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H\u00e9r eru nokkur r\u00e1\u00f0 hvernig h\u00f6ndla megi a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Allir vir\u00f0ast vita hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 ala upp barni\u00f0 \u00feitt, f\u00f3lk sem hefur \u00e1tt b\u00f6rn \u00e1\u00f0ur og meira a\u00f0 segja \u00feeir sem engin b\u00f6rn eiga. \u00dea\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist sem einhver viti alltaf betur hvernig ala eigi upp barni\u00f0 \u00feitt heldur en \u00fe\u00fa.<\/p>\n

Og hvort sem manneskjan sem gefur r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 meinar vel og vill hj\u00e1lpa e\u00f0a er bara a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna \u00feig er erfitt a\u00f0 vita hvernig breg\u00f0ast eigi vi\u00f0.<\/p>\n

A\u00f0 eiga vi\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdni<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00deegar einhver er bara a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna uppeldisa\u00f0fer\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00ednar getur \u00fea\u00f0 fari\u00f0 illa \u00ed mann. Og stundum, \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur, veit fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk ekki s\u00edn m\u00f6rk \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 annarra manna b\u00f6rnum.<\/p>\n

Algengt er a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk gagnr\u00fdni foreldra vegna eftirfarandi:<\/p>\n

Fj\u00f6lskyldunafna \u2013\u201eSk\u00edr\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00fa barni\u00f0 ekki eftir \u00f6mmunni? \u00c9g h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri hef\u00f0 \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

A\u00f0 sofa upp\u00ed \u2013 \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6ttulegt a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta b\u00f6rnin sofa \u00ed \u00fe\u00ednu r\u00fami og \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6ttir ekki a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Taubleyjur valda \u00fatbrotum \u2013 \u201eH\u00fan er a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00fatbrot \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan situr \u00ed tauinu og ekkert s\u00fdgur upp pissi\u00f0.\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

Brj\u00f3stagj\u00f6f \u2013 \u201eErtu a\u00f0 gefa honum aftur? Var hann ekki a\u00f0 drekka fyrir klukkut\u00edma?\u201c<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00deegar vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um foreldrar f\u00e1um vi\u00f0 alveg okkar skerf af \u00feessum r\u00e1\u00f0um, stundum upp a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed marki a\u00f0 okkur langar a\u00f0 garga: \u201eH\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 segja m\u00e9r hvernig \u00e9g \u00e1 a\u00f0 ala barni\u00f0 mitt upp!\u201c<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er samt ekki sni\u00f0ug samskiptalei\u00f0 og getur hreinlega ey\u00f0ilagt samb\u00f6nd okkar vi\u00f0 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 taka r\u00e1\u00f0unum (\u00f3umbe\u00f0nu) \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e6ra sig e\u00f0a \u00e6sa sig. H\u00e9r eru nokkrar g\u00f3\u00f0ar lei\u00f0ir:<\/p>\n

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Vertu r\u00f3leg<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00cd fyrsta lagi, ef \u00fe\u00fa ert n\u00fdb\u00fain a\u00f0 eiga barn, ertu l\u00edklega \u00ed tilfinningar\u00fass\u00edbana vegna horm\u00f3nabreytinganna sem l\u00edkaminn er a\u00f0 fara \u00ed gegnum. Af \u00feessum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um er mj\u00f6g mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt r\u00f3leg og yfirvegu\u00f0, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00feegar barni\u00f0 er n\u00e1l\u00e6gt. Barni\u00f0 skynjar strax a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt \u00ed uppn\u00e1mi og getur sj\u00e1lft komist \u00ed uppn\u00e1m og fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta.<\/p>\n

Hlusta\u00f0u og greindu hva\u00f0 skiptir m\u00e1li<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er alltaf mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 hlusta \u00e1 \u00feessi r\u00e1\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feau geta \u00ed alv\u00f6ru veri\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpleg. \u00deegar einhver er a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa, vertu viss um a\u00f0 vega og meta r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 og hvort \u00fea\u00f0 g\u00e6ti gagnast ykkur. Ef r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 er bara einhver vitleysa, reyndu a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 sem vind um eyrun \u00fej\u00f3ta.<\/p>\n

Hver gefur r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vertu viss a\u00f0 \u00edhuga hver er a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0leggja \u00fe\u00e9r. Er \u00fea\u00f0 mamma \u00fe\u00edn sem er raunverulega annt um \u00feig og vill hj\u00e1lpa e\u00f0a einhver \u00f3kunnugur sem \u00feekkir \u00feig jafnvel ekki e\u00f0a barni\u00f0 \u00feitt? \u00dev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur er sumt f\u00f3lk sem r\u00e6\u00f0ur ekki vi\u00f0 sig og finnst nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna foreldra og \u00feeirra \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00e6r eru ekki n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i gert hlutina. Staldra\u00f0u vi\u00f0 og \u00edhuga\u00f0u hvort r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 komi fr\u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0um sta\u00f0 e\u00f0a ekki.<\/p>\n

Veldu bar\u00e1tturnar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eitt af \u00fev\u00ed st\u00e6rsta sem allir foreldrar \u00feurfa a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra me\u00f0 b\u00f6rn er a\u00f0 velja bar\u00e1tturnar vel. Sama \u00e1 vi\u00f0 um uppeldisr\u00e1\u00f0.<\/p>\n

Stundum dekra afi og amma b\u00f6rnin og kannski ertu ekki samm\u00e1la \u00fev\u00ed sem b\u00f6rnin komast upp me\u00f0 hj\u00e1 \u00feeim. Til d\u00e6mis: \u201eAmma leyfir okkur alltaf a\u00f0 f\u00e1 k\u00f6ku \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0inni\u201c og \u00fe\u00e1 er f\u00ednt a\u00f0 svara \u201e\u00c9g er ekki amma \u00fe\u00edn og hlutirnir eru \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi heima hj\u00e1 okkur.\u201c \u00dea\u00f0 eru sumir hlutir sem er ekki \u00feess vir\u00f0i a\u00f0 r\u00edfast yfir, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki a\u00f0 ska\u00f0a barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>\n

Lestu \u00fe\u00e9r til<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ef \u00fe\u00fa veist ekki \u00ed raun hva\u00f0 er besta \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unin var\u00f0andi eitthva\u00f0 er f\u00ednt a\u00f0 uppfr\u00e6\u00f0a sig. og \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur fundi\u00f0 svari\u00f0 og hefur eitthva\u00f0 haldb\u00e6rt er \u00e1g\u00e6tt a\u00f0 deila \u00fev\u00ed me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum. Til d\u00e6mis a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 nota taubleyjur og stundum jafnvel betra en plastbleyjur vegna hitans og efnanna sem \u00fer\u00fdstast upp a\u00f0 barninu.<\/p>\n

E\u00f0a a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00e1 brj\u00f3sti melta mj\u00f3lkina \u00e1 undaver\u00f0an hra\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan er fullkomlega h\u00f6nnu\u00f0 fyrir l\u00edkama \u00feeirra. Og af \u00feeim \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00feurfa \u00feau a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a oftar en barn sem drekkur \u00feurrmj\u00f3lk.<\/p>\n

Og \u00fe\u00fa getur \u00fatsk\u00fdrt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 fullkomlega ska\u00f0laust a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta barni\u00f0 sofa upp\u00ed ef \u00fe\u00fa gerir r\u00e1\u00f0stafanir \u00e1\u00f0ur.<\/p>\n

Treystu inns\u00e6inu<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00f6mmur er \u201eforrita\u00f0ar\u201c \u00e1 \u00e1kve\u00f0inn h\u00e1tt \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum \u00feeirra. Hvort sem \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 vita n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega hva\u00f0 barni\u00f0 \u00fearfnast \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 gr\u00e6tur, e\u00f0a vita alveg hva\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fev\u00ed l\u00ed\u00f0a betur, eru m\u00f6mmurnar alveg \u00ed takt vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin s\u00edn. \u00deannig ef \u00fe\u00fa ert ekki viss um r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0, treystu m\u00f6mmuinns\u00e6inu.<\/p>\n

Allar fj\u00f6lskyldur eru misjafnar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sumir afar og \u00f6mmur telja a\u00f0 n\u00fdjir foreldrar eigi a\u00f0 gera n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og \u00feau \u00feegar \u00feau \u00f3lu upp b\u00f6rn. \u00dea\u00f0 er bara rugl. \u00de\u00f3 eitthva\u00f0 hafi virka\u00f0 fyrir \u00feessa fj\u00f6lskyldu \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir \u00fea\u00f0 ekki a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 virki fyrir \u00fe\u00edna. A\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur eru \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi, uppeldisa\u00f0fer\u00f0ir virka ekki eins \u00e1 alla. \u00dea\u00f0 er engin ein fullkomin lei\u00f0. Allir eru bara alltaf a\u00f0 gera sitt besta.<\/p>\n

Spyr\u00f0u barnal\u00e6kninn \u00feinn<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00deegar r\u00e1\u00f0 kemur sem tengist heilsu barnsins er alltaf h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 spyrja l\u00e6kninn. \u00deannig veistu n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega hva\u00f0 er r\u00e9tt.<\/p>\n

T\u00edmarnir breytast<\/strong><\/p>\n

Eitt sem hafa ber \u00ed huga er a\u00f0 t\u00edmarnir breytast s\u00ed\u00f0an foreldrar okkar \u00f3lu okkur upp. Til d\u00e6mis \u00feegar vi\u00f0 vorum l\u00edtil var m\u00e6lt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 sv\u00e6fi \u00e1 maganum til a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 svelgdist \u00e1. \u00cd dag er bara m\u00e6lt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 sofi \u00e1 bakinu til a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 kafni ekki.<\/p>\n

Me\u00f0 n\u00fdrri t\u00e6kni og ranns\u00f3knum er alltaf veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 s\u00e9 b\u00f6rnum fyrir bestu og \u00fea\u00f0 er bara f\u00ednt a\u00f0 geta \u00fatsk\u00fdrt \u00fea\u00f0 fyrir f\u00f3lki.<\/p>\n

Vertu hreinskilin\/n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ein af bestu lei\u00f0inum til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa \u00feeim einstakling sem er a\u00f0 gefa \u00fe\u00e9r \u00f3umbe\u00f0in r\u00e1\u00f0 er a\u00f0 koma hreint fram. Reyndu a\u00f0 setjast ni\u00f0ur me\u00f0 honum e\u00f0a henni og \u00fatsk\u00fdr\u00f0u hvernig \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00feegar veri\u00f0 er a\u00f0 skipta s\u00e9r af og segja \u00fe\u00e9r hvernig ala eigi upp barni\u00f0, \u00feannig f\u00e1ir \u00fe\u00fa ekki t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00e1lf\/ur.<\/p>\n

\u00cd mj\u00f6g m\u00f6rgum tilfellum \u00e1ttar f\u00f3lk sig ekki \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hefur gengi\u00f0 of langt. A\u00f0 vera hreinskilin\/n heldur samskiptunum uppi \u00e1 bor\u00f0inu, setur m\u00f6rk og styrkir sambandi\u00f0.<\/p>\n

Settu m\u00f6rk<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00deegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur sagt manneskjunni \u00feetta reyndu a\u00f0 setja m\u00f6rk svo h\u00fan viti hva\u00f0a l\u00ednu h\u00fan getur ekki fari\u00f0 yfir. \u00deetta er fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt fyrir \u00f6mmur og afa til a\u00f0 bakka \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra a\u00f0 ala upp barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>\n

Stattu me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00deegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur sett m\u00f6rk, veri\u00f0 hreinskilin\/n og allt \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u00e1 hreinu og einhver heldur \u00e1fram a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 segja \u00fe\u00e9r hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa eigir a\u00f0 gera, stattu fast \u00e1 \u00fe\u00ednu. Ger\u00f0u f\u00f3lki lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert foreldri\u00f0, ekki \u00feessi a\u00f0ili. Og \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa ert foreldri\u00f0 tekur \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir fyrir barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>\n

Klappa\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1 baki\u00f0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er erfitt a\u00f0 vera foreldri. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 hefur enginn haldi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 au\u00f0velt, en \u00fea\u00f0 er vissulega erfi\u00f0ara a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 hvernig ala eigi upp barn \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt gagnr\u00fdndur og f\u00e6r misv\u00edsandi r\u00e1\u00f0 \u00far \u00f6llum \u00e1ttum.<\/p>\n

Mundu bara a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 gera eins vel og \u00fe\u00fa getur og klappa\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1 baki\u00f0 fyrir \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n

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Flestir kannast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 eignast n\u00fdtt barn og allt \u00ed einu eru allir a\u00f0 segja \u00fe\u00e9r hvernig \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt a\u00f0 ala \u00fea\u00f0 upp og gera hlutina. H\u00e9r eru nokkur r\u00e1\u00f0 hvernig h\u00f6ndla megi a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. Allir vir\u00f0ast vita hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 ala upp barni\u00f0 \u00feitt, f\u00f3lk sem hefur \u00e1tt b\u00f6rn \u00e1\u00f0ur og meira a\u00f0 segja \u00feeir […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":5621,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"

Flestir kannast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 eignast n\u00fdtt barn og allt \u00ed einu eru allir a\u00f0 segja \u00fe\u00e9r hvernig \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt a\u00f0 ala \u00fea\u00f0 upp og gera hlutina. H\u00e9r eru nokkur r\u00e1\u00f0 hvernig h\u00f6ndla megi a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur.<\/strong><\/p>

Allir vir\u00f0ast vita hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 ala upp barni\u00f0 \u00feitt, f\u00f3lk sem hefur \u00e1tt b\u00f6rn \u00e1\u00f0ur og meira a\u00f0 segja \u00feeir sem engin b\u00f6rn eiga. \u00dea\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist sem einhver viti alltaf betur hvernig ala eigi upp barni\u00f0 \u00feitt heldur en \u00fe\u00fa.<\/p>

Og hvort sem manneskjan sem gefur r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 meinar vel og vill hj\u00e1lpa e\u00f0a er bara a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna \u00feig er erfitt a\u00f0 vita hvernig breg\u00f0ast eigi vi\u00f0.<\/p>

A\u00f0 eiga vi\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdni<\/em><\/strong><\/p>

\u00deegar einhver er bara a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna uppeldisa\u00f0fer\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00ednar getur \u00fea\u00f0 fari\u00f0 illa \u00ed mann. Og stundum, \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur, veit fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk ekki s\u00edn m\u00f6rk \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 annarra manna b\u00f6rnum.<\/p>

Algengt er a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk gagnr\u00fdni foreldra vegna eftirfarandi:<\/p>

Fj\u00f6lskyldunafna \u2013\u201eSk\u00edr\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00fa barni\u00f0 ekki eftir \u00f6mmunni? \u00c9g h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri hef\u00f0 \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni?\u201c<\/em><\/p>

A\u00f0 sofa upp\u00ed \u2013 \u201e\u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6ttulegt a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta b\u00f6rnin sofa \u00ed \u00fe\u00ednu r\u00fami og \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6ttir ekki a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0.\u201c<\/em><\/p>

Taubleyjur valda \u00fatbrotum \u2013 \u201eH\u00fan er a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00fatbrot \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan situr \u00ed tauinu og ekkert s\u00fdgur upp pissi\u00f0.\u201c<\/em><\/p>

Brj\u00f3stagj\u00f6f \u2013 \u201eErtu a\u00f0 gefa honum aftur? Var hann ekki a\u00f0 drekka fyrir klukkut\u00edma?\u201c<\/em><\/p>

\u00a0<\/em><\/p>

\u00deegar vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um foreldrar f\u00e1um vi\u00f0 alveg okkar skerf af \u00feessum r\u00e1\u00f0um, stundum upp a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed marki a\u00f0 okkur langar a\u00f0 garga: \u201eH\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 segja m\u00e9r hvernig \u00e9g \u00e1 a\u00f0 ala barni\u00f0 mitt upp!\u201c<\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 er samt ekki sni\u00f0ug samskiptalei\u00f0 og getur hreinlega ey\u00f0ilagt samb\u00f6nd okkar vi\u00f0 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 taka r\u00e1\u00f0unum (\u00f3umbe\u00f0nu) \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e6ra sig e\u00f0a \u00e6sa sig. H\u00e9r eru nokkrar g\u00f3\u00f0ar lei\u00f0ir:<\/p>

\u00a0<\/p>

Vertu r\u00f3leg<\/strong><\/p>

\u00cd fyrsta lagi, ef \u00fe\u00fa ert n\u00fdb\u00fain a\u00f0 eiga barn, ertu l\u00edklega \u00ed tilfinningar\u00fass\u00edbana vegna horm\u00f3nabreytinganna sem l\u00edkaminn er a\u00f0 fara \u00ed gegnum. Af \u00feessum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um er mj\u00f6g mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt r\u00f3leg og yfirvegu\u00f0, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00feegar barni\u00f0 er n\u00e1l\u00e6gt. Barni\u00f0 skynjar strax a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt \u00ed uppn\u00e1mi og getur sj\u00e1lft komist \u00ed uppn\u00e1m og fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta.<\/p>

Hlusta\u00f0u og greindu hva\u00f0 skiptir m\u00e1li<\/strong><\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 er alltaf mikilv\u00e6gt a\u00f0 hlusta \u00e1 \u00feessi r\u00e1\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feau geta \u00ed alv\u00f6ru veri\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpleg. \u00deegar einhver er a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa, vertu viss um a\u00f0 vega og meta r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 og hvort \u00fea\u00f0 g\u00e6ti gagnast ykkur. Ef r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 er bara einhver vitleysa, reyndu a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 sem vind um eyrun \u00fej\u00f3ta.<\/p>

Hver gefur r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0?<\/strong><\/p>

Vertu viss a\u00f0 \u00edhuga hver er a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0leggja \u00fe\u00e9r. Er \u00fea\u00f0 mamma \u00fe\u00edn sem er raunverulega annt um \u00feig og vill hj\u00e1lpa e\u00f0a einhver \u00f3kunnugur sem \u00feekkir \u00feig jafnvel ekki e\u00f0a barni\u00f0 \u00feitt? \u00dev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur er sumt f\u00f3lk sem r\u00e6\u00f0ur ekki vi\u00f0 sig og finnst nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna foreldra og \u00feeirra \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00e6r eru ekki n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i gert hlutina. Staldra\u00f0u vi\u00f0 og \u00edhuga\u00f0u hvort r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 komi fr\u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0um sta\u00f0 e\u00f0a ekki.<\/p>

Veldu bar\u00e1tturnar<\/strong><\/p>

Eitt af \u00fev\u00ed st\u00e6rsta sem allir foreldrar \u00feurfa a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra me\u00f0 b\u00f6rn er a\u00f0 velja bar\u00e1tturnar vel. Sama \u00e1 vi\u00f0 um uppeldisr\u00e1\u00f0.<\/p>

Stundum dekra afi og amma b\u00f6rnin og kannski ertu ekki samm\u00e1la \u00fev\u00ed sem b\u00f6rnin komast upp me\u00f0 hj\u00e1 \u00feeim. Til d\u00e6mis: \u201eAmma leyfir okkur alltaf a\u00f0 f\u00e1 k\u00f6ku \u00ed b\u00fa\u00f0inni\u201c og \u00fe\u00e1 er f\u00ednt a\u00f0 svara \u201e\u00c9g er ekki amma \u00fe\u00edn og hlutirnir eru \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi heima hj\u00e1 okkur.\u201c \u00dea\u00f0 eru sumir hlutir sem er ekki \u00feess vir\u00f0i a\u00f0 r\u00edfast yfir, s\u00e9rstaklega \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki a\u00f0 ska\u00f0a barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>

Lestu \u00fe\u00e9r til<\/strong><\/p>

Ef \u00fe\u00fa veist ekki \u00ed raun hva\u00f0 er besta \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unin var\u00f0andi eitthva\u00f0 er f\u00ednt a\u00f0 uppfr\u00e6\u00f0a sig. og \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur fundi\u00f0 svari\u00f0 og hefur eitthva\u00f0 haldb\u00e6rt er \u00e1g\u00e6tt a\u00f0 deila \u00fev\u00ed me\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum. Til d\u00e6mis a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 nota taubleyjur og stundum jafnvel betra en plastbleyjur vegna hitans og efnanna sem \u00fer\u00fdstast upp a\u00f0 barninu.<\/p>

E\u00f0a a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn \u00e1 brj\u00f3sti melta mj\u00f3lkina \u00e1 undaver\u00f0an hra\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan er fullkomlega h\u00f6nnu\u00f0 fyrir l\u00edkama \u00feeirra. Og af \u00feeim \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00feurfa \u00feau a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a oftar en barn sem drekkur \u00feurrmj\u00f3lk.<\/p>

Og \u00fe\u00fa getur \u00fatsk\u00fdrt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 fullkomlega ska\u00f0laust a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta barni\u00f0 sofa upp\u00ed ef \u00fe\u00fa gerir r\u00e1\u00f0stafanir \u00e1\u00f0ur.<\/p>

Treystu inns\u00e6inu<\/strong><\/p>

M\u00f6mmur er \u201eforrita\u00f0ar\u201c \u00e1 \u00e1kve\u00f0inn h\u00e1tt \u00feegar kemur a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum \u00feeirra. Hvort sem \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 vita n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega hva\u00f0 barni\u00f0 \u00fearfnast \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 gr\u00e6tur, e\u00f0a vita alveg hva\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fev\u00ed l\u00ed\u00f0a betur, eru m\u00f6mmurnar alveg \u00ed takt vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin s\u00edn. \u00deannig ef \u00fe\u00fa ert ekki viss um r\u00e1\u00f0i\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0, treystu m\u00f6mmuinns\u00e6inu.<\/p>

Allar fj\u00f6lskyldur eru misjafnar<\/strong><\/p>

Sumir afar og \u00f6mmur telja a\u00f0 n\u00fdjir foreldrar eigi a\u00f0 gera n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og \u00feau \u00feegar \u00feau \u00f3lu upp b\u00f6rn. \u00dea\u00f0 er bara rugl. \u00de\u00f3 eitthva\u00f0 hafi virka\u00f0 fyrir \u00feessa fj\u00f6lskyldu \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir \u00fea\u00f0 ekki a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 virki fyrir \u00fe\u00edna. A\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur eru \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi, uppeldisa\u00f0fer\u00f0ir virka ekki eins \u00e1 alla. \u00dea\u00f0 er engin ein fullkomin lei\u00f0. Allir eru bara alltaf a\u00f0 gera sitt besta.<\/p>

Spyr\u00f0u barnal\u00e6kninn \u00feinn<\/strong><\/p>

\u00deegar r\u00e1\u00f0 kemur sem tengist heilsu barnsins er alltaf h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 spyrja l\u00e6kninn. \u00deannig veistu n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega hva\u00f0 er r\u00e9tt.<\/p>

T\u00edmarnir breytast<\/strong><\/p>

Eitt sem hafa ber \u00ed huga er a\u00f0 t\u00edmarnir breytast s\u00ed\u00f0an foreldrar okkar \u00f3lu okkur upp. Til d\u00e6mis \u00feegar vi\u00f0 vorum l\u00edtil var m\u00e6lt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 sv\u00e6fi \u00e1 maganum til a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 svelgdist \u00e1. \u00cd dag er bara m\u00e6lt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 sofi \u00e1 bakinu til a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 kafni ekki.<\/p>

Me\u00f0 n\u00fdrri t\u00e6kni og ranns\u00f3knum er alltaf veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 s\u00e9 b\u00f6rnum fyrir bestu og \u00fea\u00f0 er bara f\u00ednt a\u00f0 geta \u00fatsk\u00fdrt \u00fea\u00f0 fyrir f\u00f3lki.<\/p>

Vertu hreinskilin\/n<\/strong><\/p>

Ein af bestu lei\u00f0inum til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa \u00feeim einstakling sem er a\u00f0 gefa \u00fe\u00e9r \u00f3umbe\u00f0in r\u00e1\u00f0 er a\u00f0 koma hreint fram. Reyndu a\u00f0 setjast ni\u00f0ur me\u00f0 honum e\u00f0a henni og \u00fatsk\u00fdr\u00f0u hvernig \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00feegar veri\u00f0 er a\u00f0 skipta s\u00e9r af og segja \u00fe\u00e9r hvernig ala eigi upp barni\u00f0, \u00feannig f\u00e1ir \u00fe\u00fa ekki t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00e1lf\/ur.<\/p>

\u00cd mj\u00f6g m\u00f6rgum tilfellum \u00e1ttar f\u00f3lk sig ekki \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hefur gengi\u00f0 of langt. A\u00f0 vera hreinskilin\/n heldur samskiptunum uppi \u00e1 bor\u00f0inu, setur m\u00f6rk og styrkir sambandi\u00f0.<\/p>

Settu m\u00f6rk<\/strong><\/p>

\u00deegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur sagt manneskjunni \u00feetta reyndu a\u00f0 setja m\u00f6rk svo h\u00fan viti hva\u00f0a l\u00ednu h\u00fan getur ekki fari\u00f0 yfir. \u00deetta er fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt fyrir \u00f6mmur og afa til a\u00f0 bakka \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra a\u00f0 ala upp barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>

Stattu me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r<\/strong><\/p>

\u00deegar \u00fe\u00fa hefur sett m\u00f6rk, veri\u00f0 hreinskilin\/n og allt \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u00e1 hreinu og einhver heldur \u00e1fram a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 segja \u00fe\u00e9r hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa eigir a\u00f0 gera, stattu fast \u00e1 \u00fe\u00ednu. Ger\u00f0u f\u00f3lki lj\u00f3st a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert foreldri\u00f0, ekki \u00feessi a\u00f0ili. Og \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa ert foreldri\u00f0 tekur \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir fyrir barni\u00f0 \u00feitt.<\/p>

Klappa\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1 baki\u00f0<\/strong><\/p>

\u00dea\u00f0 er erfitt a\u00f0 vera foreldri. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 hefur enginn haldi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 au\u00f0velt, en \u00fea\u00f0 er vissulega erfi\u00f0ara a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 hvernig ala eigi upp barn \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt gagnr\u00fdndur og f\u00e6r misv\u00edsandi r\u00e1\u00f0 \u00far \u00f6llum \u00e1ttum.<\/p>

Mundu bara a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 gera eins vel og \u00fe\u00fa getur og klappa\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1 baki\u00f0 fyrir \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>

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