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Ragnhei\u00f0ur L\u00e1ra Gu\u00f0r\u00fanard\u00f3ttir rekur fyrirt\u00e6ki\u00f0 Tv\u00f6 heimili<\/a> sem er r\u00e1\u00f0gjafar\u00fej\u00f3nusta og s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun fyrir foreldra og \u00a0b\u00f6rn sem b\u00faa \u00e1 tveimur heimilum. Sn\u00fdr r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6fin a\u00f0 \u00f6llu \u00fev\u00ed sem vi\u00f0kemur fj\u00f6lskyldum sem eru a\u00f0 skilja, hafa skili\u00f0 e\u00f0a vilja hafa samkomulagi\u00f0 sem best \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ala upp b\u00f6rn \u00e1 tveimur heimilum.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 Ragnhei\u00f0ur L\u00e1ra Gu\u00f0r\u00fanard\u00f3ttir var l\u00edtil stelpa langa\u00f0i hana a\u00f0 starfa sem\u00a0f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gjafi e\u00f0a s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur: \u201eM\u00e9r fannst \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3tr\u00falega heillandi framt\u00ed\u00f0ars\u00fdn a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa b\u00f6rnum. \u00c9g hef alltaf veri\u00f0 upptekin af r\u00e9tti barna til a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 eigin a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur og l\u00edf, hafa r\u00f6dd og hva\u00f0a lei\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 fullor\u00f0nu getum fari\u00f0 til a\u00f0 haga hlutum \u00fat fr\u00e1 sj\u00f3narhorni barna.\u201d<\/p>\n

A\u00f0spur\u00f0 um n\u00e1msferilinn segir Ragnhei\u00f0ur: \u201eEftir a\u00f0 grunnsk\u00f3la lauk f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00ed Kvennask\u00f3lann \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk og lauk \u00fear n\u00e1mi af f\u00e9lagsfr\u00e6\u00f0ibraut. F\u00f3r svo \u00ed BA n\u00e1m \u00ed f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f og \u00ed framhaldinu af \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed meistaran\u00e1m \u00ed f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f til starfsr\u00e9ttinda og lauk \u00fev\u00ed n\u00e1mi \u00e1ri\u00f0 2013. Me\u00f0fram n\u00e1mi starfa\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00e1 skammt\u00edmaheimili fyrir unglinga hj\u00e1 barnavernd Reykjav\u00edkur. Eftir \u00fatskrift h\u00f3f \u00e9g starf \u00ed b\u00fasetu\u00farr\u00e6\u00f0i fyrir unga menn me\u00f0 f\u00e9lags – og f\u00edkniefnavanda. Vann a\u00f0 undirb\u00faningi og opnun \u00e1 fr\u00edstundarheimili \u00ed Laugardal og starfa\u00f0i svo sem f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gjafi hj\u00e1 f\u00e9lags\u00fej\u00f3nustu. F\u00e9kk starf sem s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur \u00ed m\u00e1lefnum barna hj\u00e1 s\u00fdslumanninum \u00e1 h\u00f6fu\u00f0borgarsv\u00e6\u00f0inu \u00e1ri\u00f0 2016 og starfa \u00fear enn \u00ed hlutastarfi me\u00f0fram st\u00f6rfum \u00e1 stofunni minni Tv\u00f6 heimili sem opna\u00f0i \u00ed febr\u00faar 2020.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u00cd starfi Ragnhei\u00f0ar n\u00fdtir h\u00fan \u00fdmiskonar hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i og n\u00fdtir \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 \u00e1 s.s. j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0a s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0i, tengslaeflandi n\u00e1lgun, \u00e1fallami\u00f0a\u00f0a n\u00e1lgun og lausnami\u00f0a\u00f0a n\u00e1lgun: \u201e\u00c9g er almennt l\u00edfsgl\u00f6\u00f0 og n\u00e1lgast f\u00f3lk af vir\u00f0ingu og au\u00f0m\u00fdkt og hef \u00e1n\u00e6gju af starfinu m\u00ednu. Hugsa a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf smiti \u00fat fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r til skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0inga. \u00c9g vona \u00fea\u00f0 allavega.\u201d<\/p>\n

Ragnhei\u00f0ur heldur \u00e1fram: \u201e\u00c9g legg miki\u00f0 upp \u00far \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skapa notalegt andr\u00famsloft \u00e1 stofunni minni og vil a\u00f0 \u00feeim sem til m\u00edn leita l\u00ed\u00f0i eins vel og h\u00e6gt er \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0, oft \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0um, s\u00edna mestu erfi\u00f0leika \u00ed l\u00edfinu. Undirb\u00faningur fyrir vi\u00f0t\u00f6l skiptir miklu m\u00e1li, b\u00e6\u00f0i hva\u00f0 var\u00f0ar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0urnar sem vi\u00f0tali\u00f0 fer fram \u00ed en einnig var\u00f0andi mig sj\u00e1lfa sem er verkf\u00e6ri\u00f0 sj\u00e1lft. \u00deess vegna huga \u00e9g vel a\u00f0 svefni, n\u00e6ringu og andlegri l\u00ed\u00f0an til a\u00f0 vera vel \u00ed stakk b\u00fain a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta f\u00f3lki \u00ed erfi\u00f0ri st\u00f6\u00f0u og m\u00e6ta \u00fe\u00f6rfum \u00feeirra um samhygg\u00f0, hlustun og r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f.\u201d<\/p>\n

Hverjir leita helst til \u00fe\u00edn og \u00e1 hva\u00f0a forsendum?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Til m\u00edn leita fyrst og fremst foreldrar sem b\u00faa ekki saman og \u00feurfa a\u00f0sto\u00f0 og r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta foreldrasamstarf sitt. \u00c9g veiti einnig s\u00e1ttame\u00f0fer\u00f0 skv. 33. gr. barnalaga nr. 76\/2003 og fara sl\u00edk m\u00e1l \u00ed ferli skv. reglum um s\u00e1ttame\u00f0fer\u00f0.<\/p>\n

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Ragnhei\u00f0ur L\u00e1ra Gu\u00f0r\u00fanard\u00f3ttir<\/p><\/div>\n

Til m\u00edn leita foreldrar vegna \u00fdmissa \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a er var\u00f0ar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00feeirra og barna eftir skilna\u00f0\/sambandsslit. Sem d\u00e6mi foreldrar og\/e\u00f0a stj\u00fapforeldrar sem leita einstaklingsr\u00e1\u00f0gjafar vegna samskipta vi\u00f0 barnsforeldri, foreldrar sem koma saman til a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta samskipti s\u00edn \u00e1 milli og verklag, foreldrar sem eru a\u00f0 sl\u00edta sambandi s\u00ednu og vilja gera sitt besta til a\u00f0 hl\u00edfa barni s\u00ednu vi\u00f0 breyttum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00de\u00e1 koma foreldrar me\u00f0 b\u00f6rn s\u00edn \u00ed vi\u00f0tal sem \u00feau upplifa a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0i ekki n\u00e6gjanlega vel \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um s\u00ednum.<\/p>\n

\u00cdslenskar fj\u00f6lskyldur: Hafa \u00fe\u00e6r breyst \u00e1 undanf\u00f6rnum \u00e1ratugum? Hversu algengar eru fj\u00f6lskyldur sem b\u00faa ekki saman\/foreldrar hafa skili\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Fj\u00f6lskyldur hafa breyst a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed leytinu til a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er samf\u00e9lagslega vi\u00f0urkenndara \u00ed dag a\u00f0 skilja e\u00f0a sl\u00edta sambandi \u00feegar b\u00f6rn eru \u00ed spilinu en \u00fe\u00f3tti h\u00e9r \u00e1\u00f0ur fyrr. \u00c1\u00f0ur var l\u00f6g\u00f0 r\u00edkari \u00e1hersla \u00e1 a\u00f0 hj\u00f3nabandi\u00f0 h\u00e9ldi og var \u00fea\u00f0 tali\u00f0 g\u00e6fur\u00edkara fyrir b\u00f6rn. \u00dev\u00ed var l\u00f6g\u00f0 \u00e1hersla \u00e1 forvarnarvinnu til a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 hj\u00e1 foreldrum. \u00deegar fari\u00f0 var a\u00f0 framkv\u00e6ma ranns\u00f3knir \u00e1 \u00feessum m\u00e1lefnum kom \u00ed lj\u00f3s a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnum vegna\u00f0i betur eftir skilna\u00f0 foreldra \u00feegar samskipti voru g\u00f3\u00f0 heldur en b\u00f6rnum sem \u00f3lust upp \u00ed hj\u00e1 foreldrum sem voru \u00f3hamingjusamir og\/e\u00f0a \u00ed stormas\u00f6mu sambandi.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00e1tttaka fer\u00f0a hefur einnig aukist me\u00f0 auknu jafnr\u00e9tti kynjana. H\u00e9r \u00e1\u00f0ur fyrr var \u00fea\u00f0 venjan vi\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 foreldra a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin byggju \u00e1fram hj\u00e1 m\u00e6\u00f0rum s\u00ednum en f\u00f3ru \u00ed heims\u00f3knir til f\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00edns e\u00f0a dv\u00f6ldu a\u00f0ra hverja helgi. Ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdndu fram \u00e1 mikilv\u00e6gi tengsla barns vi\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0a foreldra s\u00edna og \u00fev\u00ed hafa veri\u00f0 stigin skref \u00ed \u00e1tt a\u00f0 jafnari st\u00f6\u00f0u kynjana hva\u00f0 \u00feetta var\u00f0ar. Sem betur fer. Mikilv\u00e6gt er fyrir b\u00f6rn a\u00f0 eiga r\u00edkuleg tengsl vi\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0a foreldra s\u00edna og a\u00f0 \u00feeir b\u00e1\u00f0ir taki virkan \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed hversdagslegri um\u00f6nnun \u00feeirra.<\/p>\n

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Tali\u00f0 a\u00f0 um 40% hj\u00f3nabanda endi me\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 en svo eru au\u00f0vita\u00f0 fj\u00f6ldi barna sem eiga foreldra sem aldrei voru \u00ed sambandi. \u00dea\u00f0 er g\u00edfurlega mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 foreldrar f\u00e1i vi\u00f0eigandi r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f og \u00fej\u00f3nustu vi\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 e\u00f0a \u00feegar barn er a\u00f0 koma \u00ed heiminn og foreldrar eru ekki saman. Ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdna a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnum sem alast upp vi\u00f0 j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0a foreldrasamvinnu vegnar n\u00e1nast jafn vel \u00ed l\u00edfinu og b\u00f6rnum sem alast upp \u00ed hamingjusamri samb\u00fa\u00f0 foreldra. Sl\u00edk samvinna vir\u00f0ist hafa svo mikil \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00e1 framt\u00ed\u00f0 barna a\u00f0 m\u00f6gulega \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 sem samf\u00e9lag a\u00f0 taka m\u00e1lefni barna sem b\u00faa \u00e1 tveimur heimilum fyrir sem l\u00fd\u00f0heilsum\u00e1l.<\/p>\n

Hva\u00f0 er foreldrasamvinna? Hvernig er best a\u00f0 f\u00e1 foreldra til a\u00f0 vinna saman? Hva\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e6ttir er \u00fea\u00f0 einna helst sem foreldrar \u00feurfa a\u00f0sto\u00f0 vi\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me\u00f0 foreldrasamvinnu er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 samstarf foreldra er var\u00f0ar uppeldi og um\u00f6nnun barns \u00e1 tveimur heimilum. Mikilv\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 foreldrar r\u00e6\u00f0i strax \u00ed upphafi hvernig \u00feeir sj\u00e1i samstarfi\u00f0 fyrir s\u00e9r og hvert markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed s\u00e9. Marmi\u00f0i\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 sn\u00faa a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skapa sem bestu umgj\u00f6r\u00f0 um l\u00edf barns \u00e1 tveimur heimilum til a\u00f0 l\u00e1gmarka ska\u00f0legar aflei\u00f0ingar \u00feess a\u00f0 eiga foreldra sem hafa fari\u00f0 \u00ed sundur. Verkaskipting, skipting \u00e1byrg\u00f0ar og samskiptalei\u00f0ir \u00fearf a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a og \u00e1kve\u00f0a hvernig skal haga \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed samstarfinu. \u00de\u00e1 er einnig gott a\u00f0 tileinka s\u00e9r j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt hugarfar gagnvart hinu foreldrinu og a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. Vera au\u00f0mj\u00fakur, \u00feakkl\u00e1tur og einl\u00e6gur \u00ed breyttum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/p>\n

Hvernig virkar s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun?<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun fer fram skv. 33.gr. a barnalaga nr. 76\/2003 og \u00feeim reglum sem fjalla um s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun skv. fyrrgreindum l\u00f6gum. Hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lunar er s\u00fa a\u00f0 a\u00f0ilar ver\u00f0i a\u00f0 taka sj\u00e1lfviljugir \u00fe\u00e1tt. Me\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0 \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0s og hlutlauss s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lara er markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 a\u00f0ilar komist sj\u00e1lfir a\u00f0 samkomulagi um lausn \u00e1greiningsins sem \u00feeir meta vi\u00f0unandi fyrir alla a\u00f0ila, \u00ed gegnum skipulagt og m\u00f3ta\u00f0 ferli.<\/p>\n

\u00c1 Tveimur heimilum<\/a> er unni\u00f0 \u00fat fr\u00e1 a\u00f0fer\u00f0 sem kallast barnami\u00f0u\u00f0 s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun (e. child focused og child inclusive mediation). \u00de\u00e1 mi\u00f0ast s\u00e1ttame\u00f0fer\u00f0in \u00fat fr\u00e1 sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0um barnins sem ekki er \u00e1 sv\u00e6\u00f0inu og hva\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 vera best fyrir \u00fea\u00f0. Barninu er bo\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 afst\u00f6\u00f0u s\u00edna vi\u00f0 s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lara sem \u00ed framhaldinu n\u00fdtur afst\u00f6\u00f0una sem vegv\u00edsi \u00ed \u00e1framhaldandi s\u00e1ttaferli.<\/p>\n

Hversu miki\u00f0 v\u00e6gi hafa \u00f3skir barnsins \u00ed ferlinu, er barni\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tttakandi \u00ed \u00f6llu?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00dat fr\u00e1 faglegu sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0i sem og r\u00e9ttindum barns er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 hluti af ferli \u00feegar veri\u00f0 er a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir um l\u00edf \u00feess. \u00cd sumum tilvikum hefst ferli \u00e1 a\u00f0 r\u00e6tt er vi\u00f0 barni\u00f0 og l\u00ed\u00f0an \u00feess og upplifun af a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00feess \u00e1 tveimur heimilum k\u00f6nnu\u00f0. Vi\u00f0tali\u00f0 er svo nota\u00f0 \u00ed \u00e1framhaldandi r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f foreldranna sem sn\u00fdr \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur barnsins me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed t.d. a\u00f0 breyta umgengni, a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00e1 heimilum, samskiptum foreldra. Stundum er unni\u00f0 barni\u00f0 og foreldri saman eftir a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um, aldri og \u00feroska barnsins.<\/p>\n

Smelli\u00f0 \u00e1 samf\u00e9lagsmi\u00f0lahnappana a\u00f0 ne\u00f0an til a\u00f0 fara inn \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ur Tveggja heimila!\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

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Ragnhei\u00f0ur L\u00e1ra Gu\u00f0r\u00fanard\u00f3ttir rekur fyrirt\u00e6ki\u00f0 Tv\u00f6 heimili sem er r\u00e1\u00f0gjafar\u00fej\u00f3nusta og s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun fyrir foreldra og \u00a0b\u00f6rn sem b\u00faa \u00e1 tveimur heimilum. Sn\u00fdr r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6fin a\u00f0 \u00f6llu \u00fev\u00ed sem vi\u00f0kemur fj\u00f6lskyldum sem eru a\u00f0 skilja, hafa skili\u00f0 e\u00f0a vilja hafa samkomulagi\u00f0 sem best \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ala upp b\u00f6rn \u00e1 tveimur heimilum. Fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5350,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"

Ragnhei\u00f0ur L\u00e1ra Gu\u00f0r\u00fanard\u00f3ttir rekur fyrirt\u00e6ki\u00f0 Tv\u00f6 heimili sem er r\u00e1\u00f0gjafar\u00fej\u00f3nusta og s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun fyrir foreldra og \u00a0b\u00f6rn sem b\u00faa \u00e1 tveimur heimilum. Sn\u00fdr r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6fin a\u00f0 \u00f6llu \u00fev\u00ed sem vi\u00f0kemur fj\u00f6lskyldum sem eru a\u00f0 skilja, hafa skili\u00f0 e\u00f0a vilja hafa samkomulagi\u00f0 sem best \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ala upp b\u00f6rn \u00e1 tveimur heimilum.<\/p>

Fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 Ragnhei\u00f0ur L\u00e1ra Gu\u00f0r\u00fanard\u00f3ttir var l\u00edtil stelpa langa\u00f0i hana a\u00f0 starfa sem\u00a0f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gjafi e\u00f0a s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur: \u201eM\u00e9r fannst \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3tr\u00falega heillandi framt\u00ed\u00f0ars\u00fdn a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa b\u00f6rnum. \u00c9g hef alltaf veri\u00f0 upptekin af r\u00e9tti barna til a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 eigin a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur og l\u00edf, hafa r\u00f6dd og hva\u00f0a lei\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 fullor\u00f0nu getum fari\u00f0 til a\u00f0 haga hlutum \u00fat fr\u00e1 sj\u00f3narhorni barna.\u201d<\/p>

A\u00f0spur\u00f0 um n\u00e1msferilinn segir Ragnhei\u00f0ur: \u201eEftir a\u00f0 grunnsk\u00f3la lauk f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00ed Kvennask\u00f3lann \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk og lauk \u00fear n\u00e1mi af f\u00e9lagsfr\u00e6\u00f0ibraut. F\u00f3r svo \u00ed BA n\u00e1m \u00ed f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f og \u00ed framhaldinu af \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed meistaran\u00e1m \u00ed f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f til starfsr\u00e9ttinda og lauk \u00fev\u00ed n\u00e1mi \u00e1ri\u00f0 2013. Me\u00f0fram n\u00e1mi starfa\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00e1 skammt\u00edmaheimili fyrir unglinga hj\u00e1 barnavernd Reykjav\u00edkur. Eftir \u00fatskrift h\u00f3f \u00e9g starf \u00ed b\u00fasetu\u00farr\u00e6\u00f0i fyrir unga menn me\u00f0 f\u00e9lags - og f\u00edkniefnavanda. Vann a\u00f0 undirb\u00faningi og opnun \u00e1 fr\u00edstundarheimili \u00ed Laugardal og starfa\u00f0i svo sem f\u00e9lagsr\u00e1\u00f0gjafi hj\u00e1 f\u00e9lags\u00fej\u00f3nustu. F\u00e9kk starf sem s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur \u00ed m\u00e1lefnum barna hj\u00e1 s\u00fdslumanninum \u00e1 h\u00f6fu\u00f0borgarsv\u00e6\u00f0inu \u00e1ri\u00f0 2016 og starfa \u00fear enn \u00ed hlutastarfi me\u00f0fram st\u00f6rfum \u00e1 stofunni minni Tv\u00f6 heimili sem opna\u00f0i \u00ed febr\u00faar 2020.\u201d<\/p>

\u00cd starfi Ragnhei\u00f0ar n\u00fdtir h\u00fan \u00fdmiskonar hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i og n\u00fdtir \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 \u00e1 s.s. j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0a s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0i, tengslaeflandi n\u00e1lgun, \u00e1fallami\u00f0a\u00f0a n\u00e1lgun og lausnami\u00f0a\u00f0a n\u00e1lgun: \u201e\u00c9g er almennt l\u00edfsgl\u00f6\u00f0 og n\u00e1lgast f\u00f3lk af vir\u00f0ingu og au\u00f0m\u00fdkt og hef \u00e1n\u00e6gju af starfinu m\u00ednu. Hugsa a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf smiti \u00fat fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r til skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0inga. \u00c9g vona \u00fea\u00f0 allavega.\u201d\u00a0<\/p>

Ragnhei\u00f0ur heldur \u00e1fram: \u201e\u00c9g legg miki\u00f0 upp \u00far \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skapa notalegt andr\u00famsloft \u00e1 stofunni minni og vil a\u00f0 \u00feeim sem til m\u00edn leita l\u00ed\u00f0i eins vel og h\u00e6gt er \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0, oft \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0um, s\u00edna mestu erfi\u00f0leika \u00ed l\u00edfinu. Undirb\u00faningur fyrir vi\u00f0t\u00f6l skiptir miklu m\u00e1li, b\u00e6\u00f0i hva\u00f0 var\u00f0ar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0urnar sem vi\u00f0tali\u00f0 fer fram \u00ed en einnig var\u00f0andi mig sj\u00e1lfa sem er verkf\u00e6ri\u00f0 sj\u00e1lft. \u00deess vegna huga \u00e9g vel a\u00f0 svefni, n\u00e6ringu og andlegri l\u00ed\u00f0an til a\u00f0 vera vel \u00ed stakk b\u00fain a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta f\u00f3lki \u00ed erfi\u00f0ri st\u00f6\u00f0u og m\u00e6ta \u00fe\u00f6rfum \u00feeirra um samhygg\u00f0, hlustun og r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f.\u201d<\/p>

Hverjir leita helst til \u00fe\u00edn og \u00e1 hva\u00f0a forsendum?<\/strong><\/p>

Til m\u00edn leita fyrst og fremst foreldrar sem b\u00faa ekki saman og \u00feurfa a\u00f0sto\u00f0 og r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta foreldrasamstarf sitt. \u00c9g veiti einnig s\u00e1ttame\u00f0fer\u00f0 skv. 33. gr. barnalaga nr. 76\/2003 og fara sl\u00edk m\u00e1l \u00ed ferli skv. reglum um s\u00e1ttame\u00f0fer\u00f0.<\/p>[caption id=\"attachment_5349\" align=\"aligncenter\" width=\"768\"]\"\"<\/a> Ragnhei\u00f0ur L\u00e1ra Gu\u00f0r\u00fanard\u00f3ttir[\/caption]

Til m\u00edn leita foreldrar vegna \u00fdmissa \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a er var\u00f0ar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00feeirra og barna eftir skilna\u00f0\/sambandsslit. Sem d\u00e6mi foreldrar og\/e\u00f0a stj\u00fapforeldrar sem leita einstaklingsr\u00e1\u00f0gjafar vegna samskipta vi\u00f0 barnsforeldri, foreldrar sem koma saman til a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta samskipti s\u00edn \u00e1 milli og verklag, foreldrar sem eru a\u00f0 sl\u00edta sambandi s\u00ednu og vilja gera sitt besta til a\u00f0 hl\u00edfa barni s\u00ednu vi\u00f0 breyttum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. \u00de\u00e1 koma foreldrar me\u00f0 b\u00f6rn s\u00edn \u00ed vi\u00f0tal sem \u00feau upplifa a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0i ekki n\u00e6gjanlega vel \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um s\u00ednum.<\/p>

\u00cdslenskar fj\u00f6lskyldur: Hafa \u00fe\u00e6r breyst \u00e1 undanf\u00f6rnum \u00e1ratugum? Hversu algengar eru fj\u00f6lskyldur sem b\u00faa ekki saman\/foreldrar hafa skili\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>

Fj\u00f6lskyldur hafa breyst a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed leytinu til a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er samf\u00e9lagslega vi\u00f0urkenndara \u00ed dag a\u00f0 skilja e\u00f0a sl\u00edta sambandi \u00feegar b\u00f6rn eru \u00ed spilinu en \u00fe\u00f3tti h\u00e9r \u00e1\u00f0ur fyrr. \u00c1\u00f0ur var l\u00f6g\u00f0 r\u00edkari \u00e1hersla \u00e1 a\u00f0 hj\u00f3nabandi\u00f0 h\u00e9ldi og var \u00fea\u00f0 tali\u00f0 g\u00e6fur\u00edkara fyrir b\u00f6rn. \u00dev\u00ed var l\u00f6g\u00f0 \u00e1hersla \u00e1 forvarnarvinnu til a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 hj\u00e1 foreldrum. \u00deegar fari\u00f0 var a\u00f0 framkv\u00e6ma ranns\u00f3knir \u00e1 \u00feessum m\u00e1lefnum kom \u00ed lj\u00f3s a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnum vegna\u00f0i betur eftir skilna\u00f0 foreldra \u00feegar samskipti voru g\u00f3\u00f0 heldur en b\u00f6rnum sem \u00f3lust upp \u00ed hj\u00e1 foreldrum sem voru \u00f3hamingjusamir og\/e\u00f0a \u00ed stormas\u00f6mu sambandi.\u00a0<\/p>

\u00de\u00e1tttaka fer\u00f0a hefur einnig aukist me\u00f0 auknu jafnr\u00e9tti kynjana. H\u00e9r \u00e1\u00f0ur fyrr var \u00fea\u00f0 venjan vi\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 foreldra a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin byggju \u00e1fram hj\u00e1 m\u00e6\u00f0rum s\u00ednum en f\u00f3ru \u00ed heims\u00f3knir til f\u00f6\u00f0ur s\u00edns e\u00f0a dv\u00f6ldu a\u00f0ra hverja helgi. Ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdndu fram \u00e1 mikilv\u00e6gi tengsla barns vi\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0a foreldra s\u00edna og \u00fev\u00ed hafa veri\u00f0 stigin skref \u00ed \u00e1tt a\u00f0 jafnari st\u00f6\u00f0u kynjana hva\u00f0 \u00feetta var\u00f0ar. Sem betur fer. Mikilv\u00e6gt er fyrir b\u00f6rn a\u00f0 eiga r\u00edkuleg tengsl vi\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0a foreldra s\u00edna og a\u00f0 \u00feeir b\u00e1\u00f0ir taki virkan \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed hversdagslegri um\u00f6nnun \u00feeirra.<\/p>

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Tali\u00f0 a\u00f0 um 40% hj\u00f3nabanda endi me\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 en svo eru au\u00f0vita\u00f0 fj\u00f6ldi barna sem eiga foreldra sem aldrei voru \u00ed sambandi. \u00dea\u00f0 er g\u00edfurlega mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 foreldrar f\u00e1i vi\u00f0eigandi r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f og \u00fej\u00f3nustu vi\u00f0 skilna\u00f0 e\u00f0a \u00feegar barn er a\u00f0 koma \u00ed heiminn og foreldrar eru ekki saman. Ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdna a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnum sem alast upp vi\u00f0 j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0a foreldrasamvinnu vegnar n\u00e1nast jafn vel \u00ed l\u00edfinu og b\u00f6rnum sem alast upp \u00ed hamingjusamri samb\u00fa\u00f0 foreldra. Sl\u00edk samvinna vir\u00f0ist hafa svo mikil \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00e1 framt\u00ed\u00f0 barna a\u00f0 m\u00f6gulega \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 sem samf\u00e9lag a\u00f0 taka m\u00e1lefni barna sem b\u00faa \u00e1 tveimur heimilum fyrir sem l\u00fd\u00f0heilsum\u00e1l.<\/p>

Hva\u00f0 er foreldrasamvinna? Hvernig er best a\u00f0 f\u00e1 foreldra til a\u00f0 vinna saman? Hva\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e6ttir er \u00fea\u00f0 einna helst sem foreldrar \u00feurfa a\u00f0sto\u00f0 vi\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>

Me\u00f0 foreldrasamvinnu er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 samstarf foreldra er var\u00f0ar uppeldi og um\u00f6nnun barns \u00e1 tveimur heimilum. Mikilv\u00e6gt er a\u00f0 foreldrar r\u00e6\u00f0i strax \u00ed upphafi hvernig \u00feeir sj\u00e1i samstarfi\u00f0 fyrir s\u00e9r og hvert markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed s\u00e9. Marmi\u00f0i\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 sn\u00faa a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skapa sem bestu umgj\u00f6r\u00f0 um l\u00edf barns \u00e1 tveimur heimilum til a\u00f0 l\u00e1gmarka ska\u00f0legar aflei\u00f0ingar \u00feess a\u00f0 eiga foreldra sem hafa fari\u00f0 \u00ed sundur. Verkaskipting, skipting \u00e1byrg\u00f0ar og samskiptalei\u00f0ir \u00fearf a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a og \u00e1kve\u00f0a hvernig skal haga \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed samstarfinu. \u00de\u00e1 er einnig gott a\u00f0 tileinka s\u00e9r j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt hugarfar gagnvart hinu foreldrinu og a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um. Vera au\u00f0mj\u00fakur, \u00feakkl\u00e1tur og einl\u00e6gur \u00ed breyttum a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um.<\/p>

Hvernig virkar s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun?<\/strong><\/p>

S\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun fer fram skv. 33.gr. a barnalaga nr. 76\/2003 og \u00feeim reglum sem fjalla um s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun skv. fyrrgreindum l\u00f6gum. Hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lunar er s\u00fa a\u00f0 a\u00f0ilar ver\u00f0i a\u00f0 taka sj\u00e1lfviljugir \u00fe\u00e1tt. Me\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0 \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0s og hlutlauss s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lara er markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 a\u00f0ilar komist sj\u00e1lfir a\u00f0 samkomulagi um lausn \u00e1greiningsins sem \u00feeir meta vi\u00f0unandi fyrir alla a\u00f0ila, \u00ed gegnum skipulagt og m\u00f3ta\u00f0 ferli.<\/p>

\u00c1 Tveimur heimilum er unni\u00f0 \u00fat fr\u00e1 a\u00f0fer\u00f0 sem kallast barnami\u00f0u\u00f0 s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lun (e. child focused og child inclusive mediation). \u00de\u00e1 mi\u00f0ast s\u00e1ttame\u00f0fer\u00f0in \u00fat fr\u00e1 sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0um barnins sem ekki er \u00e1 sv\u00e6\u00f0inu og hva\u00f0 kann a\u00f0 vera best fyrir \u00fea\u00f0. Barninu er bo\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 afst\u00f6\u00f0u s\u00edna vi\u00f0 s\u00e1ttami\u00f0lara sem \u00ed framhaldinu n\u00fdtur afst\u00f6\u00f0una sem vegv\u00edsi \u00ed \u00e1framhaldandi s\u00e1ttaferli.<\/p>

Hversu miki\u00f0 v\u00e6gi hafa \u00f3skir barnsins \u00ed ferlinu, er barni\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tttakandi \u00ed \u00f6llu?<\/strong><\/p>

\u00dat fr\u00e1 faglegu sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0i sem og r\u00e9ttindum barns er mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 hluti af ferli \u00feegar veri\u00f0 er a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir um l\u00edf \u00feess. \u00cd sumum tilvikum hefst ferli \u00e1 a\u00f0 r\u00e6tt er vi\u00f0 barni\u00f0 og l\u00ed\u00f0an \u00feess og upplifun af a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00feess \u00e1 tveimur heimilum k\u00f6nnu\u00f0. Vi\u00f0tali\u00f0 er svo nota\u00f0 \u00ed \u00e1framhaldandi r\u00e1\u00f0gj\u00f6f foreldranna sem sn\u00fdr \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur barnsins me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed t.d. a\u00f0 breyta umgengni, a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00e1 heimilum, samskiptum foreldra. Stundum er unni\u00f0 barni\u00f0 og foreldri saman eftir a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um, aldri og \u00feroska barnsins.<\/p>

Smelli\u00f0 \u00e1 samf\u00e9lagsmi\u00f0lahnappana a\u00f0 ne\u00f0an til a\u00f0 fara inn \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ur Tveggja heimila!\u00a0<\/em><\/p>

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