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st\u00f3ra og blanda\u00f0a fj\u00f6lskyldu. \u00c9g hef b\u00fai\u00f0 um \u00f6ll Bandar\u00edkin og kynnst m\u00f6rgum menningarheimum. \u00c9g var mj\u00f6g hamingjus\u00f6m. \u00c9g sag\u00f0i vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfa mig a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g v\u00e6ri ekki b\u00fain a\u00f0 eignast b\u00f6rn 35 \u00e1ra, \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri \u00fea\u00f0 bara \u00feannig. En l\u00edfi\u00f0 hefur alltaf eitthva\u00f0 \u00f3v\u00e6nt a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra manni.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kathryn Murray er s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur sem starfar \u00ed Los Angeles. H\u00fan r\u00e6\u00f0ir h\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un a\u00f0 eignast barn \u00e1n maka. Gefum henni or\u00f0i\u00f0:<\/p>\n

\u00c9g var a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0i og \u00feegar \u00e9g var \u00ed k\u00farsi um \u00feroska barna haf\u00f0i \u00e9g allt \u00ed einu sterka l\u00f6ngun a\u00f0 reyna alla \u00feessa hluti sem \u00e9g var a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra um. \u00c9g gat ekki h\u00e6tt a\u00f0 hugsa um a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi tengjast p\u00ednul\u00edtilli manneskju sem \u00e9g myndi f\u00e6\u00f0a. \u00c9g vildi reyna allar \u00fe\u00e6r \u00e1skoranir sem koma me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed og vonandi m\u00f3ta \u00feessa litlu manneskju \u00ed eitthva\u00f0 j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt \u00ed \u00feessum heimi. \u00c9g vildi ekki b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir maka. \u00c9g reyndi alltaf bara a\u00f0 lifa m\u00ednu l\u00edfi me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g tr\u00fa\u00f0i \u00e1 og m\u00e9r fannst r\u00e9tt fyrir mig. \u00c9g h\u00e6tti a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir f\u00f3lki til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r a\u00f0 n\u00e1 markmi\u00f0um m\u00ednum og vildi bara gera hlutina sj\u00e1lf.<\/p>\n

Stu\u00f0ningsh\u00f3purinn<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9g vissi a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 gera \u00feetta \u2013 a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a einst\u00e6\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ir \u2013 myndi \u00e9g \u00feurfa \u201e\u00feorp\u201c til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r. \u00c9g f\u00f3r til \u00f6mmu minnar og h\u00fan r\u00e6ddi vi\u00f0 prestinn sinn. \u00c9g sag\u00f0i henni allar m\u00ednar \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur, hva\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri g\u00f6mul og hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 t\u00e6ki langan t\u00edma a\u00f0 finna maka sem v\u00e6ri til \u00ed \u00feetta me\u00f0 m\u00e9r. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 amma v\u00e6ri ekki samm\u00e1la \u00feessu sag\u00f0i h\u00fan m\u00e9r eftir viku a\u00f0 h\u00fan myndi alltaf elska mig og sty\u00f0ja.<\/p>\n

Flestir \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni s\u00f6g\u00f0u m\u00e9r a\u00f0 gifta mig fyrst. Sumir stungu meira a\u00f0 segja upp\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g f\u00e6ri \u00e1 stefnum\u00f3ta\u00f6pp. En pabbi var \u00e1kafur stu\u00f0ningsma\u00f0ur fr\u00e1 fyrsta degi. Hann var svo gla\u00f0ur. Hann var b\u00fainn a\u00f0 \u00e1kve\u00f0a gu\u00f0foreldra viku eftir a\u00f0 \u00e9g sag\u00f0i honum fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed! Hann n\u00e1\u00f0i \u00ed s\u00e6\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir mig (\u00fea\u00f0 var \u00f3d\u00fdrara en a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta senda \u00fea\u00f0 til l\u00e6knisins m\u00edns) og hann jafnvel tala\u00f0i vi\u00f0 s\u00e6\u00f0i\u00f0! Hann kom me\u00f0 m\u00e9r til l\u00e6knisins og var me\u00f0 m\u00e9r allt f\u00e6\u00f0ingarferli\u00f0. \u00c9g var svo heppin a\u00f0 hafa stu\u00f0ning margra vina og fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0lima.<\/p>\n

Sterk byrjun<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9g reyndi mitt besta a\u00f0 vera undirb\u00fain, andlega og l\u00edkamlega, til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a mamma. \u00c9g \u00e6f\u00f0i og bor\u00f0a\u00f0i hollt. \u00c9g veit allt um andlega heilsu vegna vinnunar minnar svo \u00e9g reyndi mitt besta a\u00f0 minnka streitu. \u00c9g ba\u00f0 alla um a\u00f0 r\u00edfast ekki vi\u00f0 mig svo \u00e9g yr\u00f0i ekki stressu\u00f0. \u00c9g r\u00e9\u00f0i l\u00edka fj\u00e1rm\u00e1lar\u00e1\u00f0gjafa um lei\u00f0 og \u00e9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00feetta. Hann r\u00e1\u00f0lag\u00f0i m\u00e9r a\u00f0 leggja til hli\u00f0ar svo \u00e9g yr\u00f0i ekki stressu\u00f0 vegna fj\u00e1rm\u00e1lanna \u00ed f\u00e6\u00f0ingarorlofinu. \u00deetta var fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt r\u00e1\u00f0 og \u00e9g gat teki\u00f0 fj\u00f6gurra m\u00e1na\u00f0a f\u00e6\u00f0ingarorlof, mj\u00f6g \u00feakkl\u00e1t. Ferli\u00f0 er d\u00fdrt \u00ed \u00feessu \u00f6llu, hvort sem \u00fe\u00fa fer\u00f0 \u00ed innanlegss\u00e6\u00f0ingu, glasa\/t\u00e6knifrj\u00f3vgun e\u00f0a \u00e6ttlei\u00f0ir.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 eru nokkrar lei\u00f0ir fyrir m\u00e6\u00f0ur a\u00f0 eignast barn einar. \u00c9g f\u00f3r \u00ed innanlegss\u00e6\u00f0ingu. L\u00e6knir sprautar s\u00e6\u00f0inu upp \u00ed legi\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur egglos. Vonast er eftir a\u00f0 frj\u00f3vga egg og \u00fe\u00fa ver\u00f0ir \u00f3l\u00e9tt.<\/p>\n

A\u00f0 velja s\u00e6\u00f0isgjafann. \u00c9g er amer\u00edsk bl\u00f6kkukona og vildi \u00ed fyrstu s\u00e6\u00f0i manns af sama kynstofni og \u00e9g. Stofan sem \u00e9g nota\u00f0i haf\u00f0i samt ekki miki\u00f0 \u00farval og l\u00e6knirinn minn sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00feetta g\u00e6ti teki\u00f0 t\u00edma. \u00cd fj\u00f3r\u00f0a skipti\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 mist\u00f3kst \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 breyta um s\u00e6\u00f0isgjafa. \u00c9g fletti \u00ed gegnum mennina og f\u00f3r eftir r\u00e1\u00f0i sem \u00e9g f\u00e9kk \u2013 a\u00f0 fylgja t\u00f6lum um vel heppna\u00f0ar me\u00f0g\u00f6ngur og f\u00e6\u00f0ingar. \u00c9g fann gjafa af bl\u00f6ndu\u00f0um kyn\u00fe\u00e6tti sem svara\u00f0i spurningum \u00e1 \u00e1hugaver\u00f0an h\u00e1tt og svo var hann opinn gjafi, sem \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 getur haft samband um 18 \u00e1ra aldur.<\/p>\n

\u00deegar t\u00edmi var \u00e1 egglos var s\u00e6\u00f0inu sprauta\u00f0 upp og \u00e9g var\u00f0 \u00f3fr\u00edsk a\u00f0 st\u00falkubarni \u00ed fyrstu tilraun.<\/p>\n

F\u00e6\u00f0ing<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fyrstu vikurnar var \u00e9g dau\u00f0\u00fereytt. Svefninn var \u00ed rugli og \u00e9g vildi gefa brj\u00f3st en framleiddi ekki n\u00e6gilega mj\u00f3lk. D\u00f3ttir m\u00edn var p\u00ednul\u00edtil og \u00e9g haf\u00f0i \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan v\u00e6ri ekki a\u00f0 f\u00e1 n\u00e6ga n\u00e6ringu. \u00c9g hitti brj\u00f3stagjafar\u00e1\u00f0gjafa \u00e1 sp\u00edtalanum en \u00e9g var ekki a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00feessu.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g tala\u00f0i vi\u00f0 fleiri r\u00e1\u00f0gjafa og vini til a\u00f0 losa um kv\u00ed\u00f0ann vegna brj\u00f3stagjafarinnar. \u00c9g t\u00f3k v\u00edtam\u00edn, drakk te og meira a\u00f0 segja \u00e1fengislausan bj\u00f3r til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa til vi\u00f0 mj\u00f3lkurb\u00faskapinn. \u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feess vir\u00f0i og \u00feetta var\u00f0 au\u00f0veldara me\u00f0 t\u00edmanum. Fj\u00f6lskylda m\u00edn kom og elda\u00f0i og passa\u00f0i (\u00feegar h\u00fan leyf\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0) og \u00e9g gat hv\u00edlst.<\/p>\n

D\u00f3ttir m\u00edn Candyce hefur \u201ey\u201c \u00ed nafninu s\u00ednu eins og \u00e9g. H\u00fan er sex \u00e1ra \u00ed dag. H\u00fan er l\u00edtil \u00fatg\u00e1fa af m\u00e9r. H\u00fan er r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt, kl\u00e1r og mj\u00f6g hnyttin. H\u00fan er listr\u00e6n og elskar Svamp Sveinsson. H\u00fan er lj\u00f3si\u00f0 \u00ed l\u00edfi m\u00ednu.<\/p>\n

Eins og margir krakkar \u00e1 hennar aldri spyr h\u00fan um l\u00edtinn br\u00f3\u00f0ur e\u00f0a systur. \u00deegar \u00fe\u00fa eignast barn \u00e1 \u00feennan h\u00e1tt getur \u00fe\u00fa komist \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 a\u00f0rar m\u00f6mmur sem eiga systkini sama s\u00e6\u00f0isgjafann. Vi\u00f0 erum saman \u00ed Facebookgr\u00fappu og fimm fj\u00f6lskyldur hittumst \u00ed Austin Texas eina helgina. Ein meira a\u00f0 segja flaug \u00feanga\u00f0 fr\u00e1 Mex\u00edk\u00f3. Vi\u00f0 skemmtum okkur konunglega og \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 hittast aftur. \u00deetta var besta \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un sem \u00e9g hef teki\u00f0, \u00e9g hef aldrei horft um \u00f6x.<\/p>\n

Fyrir allar \u00fe\u00e6r konur sem vilja eignast b\u00f6rn einar, segi \u00e9g alltaf: \u00de\u00fa skalt vinna heimavinnuna \u00fe\u00edna. Ef \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 hugsa um \u00feetta, undirb\u00fa\u00f0u \u00feig. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 hugsa um fj\u00e1rm\u00e1lin, tilfinningalegan stu\u00f0ning, vini, fj\u00f6lskyldu. Finndu stu\u00f0ningsh\u00f3pa \u00e1 Facebook.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g hef veri\u00f0 \u00f3tr\u00falega heppin og \u00e9g er \u00feakkl\u00e1t. Mamma flutti til m\u00edn fyrir tveimur \u00e1rum fr\u00e1 Connecticut til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r vi\u00f0 uppeldi d\u00f3tturinnar. Afi og amma hafa stutt hana miki\u00f0 eins og \u00e9g \u00f3lst upp vi\u00f0, \u00e9g vildi a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i s\u00f6mu reynslu og \u00feau nytu \u00feess a\u00f0 vera afi og amma.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g er \u00ed raun ekki einst\u00e6\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ir, vegna stu\u00f0ningsnetsins. Vinir og fj\u00f6lskylda gera \u00feessa vegfer\u00f0 mun r\u00edkari.<\/p>\n

Kathryn Murray er barnas\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur og b\u00fdr me\u00f0 Candyce d\u00f3ttur sinn \u00ed Los Angeles, Kaliforn\u00edur\u00edki.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00fdtt og endursagt af WebMd<\/em><\/p>\n

 
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\u201e\u00c9g s\u00e1 sj\u00e1lfa mig aldrei sem m\u00f6mmu. \u00c9g er stelpa fr\u00e1 Los Angeles og \u00e1 st\u00f3ra og blanda\u00f0a fj\u00f6lskyldu. \u00c9g hef b\u00fai\u00f0 um \u00f6ll Bandar\u00edkin og kynnst m\u00f6rgum menningarheimum. \u00c9g var mj\u00f6g hamingjus\u00f6m. \u00c9g sag\u00f0i vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfa mig a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g v\u00e6ri ekki b\u00fain a\u00f0 eignast b\u00f6rn 35 \u00e1ra, \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri \u00fea\u00f0 bara \u00feannig. En […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4695,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"

\u201e\u00c9g s\u00e1 sj\u00e1lfa mig aldrei sem m\u00f6mmu. \u00c9g er stelpa fr\u00e1 Los Angeles og \u00e1 st\u00f3ra og blanda\u00f0a fj\u00f6lskyldu. \u00c9g hef b\u00fai\u00f0 um \u00f6ll Bandar\u00edkin og kynnst m\u00f6rgum menningarheimum. \u00c9g var mj\u00f6g hamingjus\u00f6m. \u00c9g sag\u00f0i vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfa mig a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g v\u00e6ri ekki b\u00fain a\u00f0 eignast b\u00f6rn 35 \u00e1ra, \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri \u00fea\u00f0 bara \u00feannig. En l\u00edfi\u00f0 hefur alltaf eitthva\u00f0 \u00f3v\u00e6nt a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra manni.\"<\/strong><\/p>

Kathryn Murray er s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur sem starfar \u00ed Los Angeles. H\u00fan r\u00e6\u00f0ir h\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un a\u00f0 eignast barn \u00e1n maka. Gefum henni or\u00f0i\u00f0:<\/p>

\u00c9g var a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0i og \u00feegar \u00e9g var \u00ed k\u00farsi um \u00feroska barna haf\u00f0i \u00e9g allt \u00ed einu sterka l\u00f6ngun a\u00f0 reyna alla \u00feessa hluti sem \u00e9g var a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra um. \u00c9g gat ekki h\u00e6tt a\u00f0 hugsa um a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi tengjast p\u00ednul\u00edtilli manneskju sem \u00e9g myndi f\u00e6\u00f0a. \u00c9g vildi reyna allar \u00fe\u00e6r \u00e1skoranir sem koma me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed og vonandi m\u00f3ta \u00feessa litlu manneskju \u00ed eitthva\u00f0 j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt \u00ed \u00feessum heimi. \u00c9g vildi ekki b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir maka. \u00c9g reyndi alltaf bara a\u00f0 lifa m\u00ednu l\u00edfi me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g tr\u00fa\u00f0i \u00e1 og m\u00e9r fannst r\u00e9tt fyrir mig. \u00c9g h\u00e6tti a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir f\u00f3lki til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r a\u00f0 n\u00e1 markmi\u00f0um m\u00ednum og vildi bara gera hlutina sj\u00e1lf.<\/p>

Stu\u00f0ningsh\u00f3purinn<\/strong><\/p>

\u00c9g vissi a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 gera \u00feetta \u2013 a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a einst\u00e6\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ir \u2013 myndi \u00e9g \u00feurfa \u201e\u00feorp\u201c til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r. \u00c9g f\u00f3r til \u00f6mmu minnar og h\u00fan r\u00e6ddi vi\u00f0 prestinn sinn. \u00c9g sag\u00f0i henni allar m\u00ednar \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur, hva\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri g\u00f6mul og hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 t\u00e6ki langan t\u00edma a\u00f0 finna maka sem v\u00e6ri til \u00ed \u00feetta me\u00f0 m\u00e9r. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 amma v\u00e6ri ekki samm\u00e1la \u00feessu sag\u00f0i h\u00fan m\u00e9r eftir viku a\u00f0 h\u00fan myndi alltaf elska mig og sty\u00f0ja.<\/p>

Flestir \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni s\u00f6g\u00f0u m\u00e9r a\u00f0 gifta mig fyrst. Sumir stungu meira a\u00f0 segja upp\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g f\u00e6ri \u00e1 stefnum\u00f3ta\u00f6pp. En pabbi var \u00e1kafur stu\u00f0ningsma\u00f0ur fr\u00e1 fyrsta degi. Hann var svo gla\u00f0ur. Hann var b\u00fainn a\u00f0 \u00e1kve\u00f0a gu\u00f0foreldra viku eftir a\u00f0 \u00e9g sag\u00f0i honum fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed! Hann n\u00e1\u00f0i \u00ed s\u00e6\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir mig (\u00fea\u00f0 var \u00f3d\u00fdrara en a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta senda \u00fea\u00f0 til l\u00e6knisins m\u00edns) og hann jafnvel tala\u00f0i vi\u00f0 s\u00e6\u00f0i\u00f0! Hann kom me\u00f0 m\u00e9r til l\u00e6knisins og var me\u00f0 m\u00e9r allt f\u00e6\u00f0ingarferli\u00f0. \u00c9g var svo heppin a\u00f0 hafa stu\u00f0ning margra vina og fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0lima.<\/p>

Sterk byrjun<\/strong><\/p>

\u00c9g reyndi mitt besta a\u00f0 vera undirb\u00fain, andlega og l\u00edkamlega, til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a mamma. \u00c9g \u00e6f\u00f0i og bor\u00f0a\u00f0i hollt. \u00c9g veit allt um andlega heilsu vegna vinnunar minnar svo \u00e9g reyndi mitt besta a\u00f0 minnka streitu. \u00c9g ba\u00f0 alla um a\u00f0 r\u00edfast ekki vi\u00f0 mig svo \u00e9g yr\u00f0i ekki stressu\u00f0. \u00c9g r\u00e9\u00f0i l\u00edka fj\u00e1rm\u00e1lar\u00e1\u00f0gjafa um lei\u00f0 og \u00e9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00feetta. Hann r\u00e1\u00f0lag\u00f0i m\u00e9r a\u00f0 leggja til hli\u00f0ar svo \u00e9g yr\u00f0i ekki stressu\u00f0 vegna fj\u00e1rm\u00e1lanna \u00ed f\u00e6\u00f0ingarorlofinu. \u00deetta var fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt r\u00e1\u00f0 og \u00e9g gat teki\u00f0 fj\u00f6gurra m\u00e1na\u00f0a f\u00e6\u00f0ingarorlof, mj\u00f6g \u00feakkl\u00e1t. Ferli\u00f0 er d\u00fdrt \u00ed \u00feessu \u00f6llu, hvort sem \u00fe\u00fa fer\u00f0 \u00ed innanlegss\u00e6\u00f0ingu, glasa\/t\u00e6knifrj\u00f3vgun e\u00f0a \u00e6ttlei\u00f0ir.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 eru nokkrar lei\u00f0ir fyrir m\u00e6\u00f0ur a\u00f0 eignast barn einar. \u00c9g f\u00f3r \u00ed innanlegss\u00e6\u00f0ingu. L\u00e6knir sprautar s\u00e6\u00f0inu upp \u00ed legi\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur egglos. Vonast er eftir a\u00f0 frj\u00f3vga egg og \u00fe\u00fa ver\u00f0ir \u00f3l\u00e9tt.<\/p>

A\u00f0 velja s\u00e6\u00f0isgjafann. \u00c9g er amer\u00edsk bl\u00f6kkukona og vildi \u00ed fyrstu s\u00e6\u00f0i manns af sama kynstofni og \u00e9g. Stofan sem \u00e9g nota\u00f0i haf\u00f0i samt ekki miki\u00f0 \u00farval og l\u00e6knirinn minn sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00feetta g\u00e6ti teki\u00f0 t\u00edma. \u00cd fj\u00f3r\u00f0a skipti\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 mist\u00f3kst \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 breyta um s\u00e6\u00f0isgjafa. \u00c9g fletti \u00ed gegnum mennina og f\u00f3r eftir r\u00e1\u00f0i sem \u00e9g f\u00e9kk \u2013 a\u00f0 fylgja t\u00f6lum um vel heppna\u00f0ar me\u00f0g\u00f6ngur og f\u00e6\u00f0ingar. \u00c9g fann gjafa af bl\u00f6ndu\u00f0um kyn\u00fe\u00e6tti sem svara\u00f0i spurningum \u00e1 \u00e1hugaver\u00f0an h\u00e1tt og svo var hann opinn gjafi, sem \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 getur haft samband um 18 \u00e1ra aldur.<\/p>

\u00deegar t\u00edmi var \u00e1 egglos var s\u00e6\u00f0inu sprauta\u00f0 upp og \u00e9g var\u00f0 \u00f3fr\u00edsk a\u00f0 st\u00falkubarni \u00ed fyrstu tilraun.<\/p>

F\u00e6\u00f0ing<\/strong><\/p>

Fyrstu vikurnar var \u00e9g dau\u00f0\u00fereytt. Svefninn var \u00ed rugli og \u00e9g vildi gefa brj\u00f3st en framleiddi ekki n\u00e6gilega mj\u00f3lk. D\u00f3ttir m\u00edn var p\u00ednul\u00edtil og \u00e9g haf\u00f0i \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan v\u00e6ri ekki a\u00f0 f\u00e1 n\u00e6ga n\u00e6ringu. \u00c9g hitti brj\u00f3stagjafar\u00e1\u00f0gjafa \u00e1 sp\u00edtalanum en \u00e9g var ekki a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00feessu.<\/p>

\u00c9g tala\u00f0i vi\u00f0 fleiri r\u00e1\u00f0gjafa og vini til a\u00f0 losa um kv\u00ed\u00f0ann vegna brj\u00f3stagjafarinnar. \u00c9g t\u00f3k v\u00edtam\u00edn, drakk te og meira a\u00f0 segja \u00e1fengislausan bj\u00f3r til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa til vi\u00f0 mj\u00f3lkurb\u00faskapinn. \u00dea\u00f0 var \u00feess vir\u00f0i og \u00feetta var\u00f0 au\u00f0veldara me\u00f0 t\u00edmanum. Fj\u00f6lskylda m\u00edn kom og elda\u00f0i og passa\u00f0i (\u00feegar h\u00fan leyf\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0) og \u00e9g gat hv\u00edlst.<\/p>

D\u00f3ttir m\u00edn Candyce hefur \u201ey\u201c \u00ed nafninu s\u00ednu eins og \u00e9g. H\u00fan er sex \u00e1ra \u00ed dag. H\u00fan er l\u00edtil \u00fatg\u00e1fa af m\u00e9r. H\u00fan er r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt, kl\u00e1r og mj\u00f6g hnyttin. H\u00fan er listr\u00e6n og elskar Svamp Sveinsson. H\u00fan er lj\u00f3si\u00f0 \u00ed l\u00edfi m\u00ednu.<\/p>

Eins og margir krakkar \u00e1 hennar aldri spyr h\u00fan um l\u00edtinn br\u00f3\u00f0ur e\u00f0a systur. \u00deegar \u00fe\u00fa eignast barn \u00e1 \u00feennan h\u00e1tt getur \u00fe\u00fa komist \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 a\u00f0rar m\u00f6mmur sem eiga systkini sama s\u00e6\u00f0isgjafann. Vi\u00f0 erum saman \u00ed Facebookgr\u00fappu og fimm fj\u00f6lskyldur hittumst \u00ed Austin Texas eina helgina. Ein meira a\u00f0 segja flaug \u00feanga\u00f0 fr\u00e1 Mex\u00edk\u00f3. Vi\u00f0 skemmtum okkur konunglega og \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 hittast aftur. \u00deetta var besta \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un sem \u00e9g hef teki\u00f0, \u00e9g hef aldrei horft um \u00f6x.<\/p>

Fyrir allar \u00fe\u00e6r konur sem vilja eignast b\u00f6rn einar, segi \u00e9g alltaf: \u00de\u00fa skalt vinna heimavinnuna \u00fe\u00edna. Ef \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 hugsa um \u00feetta, undirb\u00fa\u00f0u \u00feig. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 hugsa um fj\u00e1rm\u00e1lin, tilfinningalegan stu\u00f0ning, vini, fj\u00f6lskyldu. Finndu stu\u00f0ningsh\u00f3pa \u00e1 Facebook.<\/p>

\u00c9g hef veri\u00f0 \u00f3tr\u00falega heppin og \u00e9g er \u00feakkl\u00e1t. Mamma flutti til m\u00edn fyrir tveimur \u00e1rum fr\u00e1 Connecticut til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r vi\u00f0 uppeldi d\u00f3tturinnar. Afi og amma hafa stutt hana miki\u00f0 eins og \u00e9g \u00f3lst upp vi\u00f0, \u00e9g vildi a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i s\u00f6mu reynslu og \u00feau nytu \u00feess a\u00f0 vera afi og amma.<\/p>

\u00c9g er \u00ed raun ekki einst\u00e6\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ir, vegna stu\u00f0ningsnetsins. Vinir og fj\u00f6lskylda gera \u00feessa vegfer\u00f0 mun r\u00edkari.<\/p>

Kathryn Murray er barnas\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur og b\u00fdr me\u00f0 Candyce d\u00f3ttur sinn \u00ed Los Angeles, Kaliforn\u00edur\u00edki.\u00a0<\/p>

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