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samvistum og kemur ekki saman \u2013 hva\u00f0 er \u00fe\u00e1 til r\u00e1\u00f0a?Foreldrar sem hafa skili\u00f0 getur anna\u00f0hvort: A) Komi\u00f0 vel saman, e\u00f0a B) Ekki komi\u00f0 vel saman. \u00deetta vita flestir \u00feeir sem hafa skili\u00f0.Sum b\u00f6rn halda \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 allir geti veri\u00f0 vinir, en hva\u00f0 er til r\u00e1\u00f0a ef sl\u00edk sta\u00f0a kemur upp?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00deetta er klass\u00edsk foreldraklemma, \u00fearfir og \u00f3skir barnsins eru \u00fevert \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00feeir fullor\u00f0nir vilja. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er skiljanlegt a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 vilji hafa s\u00edna n\u00e1nustu \u00ed kringum sig til a\u00f0 halda upp \u00e1 st\u00f3ra daginn, hvort sem um afm\u00e6lis- e\u00f0a fermingarveislu e\u00f0a \u00e1l\u00edka er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a.<\/p>\n

Stundum er undirliggjandi \u00f3sk barnsins a\u00f0 allir komi saman og hafi gaman, undir sama \u00feaki og bara helst alltaf! Raunin er hinsvegar s\u00fa \u00ed foreldraheimi a\u00f0 hinir fullor\u00f0nu hafa haldi\u00f0 \u00e1fram me\u00f0 l\u00edf sitt og eru oftast s\u00e1ttir a\u00f0 vera \u00e1n hins a\u00f0ilans. \u00deetta getur veri\u00f0 b\u00e6\u00f0i fl\u00f3ki\u00f0 og alvarlegt og er mj\u00f6g einstaklingsbundi\u00f0.<\/p>\n

Sumir s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar segja a\u00f0 \u00fearfir og \u00f3skir barnsins \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 vega meira en hinna fullor\u00f0nu, en \u00ed svona tilfelli er kannski \u201eekkert r\u00e9tt svar.\u201c \u00dea\u00f0 eru mismunandi lei\u00f0ir a\u00f0 taka \u00feessa \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un \u00feannig best er a\u00f0 hugsa m\u00e1li\u00f0 alveg \u00ed gegn. \u00de\u00fa \u00feekkir \u00feitt barn og fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limina best, \u00feannig best er kannski a\u00f0 hugsa m\u00e1li\u00f0 til enda.<\/p>\n

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Kostur a<\/strong>) Halda sameiginlega veislu<\/em><\/p>\n

Til a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sem besta \u00fatkomu \u00fearf a\u00f0 \u201eofhugsa\u201c d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 (oftast er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki gott fyrir ge\u00f0heilsu fullor\u00f0inna, en \u00feetta sn\u00fdst um eitt skipti!)<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00fa g\u00e6tir \u00feurft a\u00f0 upphugsa einhvern ramma og jafnvel reglur (ekki tala um p\u00f3lit\u00edk e\u00f0a banna\u00f0 er a\u00f0 rifja upp lei\u00f0indaatvik fyrir 10 \u00e1rum sem allir fara a\u00f0 r\u00edfast um). Sl\u00edkt myndi algerlega ey\u00f0ileggja daginn og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearfnast mikillar \u00edhugunar af \u00feinni h\u00e1lfu hva\u00f0a reglur \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 setja til a\u00f0 allir heg\u00f0u\u00f0u s\u00e9r sem best. \u00deannig \u00fearf a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 samkomulagi vi\u00f0 gestina og \u00feeir \u00feurfa a\u00f0 vera samm\u00e1la og \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 vera h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 treysta hinum a\u00f0ilanum\/a\u00f0ilunum. Eins og \u00e1\u00f0ur sag\u00f0i \u2013 \u00fe\u00fa ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 vega og meta hvort \u00feetta s\u00e9 m\u00f6guleiki.<\/p>\n

\u00dear a\u00f0 auki g\u00e6tir\u00f0u skipulagt vi\u00f0bur\u00f0inn \u00feannig a\u00f0 l\u00edtil h\u00e6tta s\u00e9 \u00e1 \u00e1rekstrum (a\u00f0 koma me\u00f0 skemmtiatri\u00f0i, leik e\u00f0a eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1l\u00edka) svo allir geti bara fylgst me\u00f0 og \u00feurfi ekki a\u00f0 lenda \u00e1 \u201etjatti.\u201c<\/p>\n

Haf\u00f0u t\u00edmatakm\u00f6rk (\u201eafm\u00e6li\u00f0 mun standa yfir fr\u00e1 15-17). \u00de\u00e1 er minni h\u00e6tta \u00e1 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk fari a\u00f0 dvelja lengur og barnaafm\u00e6li \u00e6ttu svosem ekki a\u00f0 vera miki\u00f0 lengur en tveir t\u00edmar.<\/p>\n

Svo er l\u00edka gott a\u00f0 undirb\u00faa barni\u00f0 og \u00fatsk\u00fdra \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e1li sem \u00fea\u00f0 skilur a\u00f0 stundum s\u00e9u samskipti fullor\u00f0inna erfi\u00f0 e\u00f0a \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt og \u00feeim finnist kannski ekki skemmtilegast \u00ed heimi a\u00f0 vera \u00ed kringum hvort anna\u00f0. \u00de\u00fa \u00fearft ekki a\u00f0 fara \u00fat \u00ed sm\u00e1atri\u00f0i, bara koma \u00fev\u00ed til skila \u00e1 snyrtilegan h\u00e1tt. \u00dea\u00f0 sem m\u00e1li skipti a\u00f0 \u00feau elski barni\u00f0 \u00f6ll og ef einhver fari \u00ed f\u00fdlu s\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 ekki barnsins vegna.<\/p>\n

Kostur b<\/strong>) Ekki halda sameiginlega veislu<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00deetta er s\u00ed\u00f0an seinni kosturinn. Aftur \u2013 \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00feekkir fj\u00f6lskylduna best veistu hva\u00f0 g\u00e6ti gerst og g\u00e6ti \u00fea\u00f0 enda\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja afm\u00e6lisveislu barnsins. Sem er sennilega verra en a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra fyrir barninu af hverju \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e6r ekki veisluna sem \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3skar.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 getur veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa treystir \u00fe\u00e9r ekki \u00ed sl\u00edka samkomu og streitan sem samskiptin kunna a\u00f0 valda ey\u00f0ileggi fyrir \u00fe\u00e9r getuna til a\u00f0 halda \u00f6llu saman og \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0u n\u00f3tunum. Sem gerir \u00fea\u00f0 svo a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa getur ekki veri\u00f0 til sta\u00f0ar fyrir barni\u00f0, sem er \u00fea\u00f0 mikilv\u00e6gasta. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 veisla barnsins, en ekki \u00fe\u00edn veisla, \u00fearftu a\u00f0 vera til sta\u00f0ar og halda g\u00f3\u00f0a skapinu. \u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka erfitt a\u00f0 halda afm\u00e6li, jafnvel undir bestu kringumst\u00e6\u00f0unum.<\/p>\n

Barni\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 vera of ungt til a\u00f0 skilja sl\u00edkan samskiptavanda en s\u00e9 barni\u00f0 l\u00edka vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mt getur samkoma sem \u00feessi l\u00edka haft neikv\u00e6\u00f0 \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n

Stundum \u2013 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gefa ekki eftir \u00f3sk barnsins gerir \u00feetta b\u00e6rilegra, b\u00e6\u00f0i fyrir barni\u00f0 og \u00feig.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00fa getur sagt: \u201eNei, \u00fea\u00f0 mun ekki virka a\u00f0 halda afm\u00e6li\u00f0 me\u00f0 m\u00f6mmu \u00feinni\/pabba \u00fe\u00ednum,\u201c en best er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e1li sem barni\u00f0 skilur a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 hamingjusamara \u00e1n samskipta vi\u00f0 hvert anna\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00deannig getur\u00f0u vonandi komi\u00f0 \u00ed veg fyrir su\u00f0, \u00e1rekstra e\u00f0a br\u00e6\u00f0isk\u00f6st.<\/p>\n

Enginn s\u00e9r fyrir hvernig vi\u00f0bur\u00f0urinn myndi fara, en best er a\u00f0 gera hi\u00f0 besta \u00far hvorri \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0uninni sem \u00fe\u00fa tekur. Minntu sj\u00e1lfa\/n \u00feig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 hugsa um \u00fea\u00f0 besta fyrir barni\u00f0 (eins og 90% af uppeldi sn\u00fdst um!). Mundu a\u00f0 hugsa um b\u00e1\u00f0ar hli\u00f0ar og barni\u00f0 f\u00e6r veislu og \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0 a\u00f0 fagna tilveru \u00feess.<\/p>\n

 
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Ef \u00f3sk barnsins er a\u00f0 halda sameiginlega afm\u00e6lisveislu en foreldrarnir hafa sliti\u00f0 samvistum og kemur ekki saman \u2013 hva\u00f0 er \u00fe\u00e1 til r\u00e1\u00f0a?Foreldrar sem hafa skili\u00f0 getur anna\u00f0hvort: A) Komi\u00f0 vel saman, e\u00f0a B) Ekki komi\u00f0 vel saman. \u00deetta vita flestir \u00feeir sem hafa skili\u00f0.Sum b\u00f6rn halda \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 allir geti veri\u00f0 vinir, en hva\u00f0 er til r\u00e1\u00f0a ef sl\u00edk sta\u00f0a kemur upp?<\/strong><\/p>

\u00deetta er klass\u00edsk foreldraklemma, \u00fearfir og \u00f3skir barnsins eru \u00fevert \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00feeir fullor\u00f0nir vilja. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 er skiljanlegt a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 vilji hafa s\u00edna n\u00e1nustu \u00ed kringum sig til a\u00f0 halda upp \u00e1 st\u00f3ra daginn, hvort sem um afm\u00e6lis- e\u00f0a fermingarveislu e\u00f0a \u00e1l\u00edka er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a.<\/p>

Stundum er undirliggjandi \u00f3sk barnsins a\u00f0 allir komi saman og hafi gaman, undir sama \u00feaki og bara helst alltaf! Raunin er hinsvegar s\u00fa \u00ed foreldraheimi a\u00f0 hinir fullor\u00f0nu hafa haldi\u00f0 \u00e1fram me\u00f0 l\u00edf sitt og eru oftast s\u00e1ttir a\u00f0 vera \u00e1n hins a\u00f0ilans. \u00deetta getur veri\u00f0 b\u00e6\u00f0i fl\u00f3ki\u00f0 og alvarlegt og er mj\u00f6g einstaklingsbundi\u00f0.<\/p>

Sumir s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar segja a\u00f0 \u00fearfir og \u00f3skir barnsins \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 vega meira en hinna fullor\u00f0nu, en \u00ed svona tilfelli er kannski \u201eekkert r\u00e9tt svar.\u201c \u00dea\u00f0 eru mismunandi lei\u00f0ir a\u00f0 taka \u00feessa \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un \u00feannig best er a\u00f0 hugsa m\u00e1li\u00f0 alveg \u00ed gegn. \u00de\u00fa \u00feekkir \u00feitt barn og fj\u00f6lskyldume\u00f0limina best, \u00feannig best er kannski a\u00f0 hugsa m\u00e1li\u00f0 til enda.<\/p>

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Kostur a<\/strong>) Halda sameiginlega veislu<\/em><\/p>

Til a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 f\u00e1 sem besta \u00fatkomu \u00fearf a\u00f0 \u201eofhugsa\u201c d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 (oftast er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki gott fyrir ge\u00f0heilsu fullor\u00f0inna, en \u00feetta sn\u00fdst um eitt skipti!)<\/p>

\u00de\u00fa g\u00e6tir \u00feurft a\u00f0 upphugsa einhvern ramma og jafnvel reglur (ekki tala um p\u00f3lit\u00edk e\u00f0a banna\u00f0 er a\u00f0 rifja upp lei\u00f0indaatvik fyrir 10 \u00e1rum sem allir fara a\u00f0 r\u00edfast um). Sl\u00edkt myndi algerlega ey\u00f0ileggja daginn og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearfnast mikillar \u00edhugunar af \u00feinni h\u00e1lfu hva\u00f0a reglur \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 setja til a\u00f0 allir heg\u00f0u\u00f0u s\u00e9r sem best. \u00deannig \u00fearf a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 samkomulagi vi\u00f0 gestina og \u00feeir \u00feurfa a\u00f0 vera samm\u00e1la og \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 vera h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 treysta hinum a\u00f0ilanum\/a\u00f0ilunum. Eins og \u00e1\u00f0ur sag\u00f0i \u2013 \u00fe\u00fa ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 vega og meta hvort \u00feetta s\u00e9 m\u00f6guleiki.<\/p>

\u00dear a\u00f0 auki g\u00e6tir\u00f0u skipulagt vi\u00f0bur\u00f0inn \u00feannig a\u00f0 l\u00edtil h\u00e6tta s\u00e9 \u00e1 \u00e1rekstrum (a\u00f0 koma me\u00f0 skemmtiatri\u00f0i, leik e\u00f0a eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1l\u00edka) svo allir geti bara fylgst me\u00f0 og \u00feurfi ekki a\u00f0 lenda \u00e1 \u201etjatti.\u201c<\/p>

Haf\u00f0u t\u00edmatakm\u00f6rk (\u201eafm\u00e6li\u00f0 mun standa yfir fr\u00e1 15-17). \u00de\u00e1 er minni h\u00e6tta \u00e1 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk fari a\u00f0 dvelja lengur og barnaafm\u00e6li \u00e6ttu svosem ekki a\u00f0 vera miki\u00f0 lengur en tveir t\u00edmar.<\/p>

Svo er l\u00edka gott a\u00f0 undirb\u00faa barni\u00f0 og \u00fatsk\u00fdra \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e1li sem \u00fea\u00f0 skilur a\u00f0 stundum s\u00e9u samskipti fullor\u00f0inna erfi\u00f0 e\u00f0a \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt og \u00feeim finnist kannski ekki skemmtilegast \u00ed heimi a\u00f0 vera \u00ed kringum hvort anna\u00f0. \u00de\u00fa \u00fearft ekki a\u00f0 fara \u00fat \u00ed sm\u00e1atri\u00f0i, bara koma \u00fev\u00ed til skila \u00e1 snyrtilegan h\u00e1tt. \u00dea\u00f0 sem m\u00e1li skipti a\u00f0 \u00feau elski barni\u00f0 \u00f6ll og ef einhver fari \u00ed f\u00fdlu s\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 ekki barnsins vegna.<\/p>

Kostur b<\/strong>) Ekki halda sameiginlega veislu<\/em><\/p>

\u00deetta er s\u00ed\u00f0an seinni kosturinn. Aftur \u2013 \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00feekkir fj\u00f6lskylduna best veistu hva\u00f0 g\u00e6ti gerst og g\u00e6ti \u00fea\u00f0 enda\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja afm\u00e6lisveislu barnsins. Sem er sennilega verra en a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra fyrir barninu af hverju \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e6r ekki veisluna sem \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3skar.<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 getur veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa treystir \u00fe\u00e9r ekki \u00ed sl\u00edka samkomu og streitan sem samskiptin kunna a\u00f0 valda ey\u00f0ileggi fyrir \u00fe\u00e9r getuna til a\u00f0 halda \u00f6llu saman og \u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0u n\u00f3tunum. Sem gerir \u00fea\u00f0 svo a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa getur ekki veri\u00f0 til sta\u00f0ar fyrir barni\u00f0, sem er \u00fea\u00f0 mikilv\u00e6gasta. \u00der\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 veisla barnsins, en ekki \u00fe\u00edn veisla, \u00fearftu a\u00f0 vera til sta\u00f0ar og halda g\u00f3\u00f0a skapinu. \u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka erfitt a\u00f0 halda afm\u00e6li, jafnvel undir bestu kringumst\u00e6\u00f0unum.<\/p>

Barni\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 vera of ungt til a\u00f0 skilja sl\u00edkan samskiptavanda en s\u00e9 barni\u00f0 l\u00edka vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mt getur samkoma sem \u00feessi l\u00edka haft neikv\u00e6\u00f0 \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>

Stundum \u2013 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gefa ekki eftir \u00f3sk barnsins gerir \u00feetta b\u00e6rilegra, b\u00e6\u00f0i fyrir barni\u00f0 og \u00feig.<\/p>

\u00de\u00fa getur sagt: \u201eNei, \u00fea\u00f0 mun ekki virka a\u00f0 halda afm\u00e6li\u00f0 me\u00f0 m\u00f6mmu \u00feinni\/pabba \u00fe\u00ednum,\u201c en best er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e1li sem barni\u00f0 skilur a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 hamingjusamara \u00e1n samskipta vi\u00f0 hvert anna\u00f0.<\/p>

\u00deannig getur\u00f0u vonandi komi\u00f0 \u00ed veg fyrir su\u00f0, \u00e1rekstra e\u00f0a br\u00e6\u00f0isk\u00f6st.<\/p>

Enginn s\u00e9r fyrir hvernig vi\u00f0bur\u00f0urinn myndi fara, en best er a\u00f0 gera hi\u00f0 besta \u00far hvorri \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0uninni sem \u00fe\u00fa tekur. Minntu sj\u00e1lfa\/n \u00feig \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 hugsa um \u00fea\u00f0 besta fyrir barni\u00f0 (eins og 90% af uppeldi sn\u00fdst um!). Mundu a\u00f0 hugsa um b\u00e1\u00f0ar hli\u00f0ar og barni\u00f0 f\u00e6r veislu og \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0 a\u00f0 fagna tilveru \u00feess.<\/p>

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