e1su milli vi\u00f0brag\u00f0a minna og svara.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g spur\u00f0i mig: \u201eHva\u00f0 myndi k\u00e6rleikurinn gera?\u201c og gera bara \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var milli fimm og t\u00edu dj\u00fapra andardr\u00e1tta.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0 reyna tengjast en ekki reyna a\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9tta.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e6kka r\u00f6ddina og h\u00e6kka \u00ed bo\u00f0skapnum sem \u00e9g var a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 koma til skila.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g s\u00e1 heiminn me\u00f0 augum fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra barns og setti mig \u00ed f\u00f3tspor \u00feess.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var milli fyrsta kn\u00fassins og hins fimmta.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g horf\u00f0i \u00ed augun hans og fann d\u00fdrm\u00e6tu s\u00e1lina hans.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g gat horft framhj\u00e1 fyrri heg\u00f0un og s\u00e9\u00f0 bara hann.<\/p>\n

\u00dearna.<\/p>\n

\u00dearna fann \u00e9g fri\u00f0inn. \u00dearna fann \u00e9g kraft minn sem m\u00f3\u00f0ur.<\/p>\n

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\u00dearna einhverssta\u00f0ar missti \u00e9g \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0ina.<\/p>

\u00c9g haf\u00f0i ekki plana\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, en \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00e9g vissi af var \u00e9g breytt. Rei\u00f0i og pirringur haf\u00f0i teki\u00f0 yfir mitt r\u00f3lega yfirbrag\u00f0.<\/p>

R\u00f6dd m\u00edn t\u00f3k breytingum og breyttist \u00ed r\u00f6dd sem \u00e9g hef\u00f0i ekki einu sinni vilja\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0.<\/p>

Svona var \u00e9g or\u00f0in, \u00ed hr\u00f3pandi m\u00f3ts\u00f6gn vi\u00f0 m\u00f6mmuna sem \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a. \u00c9g var \u00feessi kona \u2013 \u00feessi mamma sem \u00e9g sag\u00f0ist aldrei \u00e6tla a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a. \u00dea\u00f0 kraumu\u00f0u \u00ed m\u00e9r vonbrig\u00f0i og heift. Kv\u00ed\u00f0i og sektarkennd voru a\u00f0 drekkja m\u00e9r.<\/p>

En sannleikurinn, minn sannleikur, f\u00f3r a\u00f0 birtast m\u00e9r.<\/p>

\u00c9g var \u00fearna, or\u00f0in a\u00f0 einhverju sem \u00e9g vildi ekki vera, og \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g var bara mennsk eftir allt. M\u00edn e\u00f0lishv\u00f6t a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a pirru\u00f0 t\u00f3k yfir n\u00e1tt\u00farulegt \u00e1stand a\u00f0 vera alltaf r\u00f3leg sama hva\u00f0.<\/p>

\u00c9g sag\u00f0i sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri ofurkona, \u00feegar \u00e9g var \u00ed rauninni bara venjuleg kona a\u00f0 gera mitt besta \u00ed erfi\u00f0um a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/p>

\u00c9g uppg\u00f6tva\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i er ofurkraftur sem aldrei er tala\u00f0 um, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er f\u00f3lki e\u00f0lisl\u00e6gt a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a pirra\u00f0.<\/p>

\u00c9g \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0i er bara \u00e6fing og \u00e9g \u00fearf a\u00f0 \u00e6fa mig aftur og aftur og aftur, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00fear sem n\u00e1tt\u00faruleg vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 eru ekki r\u00f3lyndi.<\/p>

\u00c9g \u00e1tta\u00f0i mig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feolinm\u00e6\u00f0in v\u00e6ri ekki h\u00e1\u00f0 neinu \u00f6\u00f0ru en m\u00e9r sj\u00e1lfri. Og, eins og dygg\u00f0irnar sem \u00e9g var a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 \u201emastera\u201c var \u00e9g s\u00fa sem \u00feurfti a\u00f0 velja, a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fe\u00e6r stj\u00f3rna m\u00e9r e\u00f0a \u00e9g \u00feeim.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 ger\u00f0ist \u00feegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0 setja p\u00e1su milli vi\u00f0brag\u00f0a minna og svara.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g spur\u00f0i mig: \u201eHva\u00f0 myndi k\u00e6rleikurinn gera?\u201c og gera bara \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var milli fimm og t\u00edu dj\u00fapra andardr\u00e1tta.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0 reyna tengjast en ekki reyna a\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9tta.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e6kka r\u00f6ddina og h\u00e6kka \u00ed bo\u00f0skapnum sem \u00e9g var a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 koma til skila.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g s\u00e1 heiminn me\u00f0 augum fj\u00f6gurra \u00e1ra barns og setti mig \u00ed f\u00f3tspor \u00feess.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var milli fyrsta kn\u00fassins og hins fimmta.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g horf\u00f0i \u00ed augun hans og fann d\u00fdrm\u00e6tu s\u00e1lina hans.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feegar \u00e9g gat horft framhj\u00e1 fyrri heg\u00f0un og s\u00e9\u00f0 bara hann.<\/p>

\u00dearna.<\/p>

\u00dearna fann \u00e9g fri\u00f0inn. \u00dearna fann \u00e9g kraft minn sem m\u00f3\u00f0ur.<\/p>

\u00a0<\/p>

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