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Konur og s\u00e9rstaklega m\u00e6\u00f0ur eru undir miklu \u00e1lagi a\u00f0 standa sig, hvar sem er, hven\u00e6r sem er. Alla daga krefst samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 l\u00edtum vel \u00fat og heg\u00f0un okkar er d\u00e6md (hvort sem vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkennum \u00fea\u00f0 e\u00f0ur ei).<\/strong><\/p>\n

Dr. Caitlin Zietz skrifa\u00f0i fr\u00e1b\u00e6ran pistil um m\u00f3\u00f0urhlutverki\u00f0, sem kannski margir hafa lesi\u00f0, en fellur alls ekki \u00far gildi. H\u00fan \u00fatsk\u00fdrir hi\u00f0 \u00f3m\u00f6gulega verkefni hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3knast \u00f6llum hvernig ala eigi upp b\u00f6rnin og vera m\u00f3\u00f0ir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vertu \u00f3l\u00e9tt. Eignastu b\u00f6rn. En ekki of snemma. Og ekki of seint. Einhverssta\u00f0ar milli 27-35 \u00e1ra er f\u00ednt. 25 er svo ungt a\u00f0 eignast b\u00f6rn. Yfir 35 er bara \u00f6ldrunarme\u00f0ganga. Eignastu barni\u00f0 \u00e1 e\u00f0lilegan h\u00e1tt. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a au\u00f0velt. Allir ver\u00f0a \u00f3l\u00e9ttir einhvernt\u00edma.<\/p>\n

Misstir\u00f0u barn? Ekki hafa \u00e1hyggjur, \u00fea\u00f0 gerist. \u00deessu var ekki \u00e6tla\u00f0 a\u00f0 gerast. \u00deetta er e\u00f0lilegt. \u00de\u00fa eignast anna\u00f0 og gleymir \u00feessu \u00f6llu. Ekki fara \u00ed uppn\u00e1m. Ekki vera rei\u00f0. N\u00e6st skaltu ekki l\u00e1ta neinn vita fyrr en 12 vikur eru li\u00f0nar. Nj\u00f3ttu n\u00e6stu me\u00f0g\u00f6ngu. Ekki vera kv\u00ed\u00f0in. Allt ver\u00f0ur \u00ed lagi.<\/p>\n

Betra er a\u00f0 vera \u00ed formi \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert \u00f3l\u00e9tt. Ekki samt \u00ed of g\u00f3\u00f0u formi, \u00fe\u00fa g\u00e6tir meitt barni\u00f0. Bor\u00f0a\u00f0u gr\u00e6nmeti. Bor\u00f0a\u00f0u kj\u00f6t. Taktu v\u00edtam\u00edn. Ekki \u00feessi, heldur \u00feessi. B\u00e6ttu \u00e1 \u00feig. Ekki samt of miki\u00f0, \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt svo erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 grennast eftir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert b\u00fain a\u00f0 eiga. Ekki drekka kaffi. Drekktu meira vatn. Ekki stressa \u00feig, \u00fea\u00f0 mei\u00f0ir barni\u00f0. Ertu ekki stressu\u00f0? F\u00e6\u00f0ing er \u00f3gnvekjandi.<\/p>\n

Veistu kyni\u00f0? \u00c9g tr\u00fai ekki a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa \u201ever\u00f0ir ekki a\u00f0 vita \u00fea\u00f0\u201c. Eru\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 b\u00fain a\u00f0 velja n\u00f6fn? Ekki velja nafn fyrr en \u00fe\u00fa hittir barni\u00f0. Ertu me\u00f0 fyrsta flokks v\u00f6ggu, b\u00edlst\u00f3l, rassakrem, bleyjupoka? Af hverju eyddir\u00f0u svona miklu? Minna er meira.<\/p>\n

F\u00e6ddu \u00e1 e\u00f0lilegan h\u00e1tt. Pott\u00fe\u00e9tt f\u00e1\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r m\u00e6nudeyfingu. F\u00f3rstu \u00ed keisara? Voru ekki a\u00f0rar lei\u00f0ir? Gef\u00f0u barni\u00f0 brj\u00f3st, \u00fea\u00f0 er best. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt er of st\u00f3rt. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt er of l\u00edti\u00f0, \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft a\u00f0 gefa \u00fev\u00ed \u00feurrmj\u00f3lk, \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00e6rist ekki n\u00f3g. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt gr\u00e6tur miki\u00f0. Nota\u00f0u snuddu. Ekki nota snuddu, \u00fea\u00f0 truflar brj\u00f3stagj\u00f6fina. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt \u00e6tti a\u00f0 sofa meira. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 sofa meira. Sofi\u00f0 saman. B\u00edddu, ekki gera \u00fea\u00f0. L\u00e1ttu barni\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta \u00fear til \u00fea\u00f0 sofnar. Ekki l\u00e1ta barni\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta \u00fear til \u00fea\u00f0 sofnar, \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6ttulegt.<\/p>\n

Ekki hlusta \u00e1 inns\u00e6i\u00f0. \u00de\u00fa ert of \u00fereytt. Sof\u00f0u \u00feegar barni\u00f0 sefur. En n\u00e1\u00f0u a\u00f0 gera \u00feetta allt \u00ed dag. \u00dea\u00f0 eru sex vikur s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1ttir. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 \u201en\u00e1 \u00ed l\u00edkamann \u00feinn aftur.\u201c Far\u00f0u \u00ed r\u00e6ktina. Ekki \u00ed \u00feessa r\u00e6kt, \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6ttulegt. Elska\u00f0u l\u00edkamann \u00feinn. Slitna\u00f0ir\u00f0u?<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 vera gl\u00f6\u00f0. Af hverju ertu lei\u00f0? \u00de\u00fa ert svo heppin a\u00f0 eiga barn. Af hverju \u00e6ttir\u00f0u a\u00f0 vera kv\u00ed\u00f0in? Ekki \u00f6skra. Vertu r\u00f3leg. \u00de\u00fa ert of r\u00f3leg. Aga\u00f0u barni\u00f0 \u00feitt. Hlusta\u00f0u \u00e1 barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>\n

Byrja\u00f0u a\u00f0 gefa mat snemma. En b\u00edddu \u00fear til eftir sex m\u00e1na\u00f0a. Mauka\u00f0u matinn. \u00dea\u00f0 er betra fyrir \u00feroskann og reynsluna. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt g\u00e6ti kafna\u00f0. Byrja\u00f0u \u00e1 banana. Banani er of s\u00e6tur. Byrja\u00f0u \u00e1 einhverju sem er minna s\u00e6tt. Ekki nota salt. Ekki nota krydd. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt vill ekki bor\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er ekkert brag\u00f0 af matnum.<\/p>\n

Haf\u00f0u b\u00f6rnin heima. \u00deau eru l\u00edtil \u00ed svo stuttan t\u00edma. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 vera a\u00f0 vinna. Hvernig komist \u00fei\u00f0 af \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert ekki a\u00f0 vinna? Pabbinn er heima? \u00dea\u00f0 er n\u00fdtt.<\/p>\n

Gef\u00f0u brj\u00f3st \u00ed tv\u00f6 \u00e1r. Nota\u00f0u pumpu. Hvernig hefur\u00f0u t\u00edma til a\u00f0 nota pumpu? Hefur\u00f0u ekkert a\u00f0 gera.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00fa vir\u00f0ist hafa \u00feetta allt \u00e1 hreinu! \u00de\u00fa l\u00edtur \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 \u00feurfa hj\u00e1lp. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert m\u00e1l a\u00f0 vera mamma. Hlusta\u00f0u \u00e1 inns\u00e6i\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00deetta er andlegt \u00e1reiti sem lagt er \u00e1 m\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00ed n\u00fat\u00edmasamf\u00e9lagi sem veit gersamlega \u201eallt.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Heimild: Mother.ly<\/em><\/p>\n

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Konur og s\u00e9rstaklega m\u00e6\u00f0ur eru undir miklu \u00e1lagi a\u00f0 standa sig, hvar sem er, hven\u00e6r sem er. Alla daga krefst samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 l\u00edtum vel \u00fat og heg\u00f0un okkar er d\u00e6md (hvort sem vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkennum \u00fea\u00f0 e\u00f0ur ei).<\/strong><\/p>

Dr. Caitlin Zietz skrifa\u00f0i fr\u00e1b\u00e6ran pistil um m\u00f3\u00f0urhlutverki\u00f0, sem kannski margir hafa lesi\u00f0, en fellur alls ekki \u00far gildi. H\u00fan \u00fatsk\u00fdrir hi\u00f0 \u00f3m\u00f6gulega verkefni hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3knast \u00f6llum hvernig ala eigi upp b\u00f6rnin og vera m\u00f3\u00f0ir.<\/strong><\/p>

Vertu \u00f3l\u00e9tt. Eignastu b\u00f6rn. En ekki of snemma. Og ekki of seint. Einhverssta\u00f0ar milli 27-35 \u00e1ra er f\u00ednt. 25 er svo ungt a\u00f0 eignast b\u00f6rn. Yfir 35 er tali\u00f0 \u00f6ldrunarme\u00f0ganga. Eignastu barni\u00f0 \u00e1 e\u00f0lilegan h\u00e1tt. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a au\u00f0velt. Allir ver\u00f0a \u00f3l\u00e9ttir einhvernt\u00edma.<\/p>

Misstir\u00f0u barn? Ekki hafa \u00e1hyggjur, \u00fea\u00f0 gerist. \u00deessu var ekki \u00e6tla\u00f0 a\u00f0 gerast. \u00deetta er e\u00f0lilegt. \u00de\u00fa eignast anna\u00f0 og gleymir \u00feessu \u00f6llu. Ekki fara \u00ed uppn\u00e1m. Ekki vera rei\u00f0. N\u00e6st skaltu ekki l\u00e1ta neinn vita fyrr en 12 vikur eru li\u00f0nar. Nj\u00f3ttu n\u00e6stu me\u00f0g\u00f6ngu. Ekki vera kv\u00ed\u00f0in. Allt ver\u00f0ur \u00ed lagi.<\/p>

Vertu \u00ed formi \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert \u00f3l\u00e9tt. Ekki samt \u00ed of g\u00f3\u00f0u formi, \u00fe\u00fa g\u00e6tir meitt barni\u00f0. Bor\u00f0a\u00f0u gr\u00e6nmeti. Bor\u00f0a\u00f0u kj\u00f6t. Taktu v\u00edtam\u00edn. Ekki \u00feessi, heldur \u00feessi. B\u00e6ttu \u00e1 \u00feig. Ekki samt of miki\u00f0, \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt svo erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 grennast eftir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert b\u00fain a\u00f0 eiga. Ekki drekka kaffi. Drekktu meira vatn. Ekki stressa \u00feig, \u00fea\u00f0 mei\u00f0ir barni\u00f0. Ertu ekki stressu\u00f0? F\u00e6\u00f0ing er \u00f3gnvekjandi.<\/p>

Veistu kyni\u00f0? \u00c9g tr\u00fai ekki a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa \u201ever\u00f0ir ekki a\u00f0 vita \u00fea\u00f0\u201c. Eru\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 b\u00fain a\u00f0 velja n\u00f6fn? Ekki velja nafn fyrr en \u00fe\u00fa hittir barni\u00f0. Ertu me\u00f0 fyrsta flokks v\u00f6ggu, b\u00edlst\u00f3l, rassakrem, bleyjupoka? Af hverju eyddir\u00f0u svona miklu? Minna er meira.<\/p>

F\u00e6ddu \u00e1 e\u00f0lilegan h\u00e1tt. Pott\u00fe\u00e9tt f\u00e1\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r m\u00e6nudeyfingu. F\u00f3rstu \u00ed keisara? Voru ekki a\u00f0rar lei\u00f0ir? Gef\u00f0u barni\u00f0 brj\u00f3st, \u00fea\u00f0 er best. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt er of st\u00f3rt. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt er of l\u00edti\u00f0, \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft a\u00f0 gefa \u00fev\u00ed \u00feurrmj\u00f3lk, \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00e6rist ekki n\u00f3g. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt gr\u00e6tur miki\u00f0. Nota\u00f0u snuddu. Ekki nota snuddu, \u00fea\u00f0 truflar brj\u00f3stagj\u00f6fina. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt \u00e6tti a\u00f0 sofa meira. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 sofa meira. Sofi\u00f0 saman. B\u00edddu, ekki gera \u00fea\u00f0. L\u00e1ttu barni\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta \u00fear til \u00fea\u00f0 sofnar. Ekki l\u00e1ta barni\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta \u00fear til \u00fea\u00f0 sofnar, \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6ttulegt.<\/p>

Ekki hlusta \u00e1 inns\u00e6i\u00f0. \u00de\u00fa ert of \u00fereytt. Sof\u00f0u \u00feegar barni\u00f0 sefur. En n\u00e1\u00f0u a\u00f0 gera \u00feetta allt \u00ed dag. \u00dea\u00f0 eru sex vikur s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1ttir. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 \u201en\u00e1 \u00ed l\u00edkamann \u00feinn aftur.\u201c Far\u00f0u \u00ed r\u00e6ktina. Ekki \u00ed \u00feessa r\u00e6kt, \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6ttulegt. Elska\u00f0u l\u00edkamann \u00feinn. Slitna\u00f0ir\u00f0u?<\/p>

\u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 vera gl\u00f6\u00f0. Af hverju ertu lei\u00f0? \u00de\u00fa ert svo heppin a\u00f0 eiga barn. Af hverju \u00e6ttir\u00f0u a\u00f0 vera kv\u00ed\u00f0in? Ekki \u00f6skra. Vertu r\u00f3leg. \u00de\u00fa ert of r\u00f3leg. Aga\u00f0u barni\u00f0 \u00feitt. Hlusta\u00f0u \u00e1 barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>

Byrja\u00f0u a\u00f0 gefa mat snemma. En b\u00edddu \u00fear til eftir sex m\u00e1na\u00f0a. Mauka\u00f0u matinn. \u00dea\u00f0 er betra fyrir \u00feroskann og reynsluna. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt g\u00e6ti kafna\u00f0. Byrja\u00f0u \u00e1 banana. Banani er of s\u00e6tur. Byrja\u00f0u \u00e1 einhverju sem er minna s\u00e6tt. Ekki nota salt. Ekki nota krydd. Barni\u00f0 \u00feitt vill ekki bor\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er ekkert brag\u00f0 af matnum.<\/p>

Vertu heima me\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin. \u00deau eru l\u00edtil \u00ed svo stuttan t\u00edma. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6ttir a\u00f0 vera a\u00f0 vinna. Hvernig komist \u00fei\u00f0 af \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert ekki a\u00f0 vinna? Pabbinn er heima? \u00dea\u00f0 er n\u00fdtt.<\/p>

Gef\u00f0u brj\u00f3st \u00ed tv\u00f6 \u00e1r. Nota\u00f0u pumpu. Hvernig hefur\u00f0u t\u00edma til a\u00f0 nota pumpu? Hefur\u00f0u ekkert a\u00f0 gera.<\/p>

\u00de\u00fa vir\u00f0ist hafa \u00feetta allt \u00e1 hreinu! \u00de\u00fa l\u00edtur \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 \u00feurfa hj\u00e1lp. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert m\u00e1l a\u00f0 vera mamma. Hlusta\u00f0u \u00e1 inns\u00e6i\u00f0.<\/p>

\u00deetta er andlegt \u00e1reiti sem lagt er \u00e1 m\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00ed n\u00fat\u00edmasamf\u00e9lagi sem veit gersamlega \u201eallt.\u201c<\/em><\/p>

Heimild: Mother.ly<\/em><\/p>

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